Ohara really went out to work with Nomei, and when she left the village, she cried into tears...... Yemei comforted her vigorously: when she settles down, she will turn around and take her mother out to help take care of the children, which will only be a month or two, not a long time. Xiao Yuan is happier than Yemei in one thing, that is, her mother has always been in good health.

Before, Xiaoyuan's mother was quite prejudiced against Yemei, saying that she had no rules, but now, she didn't dare to say it, look at everyone's Yemei is the boss, she really didn't know Taishan at the beginning.

What makes Yemei feel relieved is that Xiao Yuan really lives up to expectations, she is serious and careful, her hands and feet are quick, and her popularity is good, Lu Sen is very satisfied, and he intends to promote her to be the team leader.

Naturally, three months later, Xiaoyuan's parents brought their daughter to Hangzhou.

In good health, it is still easier to earn money in the big city than in the countryside, Ohara's father found a job growing vegetables on the farm, and Ohara's mother helped take care of the children, and the family's life gradually improved.

Xiao Yuan couldn't have imagined such a life before......

It turns out that some things still have to be tried outside of your own circle and out of your own circle.

In fact, in the early years, my father and mother could have come to Hangzhou if they wanted to, but unfortunately they were so screwed......

Fang Yemei had said several times that she wanted to pick up her father, but her father shook his head like a rattle: "I can't go with you, I like this land and life here...... Who knew he would leave his beloved land behind and go to another world?

Okay, let's talk about the days when Yemei returned to Hangzhou from her hometown.

said that she was going back for a few days, but she didn't expect to stay for seventeen or eighteen days, Xu Jie called her, and she always replied, it's nothing, just a little cold, you help me manage the company, I will take this opportunity to accompany my father more......

Who knows......

The moment he saw Yemei, his tears came out and he hugged Yemei violently.

Xu Jie's kiss was so cramped and violent, as if he wanted to swallow the wild plum whole.

It seems to pour out all the thoughts of the past few days in this kiss.

"Didn't you tell me it was okay? Didn't you say it was just a cold and fever? Why don't you tell such a serious thing? Why don't you let me share your pain? ”

"The company's business is also important...... Thank you for taking care of my ...... The company is not affected is my greatest comfort, you know, career is my life, if it wasn't for you to help me, how dare I stay at home for so long? If it weren't for you, let alone twenty days, I would be anxious for two days. Yemei is very grateful to Xu Jie, to be honest, Xu Jie went back to help him, she would only be more anxious, if something happened in the company, then she would collapse.

How can my brother and sister-in-law know this? They only think that Yemei is the boss and free, how do they know that the pressure on the boss is greater, how do they know how long Yemei, as the boss, has been reluctant to rent a house, and everything she eats and drinks is simple? Although he is his own brother, he can't care about it, and those who can work hard, but when he thinks of his younger brother's sentence "Let my sister burn it for you", Yemei is angry for no reason. If your company collapses, can you count on your brother to help? So, after all these days, Yemei began to think about grandma

and start thinking about whether there is something wrong with what your parents are doing.

She loves her career, she loves crazy, it's like her child, she is willing to hand over her child to Xu Jie to take care of, so how much trust can she have?

Because of this, Yemei began to think about the exact relationship with Xu Jie.

Do you want to get married?

Is it time to get married?

Is it time to think about starting a new family?

However, Ohara's divorce poured cold water on Yemei's budding desire to get married.

Didn't Ohara's boyfriend say it very well before he got married!

Yemei was really afraid that as soon as she got married, Xu Jie would become another person, a stranger......

That's what she didn't want to see.

She hopes that Xu Jie will always be Xu Jie in her eyes, handsome, respectful of women, and attractive......

Since marriage is easy to wear out these things, let's not get married.

It was Chen Jingling who made Yemei want to be more determined not to get married, yes, after the year, she received a call from Chen Jingling.

"Yemei, I'm completely divorced! Free! I didn't expect her first sentence to be this.

"What's wrong? Haven't you already come out? Why did you choose to divorce in the end? Yemei was a little confused.

"Alas...... It's all tears! ”

(Here, for convenience, let's sort out Chen Jingling's story.) ）

That year, when Chen Jingling resolutely went with Ye Tongtong, Chen's mother told her that Ye Tongtong had a shrewd mother, she was not the opponent of her future mother-in-law, and he couldn't protect her. At that time, Chen Jingling was so stubborn. Yes, everything was said by Chen's mother, Chen Jingling is always easy to succumb, has a lot of ideas, and has a strong sense of resistance, always wants to be independent, always wants to be maverick, but when facing the elders and morality, all the edges will be dimmed in an instant. Ye Guantong's shrewd mother always made Chen Jingling unbearable.

After giving birth to her second child, she went "crazy", so she returned to her hometown to live with her parents.

Yes, after returning to her hometown, Chen Jingling finally took the first step in finding a job under Yemei's repeated hints.

