At the beginning of the winter vacation of the first semester of his freshman year, on January 15, 2011, he listed the important people in his circle of friends, and ranked them according to their importance, which was also his appreciation for others and the degree of his desire to communicate.

Because he had encountered it before, he felt that others had seen too much and not bird him, and he was very sad.

So it was approved, while the other party was alone, one by one, and communicated with someone alone.

No. 01-03: Lu Junya, Que Xinyue, Du Leyue

No. 04-09: Li Shilan, Yu Xinxiang, Pu Yudie, Xiaofengya, Mao Liwen, Ta Shaoli

10th-13th place: Tai Huachi, Chu Hongguang, Jian Huahao, An Dashuai

After the ranking, he felt a little strange and asked himself a few questions.

"Why are most of the girls on my list of people I want to talk to?"

"Why do I care more about the relationship with the female classmates in the class among the new classmates, but I don't care much about the relationship with the male classmates, and I don't have anything to work hard for?"

He thought about it, but still found it difficult to answer, so he gave an answer,

"Maybe I'd like to know more about the opposite sex who is similar to me!"

Then, he also decided to update this ranking once a month.

It's just that he didn't realize that by doing so, he was almost picking out the targets for in-depth development.

Li Shilan ranked fourth, and it can be seen that for more than half a year, he has almost forgotten about her, although he has been paying attention to others for nearly a year.

Lu Junya met after Que Xinyue, objectively speaking, her appearance is not as good-looking as Que Xinyue, but she ranks first, which shows that she is still very attractive to him, it is a kind of breath that feels the same kind.

A large part of Du Leyue's third place is due to the fact that the sixth grade, high school, and college are all in the same school, which makes him feel very fateful.

Ao Chuxue, although she paid more attention to him and called him to comfort him when he was sad and uncomfortable, did not appear in this ranking, which shows that she did not enter his heart.

Roommate An Dashuai's appearance and Ji Zhiwei's belong to the same type, when he first came to college, he entered the dormitory, looked at it a few times, and felt that this person must not be simple, and later he found out that An Dashuai likes military affairs, and wanted to be a soldier, but his parents don't agree, what military problems in the dormitory often ask him for advice, he is taller, and people tend to be honest, and he doesn't like to play tricks. It's just that he is not as good as Ji Zhiwei in terms of studies and grades, and he feels deceived by his eyes.

It is said that introverts tend to have the qualities of concentration and perseverance.

The wine of love, two people drink it is nectar, and three people drink it is acetic acid, and if you drink it casually, you will be poisoned.

If you don't like someone you don't like, you can return it with a silent smile; The person you like, that's whatever, because your liking will be unstoppable.

I thought that the bird could not fly over the sea, because the bird did not have the courage to fly through the sea, and ten years later I found that it was not the bird that could not fly over, but the end of the sea, and there was no longer waiting......

Que Xinyue: Even if our hearts are out of step with many things in real life, it seems that the instinctive reaction of silent people is not to fit in, but they will always disguise a little, be submissive, and approach the place that seems to be lively, but they are lonely in their hearts......

High school physics teacher Jia Hairong: I think that when I go to university, I first study to discover my self-worth. When people become adults, they will have the psychological need to be affirmed, respected, and loved, and to get these, they must have a skill, have something extraordinary, and be able to do better than others. To discover your own excellence only through continuous learning, and then try to practice as much as possible, what you have learned to put into practice, in the process of application slowly find yourself, like I was until the senior internship found that I was better than others in teaching, so I decided to take the road of becoming a teacher, if you are lucky to find yourself, then the next step is to realize yourself, people find their own value, after doing well in their own industry, they will have their own ideals in life, there are many kinds of ideals in life, It can be material or spiritual, and the process of striving to realize one's life ideals is the most fulfilling and memorable life, even if it cannot be realized in a lifetime, there are no regrets. These are just some superficial observations of my own, and I hope it will be useful to you.

He decided to tell the girl before he talked to her, "I'm afraid of you." He felt that if he did that, he wouldn't be nervous and unnatural.