Their conversation continues......

He's a little scared, and the other party is a girl, and when he first met and talked, he felt a little nervous, he hadn't talked about it in college, and then he talked about it more openly, so it was very casual.

She asked him why he rarely participated in activities or societies.

In addition to talking about studying, he also said that those activities were not related to his dreams and ambitions.

She told him about her experiences and thoughts.

"The activities you participate in don't have to be particularly related to your ambitions, dreams and beliefs. As long as I don't go against myself, as long as I don't hate it, I can do it. It's also a way to broaden your horizons,"

She also told him to speak louder so that others could hear clearly, because sometimes she was talking to more than one person.

She also told him that by saying it often, he could easily say what he wanted to express at a critical time.

She also told him to speak quickly, because when she speaks, others may not understand, or know what to say next. In this way, even if you get stuck or are different from your original plan, you don't have to worry, others can't see it, you can just talk about it quickly.

She also told him that walking faster can make him appear passionate, which she had seen in a book.

She also told him......

After the lecture, she asked him a few more questions.

"Why quit?"

He answered several of the reasons mentioned earlier in Chapter 034.

"Is your personality a result of family conditions?"

He answered several of the reasons mentioned earlier in Chapter 007.

She also asked him about his hometown, ethnicity, and other family conditions.

She said that she was also from the countryside, and that after her father went to work, her mother went with her.

She felt that her classmates would vote for someone who was introverted and didn't speak or had low self-esteem in front of her classmates, which made her lively and optimistic very passive. He thought about it for a moment, and it was indeed the case.

Later, she was supported by many of her classmates by taking the initiative to show her family situation to her classmates.

She said that she was moved, and wanted to go to the high-end in work and study, at first she also felt that the work chores were more annoying, and she couldn't exercise any ability, so she reminded herself to stick to it a little longer and see how, and then she felt that there were a lot of things to learn in many things, she participated in three departments and received four tutors.

Afterward, she also asked him to summarize what she had said. The counselor who had spoken to him before, Ji Xingwen, and the psychological commissar Rui Anbang had also done the same, which also made him always feel what they were talking about. He thought it might be a conversation technique that could be an effective way to avoid misunderstanding his own meaning, but also to supplement and reinforce a point.

Since it was impossible to meet face-to-face, he took notes while talking, and he also summarized it roughly.

And then, she insisted that it was just her own personal opinion.

"What you think is right for you, you do it"

"What you think is wrong, your own better, just press yours"

"Hope it helps"

These sentences are basically the usual end of the conversation. To put it bluntly, it's a routine.

After that, he also told her about his ambitions and plans.

When he returned, he wrote down as much as he could remember in his diary.

He is still the same as usual, after summarizing this stage of life, he is ready to start the next stage of life, switching between different stages, he habitually changes his nickname and signature, the signature is equivalent to the theme of his life at each stage, that is, the meaning of the motto of that stage, the new screen name represents the new self, which is the self that has said goodbye to the past.

The next chapter moves on to the fourth stage of his university.