If you can't get what you want, it's an excuse to say that you don't want it.

This sentence came from Z's boyfriend, of course, I don't know the original words.

Recently, Z told me that she was riding a "roller coaster", sometimes in the sky, sometimes falling into the valley.

When I saw her appearance, I knew that what she said was true, and even shrunk a little, it was a "roller coaster", which was clearly challenging the heart endurance of herself and her boyfriend.

Although the two have been dating for several months, the real meeting was just a few days ago, and from Z's description, the shyness and fear of not daring to look directly or speak are all non-existent. She said that even if she recognized the tall man at a glance from the sparse passers-by, although she immediately turned her back, it was because of a joy in her heart waiting to be found by someone she liked.

When he said this, Z's eyes lit up. In my opinion, Z's reaction is exactly her reaction.

Then she told me that they had walked many streets, and although they kept repeating and repeating in between, they were just being put on their boyfriend's shoulders or waist, looking sideways into their boyfriend's eyes, and feeling very satisfied with whatever they said.

Before that, Z told me that she used to have no feeling for those men and women hugging on the street and on the road, and it turned into envy, all because of him. And now, she has become the envy of her, why not be happy?

The smile didn't stay on her face for long, and there was still a sweetness that could be smelled before, slowly, slowly fading and even disappearing.

I gently asked her if something had happened.

She looked me in the eye and nodded at me helplessly and sadly.

In an instant, I felt that she was about to cry in the next second.

I waited patiently for her to say or remain silent, leaving her a quiet that could be extended and allowed for her to sort herself out.

Because looking at her like this, it seems that she is seeing herself.

After about ten minutes, her eyes were watery from holding back tears, and I pretended not to see them, and sighed, "If you could tell me, I think I would be able to comfort you." ”

She choked up, staccato a series of clear and vague words.

At the end, I saw her stop talking and look up at me.

"Your withdrawal is not without reason, with our similar personalities, in such a situation, I will also think about running away and giving up, but you also know now, this not only hurts yourself, but also hurts him. It can be seen that you care about him very much, and he cares about you very much, otherwise he would not be depressed because of your whim that you are ready to abandon him, and turn his phone to silent and make him feel bad. ”

I sat down next to her and continued: "If you stare at the problem, it will only get bigger and bigger, you should try to be like your boyfriend, no matter what it is, it will be easier for you to think about two people to face and solve it?" ”

"I know that, but ...... I couldn't help but sink down at the thought of bad things, and he didn't make any promises to me, nor did he say anything to me, so that I could rest assured about our future, I didn't know the bottom of my heart. ”

"After all, you're not in the same province, so it's normal for you to think like that. It's just that I want to tell you that if you keep thinking about it from time to time, you will only get farther and farther away, you don't believe in your future, and you don't believe in your boyfriend, he will feel that you don't take him to heart, let him feel that you are only in pain with him, and he will be more painful. Do you think I'm right? ”

……

I don't know what happened next, but hopefully the news without news is the best news.

Feelings and marriage are both personal, and when it comes to family, it is very important and not important.

If two people feel that not being together is the best option, how can we talk about family issues?

Now that you've chosen a she/him, what do you get if you give up before you make an effort?

Is it better to have nothing?

No one wants to accept this result~

I just don't want to.