After visiting Lin Jing and coming back, Yemei changed, and she made love with Xu Jie and never thought about contraception again.

She began to act spontaneously and no longer had to be scrupulous.

It turned out that the feeling of being completely integrated was so good, and the feeling of nothing separating them was so wonderful.

"Yemei, this is not good...... This way you will have children. ”

"It's okay, let it be, I can afford to have children now anyway."

"yes, but we're not married yet, so that's not fair to you."

"It doesn't matter, I can decide to have children, it doesn't matter if I'm married or not."

……

Two months later, Yemei won the lottery: pregnant.

Going to be a dad? Xu Jie was a little moved.

"Let's get married." Xu Jie said.

"No, I don't want to get married, I don't want to see another you, and I don't want to see myself changed because I ask for it. I am pregnant and have a baby, and I will not be less guilty because I am married, so what's the point of asking for that marriage certificate? "Yemei is calm.

"Yemei, I'm growing up in a single-parent family, and to be honest, there is no so-called harm. I think that as long as you have a mother, you will be at home wherever you go, so all the decisions on whether you want children are up to you, even if we get married, once you feel that the marriage is boring and want to divorce, all the decisions about the children are still yours...... I can only assist you and ...... you and your children with love" Xu Jie's words were heartfelt.

"So, it doesn't matter if you're married or not. I can also have children out of wedlock, the point is that we have to be responsible for our children. ”

"Yes, in my mind, it might be fairer for most women to have children out of wedlock, at least when they can give birth without their husband's signature." When these words came out of Xu Jie's mouth, Yemei was a little surprised, but she also understood very well, Xu Jie is indeed different from ordinary men!

"Yes, what children need is love, not bondage, not to be fought for or pushed away once the marriage changes......"

"Yes, so, whether you are married or not, you are free, because the child is conceived by the woman, and all the risks are borne by the woman, so all the priority decisions should be in the hands of the woman."

I didn't expect Xu Jie to think like this, it really touched Yemei.

"Actually, Xu Jie, I found out that the two of us are a little similar, we both don't like to rely on and bind people, and because of this, you quickly accepted my idea and supported me."

"Yes, I was raised by my mom alone, I like her personality, she also has an urge to want conflict or something, and you have too. You all like to do things that others don't dare to do, so why should I object to that? Instead of tying you up and making you stop rushing forward, give each of you back your freedom. However, don't worry, whether he is married or not, I will be responsible for this child, no matter how he looks, whether he is smart or not, beautiful or not...... Loving children has nothing to do with whether they are married or not, and it has nothing to do with what children look like. ”

Yemei smiled, it seemed that her vision was really good.

The whole process of conception is happy, financially independent, well-fed, and undisturbed

How can you not be happy? Because of the good mood, the body is also good, and the wild plum itself is active, so I don't feel very tired.

She went to work until her stomach hurt.

The stomach pain is generally more urgent, unlike the seer blood, and it is pushed into the delivery room when it is sent to the hospital.

It hurts, of course it hurts, it hurts indescribably.

But also fast, less than an hour to be fine.

gritted his teeth and came through, and heard the child's loud cry.

It's a girl, and it's what Yemei is looking forward to.

The hospital picked a room, and Yemei picked a big room.

"I want a single room, we are not short of money anyway, you must rest well......" Xu Jie said.

"No, it's not necessary, the single room is too boring, it's not a ward anyway, I can learn something from them......"

Xiao Yuan came to see Yemei in the afternoon, and he was born out of wedlock? What she couldn't even think of, Yemei actually did it.

She admired Yemei and did what she wanted to do but didn't dare to do.

It was Yemei who made her finally make up her mind to divorce.

If he had the courage of Yemei at the beginning, how could he end up with the separation of his children and constant strife?

The first week was really tiring, with the baby crying, the salt water and the feeding......

Fortunately, Xiao Yuan and Lin Jing came to help, and Xu Jie was also very considerate.

In the large ward, the beds are separated by a curtain from each other, but it is also lively but not noisy.

A mother in the next bed had just brought a little girl to see the baby.

"Mom, what are you doing?" The voice of a little girl came from the next bed.

"I ...... I'm a sanitation worker. The mother replied softly.

"My classmate said you are a sanitary......" the little girl said with a crying voice, looking a little aggrieved, "I just said no!" ”

"Mom does something meaningful, Mom's work makes our streets cleaner and more beautiful, do you think this work is good?" The mother was not angry at all, and comforted the little girl softly.

……

When Xiao Yuan heard this, he felt a little uncomfortable in his heart, yes, fortunately he listened to Yemei and ran out of the countryside, so that at least his daughter would have more opportunities in the future.

Yemei was touched by this mother, and thought, it is very comfortable to listen to her, not arrogant or humble, this mother is very different, maybe she has been a teacher, is it out of desperation to become a sanitation worker?

"Your mother is a teacher in her hometown, just like your current teacher, she is great, and she is doing a great job now." Sure enough, the woman said this to the little girl.

