Chapter Forty-Five: Centrifugation and Departure from Virtue Husband and wife drift apart

a)

More than half a month after Zhu Yuliang's mother and daughter left Meichi, Wen Yuanfang secretly returned to Tongxin Pavilion and brought Xu Qingpei's coat back at the same time.

learned that his baby daughter had been taken to the countryside by Lou Cuiying, and he complained to Zhu Yuliang: "You don't discuss such a big matter with me, and you make your own decisions again!" His words again provoked the wrath of his wife, and a quarrel was inevitable.

"I'd like to talk to you, but where are you? As I said, by the time I found you to discuss with you, my mother and daughter would have already turned into ashes! ”

"Didn't I leave you out of necessity? Am I not just coming back whenever I have the chance? ”

"You can't help it? Who forced you? Why can everyone reunite their wives and children, and if you don't get chased by others, you can't? ”

"Don't compare me to others! Everyone is different, their values are different, and their ambitions are different. ”

"Alright! You go to achieve your ambitions, my daughter and I don't want to drag you down! You don't have to go back to Tongxin Pavilion to see us in the future, and you don't have to take our mother and daughter to heart! Honestly, we'll be safer if you don't come back! ”

"How do you say such heartless words? Don't you care about me? Don't worry about me anymore? Isn't our husband and wife even worse than outsiders? ”

"I care if you're useful? Will it change you? Aren't you and I also outsiders? Didn't I also leave my parents and siblings behind for you, an outsider, and follow you to Jiyang to be reborn as a new person? It can be seen that outsiders and relatives, whether they care or not, are changing, and there is nothing immutable in the world. I remember, you told me that! ”

"Good! Good! You've become so sharp now...... Since you don't welcome me back, I'll go. ”

Wen Yuanfang didn't even drink saliva at home, so he left angrily.

On the way out of Tongxin Pavilion, he recalled his wife's words and shed tears. Every day he left his wife and daughter, he missed them, worried about them, and worried about them all the time...... He has not forgotten the vow he made to his wife and children on the train on the night of his escape: to give his wife a peaceful and peaceful living environment, and to give his children a happy and healthy environment to grow up.

However, he no longer had the opportunity to hesitate and change his ways, so he could only follow the established path, even if there was a sea of swords and fires or a flat river in front of him......

"No matter what Yuliang says ruthlessly, I can't always blame her, because I owe her from beginning to end." Thinking so, Wen Yuanfang decided to go to Xikeng Village, and then take Wen Jing to his mother and sister-in-law to see, so that they could rest assured.

(b)

Xikeng Village is the former village of Tangfeng Village, the two villages are separated by three or four miles, and you must pass through Xikeng Village to go to Tangfeng Village.

Wen Yuanfang's third sister, Wen Yuanqing, married her cousin Lou Baoqiang, who lived in Xikeng Village, so Lou Baoqiang was both Wen Yuanfang's cousin and Wen Yuanfang's brother-in-law.

Whenever the marriage of the third sister Wen Yuanqing and the fourth sister Wen Yuancao is mentioned, Wen Yuanfang hates it so much.

Because Lou Xiangfu has been insulted by the landlord's concubine for a long time, she vows to let all her children be literate and sentenced, and must never become illiterate and bullied like her. Therefore, Wen Yuanqing and Wen Yuancao have both read private schools and can read and write, which means that the sisters' knowledge is not comparable to that of ordinary rural women of the same era. This was not a good story in the rural areas where patriarchy was common at that time.

But in the era when women are not talented and virtuous, whether women have studied or not, whether they have great talents or small talents to turn raw rice into mature rice, they all want to marry people to be reproductive machines, and they all want to be filial to their in-laws and husbands and children to be nannies for life.

Therefore, the importance of marriage to an old-fashioned rural woman is a metaphor for the "second reincarnation". If the second reincarnation is not good, marriage is likely to be a living hell for a woman's life.

It's a pity that Wen Yuanqing and Wen Yuancao's second reincarnation was not good, although they didn't live in a fierce hell in their lives, they at least lived in a lonely hell.

Wen Yuanqing was married by his parents to his cousin Lou Baoqiang, who was illiterate, in the old custom of "cousins and sisters, husband and wife". Lou Baoqiang only knows how to work, eat, sleep, and do that with his wife...... As for telling him about loyalty, filial piety, courtesy, righteousness, honesty, gentleness, courtesy, frugality, and ...... It's like playing the piano to the cow. Although he is stupid and stubborn, he is a well-known man, and it is more difficult for you to take a straw from his house than to ascend to the sky.

After Wen Yuanqing and Lou Baoqiang gave birth to three children, they began her long lonely life, no one knew what she was thinking, and no one wanted to know what she was thinking. Fortunately, her daughter Lou Cuiying inherited her reading genes, and she still understands the world and is not bad-hearted, which gives her some comfort.

