A Message to the Big Boy (2)
Boy who talks a lot, you must have countless words in your heart, if you don't say it, you may be suffocated.
There is a male classmate in junior high school, he gets along well with girls, how to say, in a class, there are often one or several boys who have a particularly good relationship with girls.
Aside from his appearance and grades, he at least has a kind of personality charm, among the thousands of flowers, he is the pistachio of girls, but the boys envy is the one who is duplicitous and rejects.
This classmate of mine, he successfully became the women's director in the mouth of his classmates and teachers.
And,For this reason, he was still very annoying at first.,After all, he's a man.,The tone of ridicule is that it's a women's director.,Who would be happy?
He had a very good mentality, and gradually, he got used to it.
From a boy to a man, the bitterness in his heart will naturally only increase, never decrease.
Accumulating in the heart for a long time is a potential threat to one's health.
Say, to whom, or not to say? Beyond that, there are plenty of options.
He's just a boy who doesn't talk about his own affairs easily, although he often emphasizes that he is a man who has to learn to take responsibility, but in my opinion, he is still just a boy.
Stepping out of school and starting a job in society does not mean that this boy has become a man.
When the real burden really weighs on him, and he suddenly feels powerless and gritted his teeth to insist, he can be called a man.
Women should be strong, and men should be even more resolute.
The burden on your shoulders is heavy, your heart, your suffering, why don't you find a place to talk to?
Whether it's drawing, journaling, going out for a walk...... Your family, your lover, your lover...... It's not the way you confide or the person you talk to.
"Feeling bad?"
“……”
"You speak."
"It's okay, I'm just tired."
Sometimes I'm tired, it's actually an excuse, and I'm in a bad mood right now, I don't want to do anything, I don't want to say anything, but I don't know what to do......
When a man is tired, a woman can see that not every man's performance will have flaws, and not every woman has a pair of discerning eyes.
They all have their own things, if you are just tired, she can help you make a cup of tea and rub your shoulders.
If you're in a bad mood, try not to close yourself off and give a look, a word: "I'm sick now." ”
At this time, the woman knows and will find a way to comfort you.
No, because the man was in a bad mood, it happened that the woman did something that disgusted him, and the two began to quarrel.
In the end, the person who hurts is not only herself, but also your her, she will feel very wronged, and feel that you are not as safe and reliable as she thinks.
The most important thing between people is communication.
Once there is nothing to say between the two, the relationship can come to an end.
It is difficult to pay attention to controlling one's mouth and minimizing the damage to the other party in hot warfare.
As for the Cold War, it's like walking into a dark alley, and you don't know when the exit will appear, or if there won't be at all.
The best way is to calm down and talk a few more words before everything happens.