Chapter 17: What Are You Afraid of?

Zhou Rong locked himself in the study for a long time, and then opened the door to find his mother. He knows that at home, motherhood is the easiest link to break through.

Zhou Rong has been avoiding his parents during this time, and even if he meets, he always keeps his head down and avoids contact with anyone's eyes.

This time, Zhou Rong took the initiative to find his mother, which surprised Ren.

Zhou Rong went straight to the point and told Ren that he wanted to go to Xuanmiaoguan for half a day every seven days. Because he felt that he had fallen into evil spirits, he did it to exorcise evil spirits.

Ren agreed to him almost without hesitation.

Three months ago, her husband had a sudden seizure and whipped Zhou Rong with a whip, which frightened Ren. Zhou Rong, a child, has always been excellent in character and learning, and rarely let adults worry about it, what would make Zhou Can so angry?

At the beginning, no matter how she asked, Zhou Can just didn't speak. But he would be unable to sleep at night tossing and turning and sighing. During the day, he was suspicious and suspicious, always wanting to stare at Zhou Rong if he had something to do. Later, I was so aggrieved that I couldn't help it, and under her questioning, I spit out the truth.

Zhou Rong fell into a habit of inferiority. In his bedroom, many women's pockets and trousers were hidden. When these things were turned out by Zhou Can, there were still clear traces on a pair of obscene pants. I think Zhou Rong didn't have time to take it out and clean it up after he finished it.

At first, when he sent Zhou Rong's long-term entourage to tell him that Zhou Rong would take the clothes that the girls were drying in private, he didn't understand what this meant. It wasn't until he dug out those things in Zhou Rong's study that he suddenly realized.

He was so angry that he took the whip and whipped Zhou Rong ruthlessly. Even if Zhou Rong slept with a girl and went out to drink flower wine, it would not make him so angry. Sleeping with a girl, drinking flower wine, to put it nicely, he is still a literati merry. Zhou Rong's behavior will only make people say that he is shameless, and if it spreads, his old face will not be gone.

You must know that the Zhou family was originally in the generation of Zhou Liang and Zhou Chang, and it has decayed to the point that it is no better than ordinary rich families. After more than 100 years, only a false name remains.

Fortunately, the sky was blessed, and Zhou Jing was selected by the first emperor to be a concubine, and even the Zhou family turned over with him. Zhou Can, as Zhou Jing's cousin, was ordered to supervise the grain road in Shandong. Although as a relative, even if he is an official, he will not hold the position of a political leader, but supervising the grain road is a very affordable errand, and Zhou Can is already very satisfied.

The reason why the first emperor chose Zhou Jing as a colt was because Zhou Jing looked good, and secondly, because he felt that the Zhou family was upright and upright, which was a great favor to the Zhou family.

After the death of the first emperor, Jinshang and the queen mother also had great trust in the horse, but the internal affairs of the clan were very willing to adopt the horse's suggestion, which was also because of the character of Zhou Jing.

If such a scandal breaks out on Zhou Rong, won't the Zhou family's so-called upright family style become a joke? Even the pony will feel disgraced.

After Ren listened, he was not as nervous as Zhou Can. She felt that her son had been too strictly controlled before. Other people's children grew up in Jinxiu, and her son was raised to stay away from the maids and servants since he was a child. Zhou Rong is older, and it's time to know the personnel. Put two people in his house, and he knows the good things about girls, so he won't mess with all that mess. It's a big deal to wait for Zhou Rong to settle down on family affairs, if the woman cares, she will find another place for these two girls.

Zhou Can heard what his wife said seemed to make sense, so he let her arrange it.

As a result, Zhou Rong didn't want to be close to those two girls at all. Zhou Can and his wife really panicked, could it be that Zhou Rong can't treat women? Will only hope for plum to quench thirst?

Where is Ren willing to believe that his son has a problem? She always felt that Zhou Rong might have been evil, or that someone had taken him to spoil.

That day, Dong Zhenzhen said cautiously and euphemistically, Zhou Rong's complexion is not very good during this time, don't hit any more customers, right? Ren felt that she made a lot of sense. But where to find someone who has the Tao to show Zhou Rong? What kind of Taoist doctor is Dong Zhenzhen recommending, I don't know if it's reliable or not?

Before Ren could think about it, Zhou Rong was in trouble again.

After he was beaten by Zhou Can, he swore that the old problems would be changed. But Zhou Can found that he secretly took women's underwear into the study again, and closed the door and didn't know what he was doing.

Zhou Can was so angry that his old eyes were dizzy, and he broke into the study by himself and questioned Zhou Rong. He just didn't understand, Zhou Rong was obviously a sensible child before, and he didn't have to worry about his parents anymore, so why was he like an evil in this matter?

Zhou Rong himself was also angry with himself, and swore in front of Zhou Can that he would never make this mistake again. Zhou Can sneered and didn't believe it, and Zhou Rong was anxious to insert the dagger into his thigh to show his determination.