"Oh......" the little girl was silent.

"I said, how do you say that you are leaving? I don't substitute for teaching and run out directly, how hard it is to take care of the child alone. When the little girl went to the toilet, the mother whispered to the mother.

"No way, I've had a miscarriage twice, my mother-in-law said that I wouldn't give up if I didn't give birth to a grandson, I refused, they forced me to leave, and now it's good like this, although it's harder, but free."

"Hey...... Do you write outside of work? ”

"Write some, you can write a thousand yuan a month, enough for my daughter's living expenses."

"I'm pregnant

Pregnant is a son, fortunately it is really a son, otherwise my in-laws are the same as your in-laws...... It's scary to think about. ”

…… Yemei and Xiao Yuan looked at each other twice, and they both read something from each other's eyes: It's better to improve yourself first and then get married and have a baby (or just don't marry and have a baby), at least it won't affect the children, and they won't be led by the nose......

After everything was arranged, Xu Jie told Xu Shu the good news.

"What? Are you a dad? But you're not married yet! Hearing Xu Jie say that he had a daughter, Xu Shu was stunned for a moment, happy and wondering.

"We are not married, but the child is mine......" Xu Jie smiled.

"Xu Jie, the child was born by Yemei's hard work, let's have her own surname! She is best qualified to decide what the child's last name is. I didn't expect Xu Shu to blame Yemei, but to persuade Xu Jie like this.

"Mom, you want to go with me. I took the child's name, and the surname is Fang. "Mother can think like this, Xu Jie is very happy.

"No matter when and where, you are not qualified to snatch this child with her, I am from the past, I know that it is a crime to have a baby, of course, you are the most qualified to fight for the child other than her." Xu Shu smiled.

What is more important than being happy with her granddaughter, note that Xu Shu is not for the so-called inheritance, but out of love, strong love. She handed over the supermarket to the waiter to manage, and the Taobao store could be taken care of by herself even in Hangzhou, as long as she told the waiter at home the order and asked her to send the goods to the address.

Xu Jie went to pick her up that day.

Xu Shu held the child, like holding some kind of baby, she was willing to help, but everything had to be asked Yemei, for this child, she could only love, but she couldn't make any decisions.

"It's so cute! This little baby, even the poop is cute! Hey, why didn't you feel this way when you took Xu Jie? Xu Jie is really unlucky, as soon as he was born, those elders began to turn their faces and say so many ugly things to me, can I be in a good mood to take care of my children? Xu Shu muttered to herself, she clearly knew that her motherhood was coming again, just like all grandmothers, hoping that her granddaughter would be close to her...... But she understands that love can, but not possessive, she remembered when she was young, and remembered the hardships and joys of raising children alone! Yes, hardships can be shared, but happiness must not be taken away!

In Xu Shu's eyes, Xu Jie is older, and everything she does has nothing to do with her, to be honest, this is the first time she has come to Xu Jie.

When she learned that Yemei's own company had a nursery for infants and toddlers, she smiled with relief and decided to go back after visiting West Lake: there was nothing for her here.

Life always has to endure hardships, either actively or passively. Either suffer the hardships of study, or suffer the hardships of life.

I really hope that in the future, my granddaughter will have the courage of Yemei, who is not controlled by others, and is born out of love, which is the future that women should have!

She stood farther away and watched, imagining her granddaughter's future, and the more she thought about it, the more she supported Yemei, why didn't she want her granddaughter to act rashly?

The news that Lin Jing had children out of wedlock reached Hu Qinxin, Hu Fandi

One stood up and supported Hu Qinxin to do the same.

Therefore, in the second month after Yemei gave birth to her daughter, Hu Qinxin gave birth to her daughter, and when she grows up, she will be an incomparably beautiful beauty!

They also first put their children's hukou in their hometown, and then bought a house in Guangzhou and then moved out of the hukou......

Hu Qinxin finally doesn't have to think about whether to have a second child, how good.

Her boyfriend listened to the story of Lin Jing and Yemei, and in order to avoid Hu Qinxin from falling out with his parents, the relationship between the two became stiff in the end, and he also agreed to it, which can be said to be a great joy.

The girls have seen too many stories in the siege, jumped in and escaped a lot, so they don't want to jump in at will, they are looking for another way, they can enjoy the warmth of the siege, but they are still free, and they can jump out at any time if they are not happy.

I didn't expect to really find the happiness that belongs to them.

After looking for a relationship for so long, they all felt a little unreal.

Yes, not getting married does not affect Xu Jie's love for his children at all.

He loves children so much, rushing to wash diapers and hug ......

She was worried that she would fall into Chen Jingling's old groove, but she found that no, the feeling of having a child is subtle and beautiful, and what she saw from him was more love than impatience.

He became a child slave in the truest sense of the word......

I just want to grow up with my children, jump and jump together, and have endless joy.

(End of this chapter) ( Marriage is not going to be .com )