Even the word "like" can change. When you are young, you like someone to "find differences", the more unconventional you are, the more you like them; The more different you are, the more it attracts your attention. You are lively, he is quiet, he sits there, and there is a light in him. He's holding a basketball and slapping it, and you're in the classroom all day, and he's looking at you as soon as you pull your hair.

And once you reach the marriageable age, liking someone becomes "looking for the same", interests, hobbies, personality, family background, if there is a little contradiction, there will be one more hurdle. You hold the computer and watch Korean dramas, and he says that you are vulgar; He plays games as soon as he gets home, and you say he's not motivated. If you talk too much, you will inevitably quarrel, and if you quarrel too much, you will break up in two.

So the song "I don't want to, I don't want to grow up" is not bluffing. The older you get, the harder it is to fall in love, because it's no longer a situation where you like me and I like you and you can be together, he has his parents behind him, you have your demands behind you, two people stand together, holding a pen to draw the future, and as a result, accidentally draw two parallel lines that do not intersect.

I've heard a story from someone else. I don't know if it's true or not, but it's very intriguing.

A friend's friend, a girl, just over twenty-five years old, a protracted love ended dismally, and from then on he cried that he must find someone rich, no matter how old he is. I really found one later. The man was ten years older than her, but she didn't mind, and happily moved into the villa.

In less than half a year, the girl proposed to break up and moved out again.

It's not that men are bad, according to her, it's also gentle and considerate and empathetic, but there is a problem, the lifestyles of the two people are too far apart.

The male did not graduate from college and broke into his own way, fought until he was thirty-five years old, had two companies, was usually busy in and out, rarely had time to rest, and his leisure and entertainment were mainly to watch football late at night. The girl studied for a master's degree in the United States, in principle, she does not work overtime, she never takes her home from work, and her movies and dramas are like a treasure. The two of them couldn't say a few words a day, and when they spoke, they had conflicts. She didn't understand why he didn't have time to go shopping with her even once, and he didn't understand why she wanted to watch movies that weren't funny, weren't exciting, and didn't have a few lines in the whole process.

It's not that I don't understand, it's that I can't understand it.

The girl thought that for the sake of the villa, she could endure it unconditionally, but later found that it was like a fish in her throat, unable to spit it out, and unable to swallow.

Friends envy her for finding a rich one, and she will not have to worry about food and clothing for the rest of her life. She envied that their boyfriends, although working, could sit together and have dinner every day.

When it comes to falling in love, each of us says that we don't have high requirements, we can have money, we can have breasts, we can be one meter eight, and we can be soft girls, but we really want to go on together, these have become additional questions, and if you answer correctly, you will get extra points, but whether you can pass the exam or not, you can see instead of these.

Sometimes we retreat when we think about the difficult road ahead. Anyway, one person seems to be quite comfortable, and he can't afford to toss himself with the tediousness and run-in of two people's lives.

So it was a person for a long time. So at the end of each year, a cross is drawn after the "single off".

So on Valentine's Day, my best friend made an appointment to accompany her boyfriend who temporarily canceled overtime, you curled up on the sofa with your freshly painted makeup and swiped your phone, and ordered a single meal for takeout. So the wine game failed to make the trip, and the good buddy coaxed his wife at home, and you reopened the computer and hovered on the familiar game, hesitating whether to play another game.

So you opened the circle of friends and Weibo again to see what that person was doing.

Seeing that Ta is also alone, you breathe a sigh of relief.

"Happy Valentine's Day!" You leave a message.

—————— "Why Won't We Fall in Love?" 》 End——————