Chapter 232: The Ideal Companion
On December 23, 2011, Chiba wrote a journal about his ideal partner.
Melanie
Melanie is basically perfect, she is kind, benevolent and courageous, possesses all the virtues of the South, is knowledgeable, cultured, thoughtful, and cultivated. The people of the Welx family were fascinated by music, books, and landscapes, and had their comfortable taste for life and their modest and gentle temperament, and they were infatuated with a leisurely and easy-going day. Melanie, the saint of Atlanta. One of the few people that Ritter admired. She is gentle but brave, timid but strong. She always has someone else in mind, not herself. "She always sees what is not worth mentioning as having noble motives." Scarlett never understood that she was protected by Melanie. Melanie. She is a woman who is soft on the outside and strong on the inside, and she has almost all the virtues that a woman can have. As Ritter said, she was one of the few noble ladies he had ever met. She is strong, she is patriotic, and she loves all those around her with her heart. When her husband was fighting, she was silently guarding in the rear, doing what she could, when the North Yankees entered the city and she was about to give birth, she was still calm, when she was weak and no one was working in the field and was about to have no food, she, like Scarlett, put down her past education and sense of superiority, and dragged her weak body to work in the field, when she saw Scarlett kill a North Yankee, she did not panic, but helped bury the body, searched the money, wiped the blood, and when the war was finally over, When the Beiyan soldiers she hated came to her door and asked to take care of them, and they didn't have much food of their own, she helped them as best she could, because she wanted a kind Beiyan woman in the distance to give her husband, who was returning home, a bite to eat.
Such a strong woman, but so gentle, kind and understanding. She persistently believes in Scarlett and Ashley, even if someone sees them hugging each other, she persistently believes in them and protects Scarlett. She knew that her body could no longer bear the pain of childbirth, but she insisted on giving birth to another child for Ashley, and finally left the relatives she had loved all her life.
Noncommittally, I've loved Melanie from the beginning. As the second heroine in the original book, she was endowed by the author with almost all the virtues that a woman could have, she was petite, weak, but sincere and kind, and Ritter said that she was one of the few noble ladies he had ever seen. And, she is strong, and she loves everyone around her with her heart, including Scarlett, who has always regarded her as a rival in love. Her loving heart, her pure soul, her rational mind, her intellectual insight, are all hidden in her ordinary daily life. Such a holy woman is difficult for ordinary women to achieve, and it is rare to see it in life. Her wise eyes are like candlelight, like two bright paths in a chaotic world, always giving people a bright direction. A noble woman does not rely on beauty, and a great woman does not rely on clothes, just as Melanie's nobility and greatness rely on inner kindness, enthusiasm, boldness, and generosity. Born in a scholarly family; love literature; Literature always makes people progress! Melanie not only used literature as a pastime, but also broadened her horizons, increased her knowledge, absorbed its essence to improve herself, and made herself invisibly have a unique temperament; Cultivated a deep literary and artistic education; So as to have all the virtuous and virtuous qualities of a woman. She is stoic, noble, and maintains an elegant and sweet smile throughout. She can always think that the world is beautiful, only see the good in people, and never find that others have shortcomings. Gentle as water, honest and simple, the important thing is that she has an empathetic heart, and her weak shoulders can bear the burden of life. In addition to the soft word, there is also a tough word. Melanie has never deliberately pursued money, she pays more attention to spiritual enjoyment. Ignoring her own postpartum weakness, she resolutely gave up her portion of the already small amount of food to the soldiers they had taken in, and I think she must have thought of her husband Ashley, and hoped that someone would receive him in the same way. Melanie was never upset that she didn't have new clothes, and her humble house was always full of friends, and she was never ashamed of them. She can accept her poverty at any time, as long as she is with the person she loves, it is the happiest thing. But Ashley understands that passion is not enough for two people with different interests. Melanie was not, not only did she share the same blood as him, but she was the only one who truly understood Ashley. She had all the virtues that could be found in a woman, and even though she didn't have the fancy clothes and jewelry, she was still the quintessential lady in Ritter's eyes, remembering that Red said, "She's the only perfectly good person I know." A very great woman! "Gone with the Wind" sings praises to her from beginning to end, and Mitchell seems to be deliberately comparing her to Scarlett, Scarlett is selfish, she is selfless; Scarlett is in good health, she is frail and sickly; Scarlett doesn't know how to cherish happiness, but she knows how to cherish the happiness in front of her. She is a traditional woman who loves her husband and son, cares for everyone around her, and is kind-hearted and empathetic. If there had not been war, she might have spent her life in Twelve Oaks like other housewives, husbands and children, reading, and listening to music. But the war broke the peace of her life, and she overcame her weakness with great courage and firm faith. As timid as she may seem, she was ready when Scarlett killed the Yankee, a knife in her hand, ready to tear her up. Regardless of her own physical weakness, she helps Scarlett work and saves her own food for others. With a love for her homeland, she threw herself