talked to Chen Jingling on the phone for nearly an hour, and it seemed that he would never finish.

"Faced with that environment, such a depressing life, I felt that there was nowhere to escape. However, I have nowhere to run, so what about the child? Will they not have nowhere to run?

Several times I would be in a trance when I took a kitchen knife to cut vegetables, thinking, how could I have been so wronged in my mother's house, it can be said that my fingers do not touch onions...... So, there is always an urge to cut your wrist with a knife. Every time, it was my daughter's cry that woke me up and pulled me back from that dream.

Once, when my teeth hurt and I was upset, and my child was crying, the anger came up, and I smashed the bowl and cup in front of the child...... The child was so frightened that he cried so much that he was scared...... As soon as I think back to that scene, I want to slap myself.

"Raising children, raising children, all kinds of worries, plus work, I feel like I am winding up every day. When I'm tired and bored, I won't be interested in anything at all. However, Ye Tongtong even suspected that I would be cold to him because of others. ”

It can be heard that Chen Jingling is hinting to Yemei: Marriage carefully, marriage carefully......

Since it's easy to get married and it's hard to get divorced, why bother getting married and adding trouble to yourself? Yemei thought so, so she secretly made the decision not to get married.

"Yemei, I've decided, I'll never get married again, I'm more comfortable alone."

It's happy to listen to that tone, but it's a little sad in my heart.

In just one sentence, she said her many helplessness and coldness.

Or just go alone?

Just go alone......

Hanging up the phone, Yemei breathed a sigh of relief, in fact, she had a hunch.

No one, when she has tasted freedom, will never like to be tied up.

The more financially independent, the easier it will be for Chen Jingling to get rid of the predicament of the past, and with the conditions to get rid of such a difficult life, she will definitely choose to escape! It's a blessing, at least I don't have to worry about her suffering from depression again.

Before the phone could be put in his pocket, the ringtone rang.

"Lin Jing!" Why did Lin Jing call?

I don't know how long I haven't contacted Lin Jing, and I don't know how she is.

"Yemei, congratulations, I'm going to the hospital to give birth, I want you to accompany me."

"What? Having a baby? Aren't you still married? Or did you get married and didn't invite me to a wedding drink? ”

"Who told you that you must get married if you have a baby?" Lin Jing smiled.

"Okay, where are you? I'll come right over. ”

"I'm at Dong Z Hospital (pseudonym) and I'm already hospitalized."

East Z Hospital is a private hospital, and the cost is a bit high, but there are many things that can be avoided, such as having a marriage certificate and a birth permit in other hospitals, but East Z Hospital can not do without.

"Ah, you're really fast, I didn't see your big belly, I actually ......" Yemei rushed to the hospital after ten minutes, "Is it early hospitalization?" ”

"I've seen blood, but I heard that the real situation of seeing blood is usually not born immediately, and it will probably be at night, so I'm a little panicked, so I called you to accompany me."

"Fang Li

What about the process? ”

"He's gone through all the formalities."

"Ah, you're not kidding, you really didn't get a license?" Yemei asked quietly.

"Everyone has escaped from the siege, why should I jump in?" Lin Jing smiled, smiled brightly, and his voice was very loud, so that he could not be heard.

"What does Fang Licheng think?"

He ...... Haha, he didn't object, he was the same as I thought, he was also afraid of being tied up. ”

"That child's account ......"

"I transferred my hukou to my hometown, and I was only fined 3,000 for giving birth out of wedlock in my hometown, and when the baby was born, I bought a house, and then moved out of the hukou, the way is always more than the difficulty......

"Ah, that's a good idea, it seems that my hukou is still in my hometown, why don't I learn from you? Hey, fortunately, you reminded me that I was almost about to buy a house and move my hukou, so it seems that if I want to have children, it is indeed better for my husband and baby to move my hukou. Yemei smiled.

"Although this matter is a little awkward for Fang Licheng, I am the one who suffers from pregnancy and childbirth, and he doesn't have to take risks. Don't talk about trust or distrust, you can't see a person's character when it's good, only when he's angry, when he's tearing up with you, you can see it, and if you're worried about you after a fight, that's really good. ”

"How did you suddenly think of having a child out of wedlock? Is everything ready? ”

"Hey, I'll tell you the truth, I originally planned to marry him, but when I went to get the certificate, I happened to see a couple getting divorced, and it was a lot of trouble...... The woman said to us women who wanted to register for marriage, 'Look, marriage is easy and divorce is difficult, what kind of marriage are you stupid', and I woke up all of a sudden, and she made sense...... I don't want to use my brains to manage my marriage, and I don't want to worry about this and that all day long, so I just have a good time and don't get married. ”

"yes...... It's better to spend so much time and energy on managing a marriage than to spend time on work......"

"You want one too, and then we'll work together to raise children......"

"Cooperative parenting? Well, that's a good idea. Yemei laughed.

While chatting, Fang Licheng came back, and as soon as he opened the door, he heard a noise from the consultation desk outside.

