"If Anyone Asks Me, Have You Been in Love" • II" / 2016-03-01

So, isn't it simple?

You like her, she doesn't like you,

or she likes you, you don't like her,

There's no way around it.

For each other's happiness, it's better not to be together,

to perfect oneself and to others,

And people who like each other must be together,

After all

The two love each other is destined for fate, and they must be happy after being together,

Unilateral will is really against God, even if they reluctantly come together, all that remains in the future is misfortune.

Understand this truth,

So I feel that boys and girls are the same, and harm is impossible.

Even if you ask me directly if you like me, it's no problem to answer directly, because there is no harm at all, and there is no pain to say.

After all

It's all for everyone's good, hello, I'm good, everyone's good,

What is there to be afraid of, what is there to care about.

The things that I figured out not only gave me the courage to propose to others directly without confessing,

It also gave me the courage to discuss issues with others so calmly after being rejected.

Because

The exchange of views is for the sake of everyone's good, hello, my hello, everyone's good.

I can't even believe it.

I used to think like this,

If you don't have the will, don't let the other party misunderstand,

So all the friends who had a little better relationship were put on hold.

In order not to hurt yourself and not to hurt others.

The things I figured out not only made me recognize some other things about emotions, but even the words I summed up from my life had to be revised;

At the same time, it made me completely abandon the emotion called shyness and the personality called introversion, and got closer to the original undistorted self before the second year of junior high school.

When I was a child, people in the village often praised me for being lively, to borrow something and call people to eat, etc., I went by myself, once a person went to my grandfather's house as a guest, passing by a certain family on the edge of the village, a grandmother saw me a child on the road, so she asked you where you are going, I said to go to my relative's house as a guest, she said come, we are relatives, come in and sit down and have a meal, I really went in to have a meal, and later I learned that it was not relatives at all.

And these are the facts that I can't change in college, no matter how hard I try, and it is impossible to change people's character, which is the conclusion I came to in college, after all, the inherent concepts are deep-rooted.

At that time, I firmly believed,

H and I are destined,

then

（time 2016.02.28 05:00）

With a strong sense of fate with H,

I think

She is too noble, too great,

sacrificing one's original will,

Just for everyone's good, hello, hello, everyone,

I don't love you anymore,

I'm not with you.

At that time, I thought,

We are not similar, if we are not similar, we are not suitable, if we are not suitable, we are not destined by God, and if we go against God, even if we reluctantly come together, what remains in the future is only misfortune. So we should like those who are similar to us, and those who are similar tend to be more destined by God.

Not long ago, there was an example in my village that applied to this principle.

So with a farewell tone,

gave her a QQ message:

I seem to have figured out something, if I think about it this way, everything that has happened is reasonable, I want to say to you, "I'm sorry, I really couldn't figure it out before", you were more sensible than me from the beginning, I will be grateful, save all the remaining memories, and live this life. Best wishes!

At that time, I firmly believed,

H and I are destined,

At that time, I firmly believed,

H and I are destined,

And I made such an awareness,

Write down all my feelings about other people from the time I first met them to the present.

Then, judge for yourself whether I like someone else,

If yes, go on,

There is no need to confess, it is more practical to propose marriage directly,

After all, love or something, it's really unreliable, and if you love someone, it's gone.

Or my relatives love me more, and they will never change,

If yes, still indifferent,

If you continue to communicate, you will only do more harm to yourself and harm yourself.

A crush or something is digging your own grave!

Because the premise of love is that the other party likes themselves, whether they like each other or not is not the focus of love.

To a certain extent, the exchange of views is inevitable,

Because, it's all for everyone's good, hello, hello, everyone!