People are not "cheap", they are flawed
These six words never came out of my mouth, but they went back and forth in my heart many times.
When I was flipping through the records of my classmates, this sentence in the messages of male classmates became their sweethearts, and even some male classmates' wise words were: People are not cheap, they are flawed! Now that I think of the words they put on their lips at the beginning, it is also this sentence, as if these six short words have become their label, and they are still proud of the label. At that time, I didn't understand why they could proudly say: people are not cheap, they are flawed! You're not cheap? You have no defects? That smile can make them float to the sky! Some of our girls are just passing by and are speechless about it! So after spontaneously, two extremes were formed, one is the boys' faction, once the girls say no or cold-eyed and criticized, the proud face will be exposed, and the other is the girls' faction, which will increase the blow to boys, and never be soft-mouthed! You can imagine that scene!
However, now I feel more and more that this sentence is like that! No one is without flaws, no one is not cheap!
It's like the boy who said this sentence at the beginning, he was very special and cheap! One day, he met a few seniors in the cafeteria who knew they weren't good people at a glance, and he didn't know how to talk about it! They made a bet that as long as he could eat all the bowls of chili sauce, the seniors would give him fifty yuan, and he ate it, but he didn't make any money but was sent to the hospital by the old class and educated him fiercely, and wrote a 2,000-word review! Later, this incident caused a lot of uproar, but he was calm and calm, and said as always: People are not cheap, they are flawed! I don't know why he accepted to bet with others, but he was happy in the end, he could really laugh it off!
There is one more thing: another male classmate, who likes a beautiful girl in the neighboring class, but she already has a boyfriend, and he has been silently liking that girl for three years, all the time, his brother persuaded him to confess, grab or give up, but he still likes her as he goes. Why do I know? He wrote this sentence in my classmates: I will like her from beginning to end! After graduation, everyone is basically separated, I don't know what happened to him? Confession? Or did you choose to give up? However, three years, with the three years when I was a student, I only liked one person, these three years are really not short! Many classmates said: Is he really cheap? He wronged himself, but he was just obsessed with his feelings.
"Cheap" is not a defect, but a small picture in our life, which is not understood or recognized by others. Sometimes we have to live a little more casually, listen to our own inner voice, what do we want to do? I have to do so-and-so! If you don't finish it, it seems that you will leave yourself with regrets? Of course, it's not doing illegal things!
People who occasionally make mistakes will live in a state that they don't expect, which makes people happy or sad, and we should accept them so that we can grow and mature. Because no one can guarantee that they will not be cheap in their life, I will never be cheap, on the contrary, I feel quite happy to be cheap occasionally!