"I don't want bed number 4, I want bed number 6."

"Bed 6 is already occupied......"

"I pay more......"

"Then you live in room 4 next door, where bed 6 is empty......"

"Are you scolding me? How do you give me 4 old? I don't even want to live in room 3, give me room 4, I want to complain to you! ”

When Yemei heard this, she laughed with a "flutter".

"Did this nurse do it on purpose?" Lin Jing also smiled.

"Yemei, are you here?" Fang Licheng still had a little hazy good impression of Yemei, and he hid that subtle good feeling with a smile.

Lin Jing asked for a single room, which was a bit expensive, but Fang Licheng was willing, the single room was convenient, and it was not noisy, so it was worth it for just a few days.

"We're talking about children...... "Yemei laughed too, she was actually curious, Lin

Jing is not married and raised, what will Fang Licheng think in his heart?

"Then let's talk, I'll go buy some wet diapers and milk powder." Fang Licheng knew that Lin Jing was nervous at this time, and she needed to chat to relieve her.

"He's really different from ordinary men, why don't you get married decisively with such a good man?" Yemei was still a little confused.

"Since he is different, whether he is married or not will not affect the relationship, the child is not fake, I am not married, he can do a paternity test with the child at any time, and if he is not his own, he can withdraw at any time...... Besides, I'm willing to bear the consequences, there's nothing to lose for him, it's good to pick up a child for nothing, and be free! I don't drag him around. Lin Jing smiled, "In this way, I am responsible for all the consequences of giving birth to a baby, I can sign it myself, and I am good for him." Let me tell you something that makes people speechless, my neighbor, dystocia, the doctor asked for a caesarean section, but the man said that the second child born by caesarean section would also have to be dissected, and he did not sign...... refused to sign, and dragged on until almost a corpse and two lives before signing, how miserable. Like me, nothing, I just signed it, I signed it myself. Lin Jing said and laughed again, "Some people say that if you don't have a baby, you don't know what the other party is, whether it's a devil or a human...... Then I will choose not to get married, so that there is no need to test what the other party is, and I have the final say on everything. ”

"Yes, I'm also curious, why do I have to ask my husband to sign for a baby, if my husband doesn't sign, is it dangerous to die?"

"That's the way it is, if you meet a bad in-law, you will be in danger...... Such a tragedy has happened. ”

"Yes, I remembered, my friend Xiao Yuan is, she is even more pitiful, the second child is dystocia, the doctor let the caesarean section, the in-laws are too expensive and do not sign, and in the end, the mother-in-law said that they paid for the signature...... It's scary to think about, does this mean that once you get pregnant, your life will be in the hands of the other party? In this way, my determination to have children out of wedlock is growing! ”

The two of them were talking about each other, and time passed so fast that Lin Jing forgot to be afraid, and when the labor pains came, she was pushed into the delivery room in a daze.

Boy, mother and son are safe.

Lin Jing is really crisp enough, she has already thought of the child's name, and her surname is Lin.

Fang Licheng is also happy to be busy, unmarried, and he is still the father of this child.

The confinement lady was invited by Fang Licheng, and she was a very careful person......

Neither parent came...... None of them told Lin Jing what game she was going to play.

Looking at the little baby, Yemei's heart also moved, this is a question that she has long thought she has been avoiding.

It is said that you want to be free, to decide for yourself whether you want to have children or not, whether you want to have children...... But after pinching her fingers, Yemei found that it is not easy to be a free single mother, especially in terms of economy...... And the worldly vision......

Do you want to do the same?

Xu Shu is a very alternative woman, and her experience also tells herself that she doesn't want the child she gave birth to to be snatched away, isn't Xu Jie just escaped by her?

Yemei also likes to do things that no one has done before, so be it, be a bearer.

I hope that in the future, I will have more children out of wedlock

So that children, whether born in or out of wedlock, will be treated equally, and will not be gossiped about.

I was the first woman in the village to run out to work and become a boss, so I also tried to be an unmarried mother for the first time, well, that's it!

Yemei, who likes to read, thought very thoroughly after watching "Waking Women" and "The Second Sex".

That's right, she likes to read so much, and there are many other pleasures in life, why are you in a hurry to get married? There is another thing that beckons to her in Fang Yemei's heart: write the script, write the ...... Yes, it is the literary seed that has taken root in her, it has to sprout, it has to grow......

If you want to grow branches and leaves outward, the big trees know this, but people are confused?

Don't try to please people, the more you flatter, the more you will be looked down upon.

People always hope that women are gentle and virtuous, and hope that women will keep to themselves, but no matter what industry they do, gentle and virtuous women cannot be stronger and bigger, especially enterprises. You have to be strong, you have to be brave, you have to have your own edge.

She could get up in the middle of the night and make a plan, but she couldn't go around the stove day after day, year after year. She would rather run and knock out a few bags, but she must not be like a machine, repeating an action year after year, day after day.

(End of this chapter) ( Marriage is not going to be .com )