into the rear work, facing bloodshed, sacrifice and death in the hospital. In this way, these weak women, because of their kindness, bravery, and strength, have become a source of spirit and strength for the whole of Atlanta, and in their steadfastness and composure one sees hope and calm. Because of their existence, the southern civilization will not be annihilated. Even Scarlett needs to look to Melanie for her mother's support. She never speaks big, and she is gentle and kind. But if you look at her several outbursts at critical moments, she said to the point to the women who mocked Scarlett. She says Mrs. Elsin attacked Scarlett only because Scarlett fired her son, and said that Inti attacked Scarlett only because she was jealous that Scarlett had stolen her lover Charles. Yes, she is actually a caring person, how could such a sensitive woman not know her physical condition, and how could she not know that what Scarlett gave her was not all love and kindness? She just doesn't want to use the heart of a villain to speculate on others, but with a grateful heart, she remembers the dedication that Scarlett and Ritter have made for her, but she knows the difficulties and difficulties of life, she knows that people are not sages, and the world is not perfect, so as Zhang Ailing said, "Because I understand, I am compassionate." It is in this kind of compassion that she knows that Scarlett is so infatuated with Ashley, but she is still so loyal to her and will never allow others to speak ill of Scarlett. She even tolerated Ashley's infidelity, because she always knew that Ashley loved her. Her wisdom is able to penetrate all worldly obstacles and reach the essence of things. In fact, her generosity is not out of Scarlett's "stupidity", nor is it entirely out of the fear of God as a devout Christian - but out of insight into the world, the cultivation of human feelings, and the meticulous cherishing and gratitude of life and the world. It is precisely because of her cherishing of all this that she can consistently be the strong backing of Ashley and Scarlett, who "has nothing but a heart". She is like Charlotte 6?1 Brontë's Jane?6?1 Love, she is not good-looking, she is short, but she has her own judgment and principles about everything, she is quiet, forbearing, sacrificial, and always loves those she admires. She fought for Ashley to have a girl, she fought with her life, she swallowed all the hurt, and even death had a holy light. Although Scarlett didn't want to admit it, she finally believed that in fact, she and Melanie were connected, and she couldn't exist alone from Melanie, even though she seemed to be so strong, and Melanie was so weak. Some people compare Xue Baochai in "Dream of Red Mansions" with her, and I can't compare the advantages and disadvantages of her. Xue Baochai's life is a tragedy, because she can't help herself and has to hide her true heart at any time; And Melanie, except for her weak body, everything she chooses by herself, including death, so her life, despite having a tragic ending, is not a tragedy. No matter what era it is, a kind heart and a contemplative attitude towards life are the foundation of a person's life and the source of happiness. Yi Zhongtian once said that a philosophy that has vitality and can bring happiness and tranquility to everyone should be gray. Coincidentally, Melanie also wore a gray-toned dress for her first appearance. "Women are not lovely because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are cute", Melanie should be the most vivid and appropriate commentary on this sentence. Scarlett's insight is not incumbent, but it is mixed with too much utilitarianism and prejudice, and she is clever, so it is only suitable for troubled times; Melanie's insight is the ability to penetrate all appearances to the peace and tranquility of people's hearts, which is great wisdom, so it can be relied on in both ancient and modern times. Mitchell portrays a Scarlett to make everyone rise in the midst of disaster; Another Melanie was created, so that everyone can achieve long-term happiness in their long lives. Scarlett is real, but Melanie is real.
People who are similar to me, people of the same type, people who can understand each other better, self-introduction is another form of marriage notice
【Summary】Love, kindness, introversion, quietness, thought, culture, cultivation, serious study, undergraduate, masterpiece, animation, Miao, experienced, ordinary appearance
Condition:
Rational part: suitable
Emotional part: I have a good impression and I like it
Main Projects:
Value: Caring
Nationality: Miao
Person: Cultivated
Personality: Introverted
Location: We are in the same city
Hobbies: Famous books, books, animation, table tennis, badminton, music
Bonus points:
Study: Serious and career-oriented
Student status: high school or above
Thought: The Concept of Connection
Hometown: Xiangxi, Hunan
Appearance: Ordinary, not too pretty
Contraindications: Drinking, smoking
Specialized:
Adjectives about people
Kind, optimistic and open-minded, gentle, tolerant, brave, strong, elegant temperament, beautiful, lovely, warm, saint, soft on the outside and strong on the inside, gentle and kind, empathetic, great, pure, upright, quiet, tranquil, strong, noble, bold, generous, virtuous and virtuous, honest and simple, tenacious, sincere, soft temperament, leisurely, considerate, smiling, dignified and virtuous, good wife and mother, insight, personality, perseverance, rebellion, strong, capable, charm, all virtues, knowledge, culture, thought, cultivation, Perfect, ladylike, gentle, sensible, intelligent, reliable, safe, loyal, witty, decisive, vain, timid, selfish, greedy, vulnerable, unruly
【Application】Hua Huiying's younger sister
The emotional part
It feels good, good, and likes to be together
The rational part
Personality: Introverted
Hobbies: Anime, famous books
Study: Seriously
Hometown: Guniao County (same county)
Experience: Have been in a relationship
High School: Yutang High School (same high school)
University: Amagi University (same university)
Major: Chemical Engineering (same major)