Half of it was her father's relationship, and half of it was her professional counterpart, and she finally found a stable job in a small county town.

After going to work on my own, I found that work is really much easier than childcare. Parenting is ugly, it's like purgatory! For a while, she wanted to beat her child up every day when she put her child to sleep. However, every time it is like this, one second I am angry at the child, and the next second I regret it.

After tasting the joy of work, she felt uncomfortable when she recalled the past, and she wanted to break free of something.

When she didn't have a job, she was always worried, for fear of offending Ye Guantong, as soon as he came home, she was nervous, worried that the hygiene here was not clean, and that the clothes there were not washed......

Once, Ye Tongtong went on a business trip and said that she would come back in three days, so she felt free, and she didn't bother to clean up the toys after the child played...... All in all, the room was a bit messy. Who knows, he came back early the next day, and as soon as he entered the door, he was angry at Chen Jingling: "What are you doing all day long?" You can't see that the room is so messy

Is it there? Anyway, in his eyes, Chen Jingling taking a baby at home is similar to eating an idle meal.

Sometimes, awakening is like old age, not slowly, but in an instant.

Chen Jinglin has a high IQ, but she was too comfortable and had never suffered hardships before, so she was a little lazy in everything she did, including study and work, and she valued love too much, thinking that love was everything, so she suffered countless losses in her marriage. After eating a trench and growing wise, she finally found a job again, and began to work hard. Her transformation Chen Dad and Chen Mom saw it in their eyes and felt pain in their hearts, and they didn't let them the child's heart, they took care of everything, and they didn't even let her clean up the dishes and chopsticks.

Chen Jinglin began to travel constantly, most of the time abroad.

She loves her children, but she doesn't want to talk about her husband at all.

But she still brought up her troubles in front of Yemei.

Look, when she talked about the past on the phone, she was full of bitterness......

"I've been cooking very hard, but he still thinks I'm not cooking well. I remember one weekend, he came back from a friend's house and said that their tacos were delicious. After praising it, I went out to buy materials and came back, saying that I wanted to show my hand in front of me. However, he was clumsy, and one by one he was either mushy or broken. In the end, he got angry and threw the pot and the cake...... He also yelled at me, saying that this was originally my business, that I was irresponsible, and I almost made a move after yelling, I avoided it, and he slammed the door angrily and left. ”

"Ah, he's justified?" Yemei was also angry when she heard this, this was not the Ye through she knew.

"Yes, another time, I said that I would get up the next morning and cook noodles for him to eat, but I was so sleepy that I put my son to sleep the night before, from half past eight to ten o'clock...... I woke up countless times in the middle of the night. So, I still got up late. So, the next morning, he scolded him, saying that I didn't talk much...... I couldn't get angry, so I replied that I didn't sleep well last night, I didn't sleep until ten o'clock, and I got old to cover the baby with a quilt. Do you know what he said to me? He said, what's that, my mother doesn't go to bed until 11 o'clock every night. He also said that you now have a washing machine for washing clothes and gas and rice cookers for cooking...... My mom could only use her hands at that time, all by hand. ”

"How's her mom doing?" Yemei suddenly remembered that Chen Jingling had said that it seemed that Ye Guantong's mother was not in good health.

"What do you say? I just wanted to laugh, her mother was as pitiful as he described. Yes, her mother lost all her teeth before she reached fifty, and at fifty-two she was paralyzed on one hand...... Does he want me to be a slave to the whole family like his mother, and then premature aging? Otherwise, why does he keep comparing his mother to me? Since he feels sorry for his mother, he shouldn't have made me his mother's second! Chen Jingling's thinking is really clear.

"Yes, I'd rather be a shrew than a resentful woman." Yemei remembered taking care of the patient, those days were really difficult, the patient was in pain, the person who took care of it was also painful, and after taking care of the patient for a long time, the personality of a healthy person would change, right? "So did you really decide to divorce?"

"Don't you decide you want to be depressed again? If he doesn't care about anything, don't complain at the same time, don't compare me to her mother at every turn, mourn

Widowed parenting is widowed parenting. But he doesn't care, he occasionally comes to supervise, just like some big leader comes, pointing fingers at you. Rough and unreasonable and condescending......"

"In Wenzhou, I revolve around Ye Tongtong, around the stove, and around the children all day long...... Spinning around, I fainted. Those days are so scary to think about! There's something like a demon in my heart that torments me all the time...... A lot of times, I want to hit someone, I want to destroy something, I want to throw something out...... I often get angry at my children, and I get very angry...... I know very well that I am mentally ill, and I know very well that it is wrong to treat children like this. But I can't control myself......"

"I know that I am wrong, I shouldn't be angry with my child, and every time I get angry, I regret it, and I want to apologize to my child...... However, if you know that it is wrong, you still have to teach it repeatedly......"

Yes, we already know that being together is a dead end, so why should we continue to be together?

(End of chapter)