This led to the matter of looking for Zhang Weizhao for diagnosis and treatment.

Now Zhou Rong told Ren that he was going to the Taoist temple to burn incense and cultivate to exorcise evil spirits, and Ren only felt relieved. That's right, it's just to get rid of the evil, and it's good to drive away the evil.

When the wound on Zhou Rong's leg healed, she began to marry Zhou Rong. Be sure to choose a girl who is beautiful, gentle, and considerate. When the major events of life are decided, collect your heart and live a good life, everything will be fine.

She also specially gave Zhou Rong two hundred taels of silver, and asked him to buy incense, candles, paper, and horses to worship in front of the gods.

So, in the afternoon three days later, Zhou Rong took a carriage and came to the Xuanmiaoguan.

Zhang Weizhao had already picked up the post, knowing that Zhou Rong was going to come over at this time, and brought him into the newly arranged diagnosis and treatment room.

When she brought Zhou Rong into the treatment room, Zhang Weizhao felt a little emotional in her heart, this was the first time she received visitors in her studio after crossing time and space.

Zhou Rong came in and felt very curious about the furnishings of the diagnosis room.

I saw a long table in the middle of the room, and two wide soft chairs were placed on both sides of the table, and cushions were placed on the soft chairs, so that people felt very comfortable to sit on when they saw it. There are a few pots of greenery against the wall, and there is a bamboo bookshelf with books arranged casually but not clutteredly.

"You may be seated." Zhang Weizhao's voice was very gentle, and Zhou Rong felt that she was much kinder to him here than in his house.

Zhou Rong was reluctant to sit down, but walked around on the side of the table, making a look of looking at the interior layout. Zhang Weizhao knew that he was hiding his inner uneasiness, so he asked him to pac, sat on the soft chair opposite, and made an opening statement: "Reiterate the rules in my treatment room." The duration is half an hour, and the next time is reserved after each time. If you want to cancel your appointment, you must notify one day in advance, otherwise you will be charged as usual. In the clinic, all questions can be brought up and discussed, but there can be no physical contact. ”

The basic rules of these counseling are that even in modern society, the psychologist will explain it clearly to the client in advance, otherwise it will lead to all kinds of problems.

For example, some clients will imagine a psychiatrist as a bodhisattva who can help them in distress, or a perfect parent who can provide them with unconditional love. I feel that since you have selflessly helped me, you should not charge, and charging makes the relationship less holy. This is to think of yourself as a child who is incapable of responsibility and prays for unconditional love.

The psychologist should emphasize the charging criteria to make the other party understand that the relationship between the two parties is a collaborative relationship between adults, and you have to pay for the service if you enjoy the service. When you are in better shape, the first thing you should thank is yourself and not the psychiatrist, because it is your own will and efforts that have led to positive results, and you are a person who can take responsibility for yourself.

Another rule that must be followed is that the psychologist and the client must not develop a personal relationship. Because the object and method of the psychologist's work are relatively special, the client is easy to project the emotions and emotions generated in his life to the psychologist. This is called "empathy".

For example, some clients will feel that in this world, only the psychiatrist knows him best, is his soulmate, and ignores that this understanding is achieved in the specific situation of the consultation room.

Some people go on to have erotic projections towards the psychiatrist. For example, some clients will take the initiative to flirt or expose their bodies to seduce a psychiatrist. There are also more direct clients who come to the clinic with condoms and express their desire to have sex with a psychiatrist.

This situation is not scary, and the psychologist can discuss with the client what the underlying mechanisms are behind such emotions and urges. If handled well, this will be a good breakthrough for the client to see the complex hidden in his subconscious, and once the complex is seen, the person will no longer be blindly controlled by it.

Some clients also project their hatred at the psychiatrist and express aggression towards the psychiatrist. If it stays at the level of consciousness and language, it is not terrible, and it can be discussed and dealt with by both parties.

However, as soon as it is converted into an action, such as assaulting the counselor's body or attempting to assault or injure, the treatment should be stopped immediately. Serious cases even require the police.

Therefore, Zhang Weizhao must explain these basic rules to Zhou Rong clearly before the diagnosis and treatment begins. Especially in a time and space where the rule of law is not a society, requiring the other party to comply with the rules of diagnosis and treatment is a necessary protection for psychologists and the basis for the development of mental health.

"Oh, you've told me again and again that there can't be any physical contact. Are you afraid of me? Zhou Rong automatically ignored Zhang Weizhao's part about fees, and focused on the last sentence. He lifted his robe and sat on the soft chair opposite Zhang Weizhao, and said with an unruly smile.

"You want me to be afraid of you, so you don't feel so afraid of me?" Zhang Weizhao asked rhetorically.

"Hah! What am I afraid of? Zhou Rong smiled exaggeratedly.

"You should ask yourself, what are you afraid of? Why are you afraid? ”