Wen Yuancao seems to be a copy of her sister, and her husband also seems to be a copy of Lou Baoqiang, but Wen Yuancao is married farther away from home.

When Wen Yuanfang was a child, his two sisters carried him around like a treasure. By the time he grew up, his two sisters had already married and had children; Every time he came back to visit his two sisters, they always complained the same bitterness and shed the same tears to this precious little brother...... Whenever this happens, the belief of "smashing this old world" will be reinforced in Wen Yuanfang's mind once.

Lou Cuiying was lucky, her books were not read in vain, and she finally married a man who could speak, a Chinese teacher who graduated from a normal college in the same village. Although Mr. Lou is a head shorter than Lou Cuiying, after all, he eats public meals, and he is also knowledgeable.

Wen Yuan came to Lou Cuiying's house, and the moment he saw his daughter, the tide of father's love surged.

During the three months in Changzhou, although Lei Lei was very alert and sensible, and he was also very sticky to him, and he once evoked his sense of responsibility and pride as a father, the kind of "father's love" is not the same as the father's love for his own daughter at this time: the purity of the two is different, the degree of concern is different, and of course the degree of persistence is not the same.

Although the baby hadn't seen her father for more than half a month, when her father hugged her, she not only didn't cry, but grinned at her father, making her kiss her fiercely.

"Your mother always says you're black, but Dad doesn't see you black! The black dots are good, healthy, like working people; It's too white like your mother! Wen Yuanfang wasted no time in talking about the class position with his four- or five-month-old daughter.

(c)

Wen Yuanfang hugged his daughter Wen Jing, Lou Cuiying carried his son Lou Guanfeng, and a group of four people came to Tangfeng Village.

"Didn't you come back with Yuliang for the New Year, and now you're coming back alone with the hairy guy, what are you doing?" Lou Xiangfu complained about his youngest son, and at the same time hugged his little grandson from Zhou Jiahong's hand.

Wen Yuanfang said: "Yuliang is going to work. Jingjing now eats Cuiying's milk and puts it in Xikeng Village. That's fine, wait until weaning and then take it back! ”

"Oh! My little grandson looks as neat as her mother. The villain always eats his own mother's milk! Eat other people's milk, and you will recognize others as mothers in the future. I heard Wu Wei say, you are not here, Yuliang's milk is gone. I don't know how you guys did it! How can you be so busy that you don't even have Yuliangsheng by her side? Lou Xiangfu said to his youngest son for a while, and Wen Yuanfang could only bow his head and remain silent, leaving his mother to count.

Since the end of the year, Mrs. Lou has been in a semi-bedridden state, and now she basically relies on her eldest daughter-in-law to serve her, so Zhou Jiahong and Wen Wuwei are busier than before.

Wen Yuanfang stayed overnight in Tangfeng Village and returned. Before leaving, Mrs. Lou repeatedly warned her son: "Home is the most important, don't tear down the home because you are busy with work!" ”

On the way from Tangfeng Village to Xikeng Village, the uncle and nephew chatted with each other and talked about a sensitive topic.

"Little uncle! I don't know what to say...... When it should be spoken, it should not be spoken; I always feel ...... It's not, it's not ...... Neither is it. Lou Cuiying said hesitantly.

"If you have anything to say, just tell the little lady! What hasn't Uncle Niang experienced? Wen Yuanfang had a premonition that some bad information would come out of his nephew's mouth, but he pretended to be relaxed and said in a chic manner.

"I always feel that Director Cai is ...... to my little aunt Special care, not like the kind of care that ordinary leaders and neighbors have. And when my little aunt saw him, it seemed like ...... It's quite happy, and the two of them sometimes mumble in the patio...... It looks very close. Maybe I'm too sensitive! Lou Cuiying tried to pay attention to her words.

"Oh......" Wen Yuanfang's mood suddenly sank to the bottom.

On the way back to Meichi, Wen Yuanfang thought back to Lou Cuiying's words and felt a pang in his heart...... That feeling of despair was like hearing a doctor announce that he was terminally ill.

"Are all those rumors true? Could it be that they have already gotten better, and the whole world knows about it, so they hide it from me? Could it be that Cai Fuguo took such a big risk to save me, all for Yuliang's sake? I'm a big man, not only can't protect my wife and children, but I also have to rely on my wife's face to survive, haven't I lived too much?

Actually, I should have noticed it a long time ago. That time Cai Fuguo carried Yuliang home, I should have noticed that their relationship was extraordinary; Otherwise, how can it be so coincidental! That Xu Qingpei obviously knew that Cai Fuguo and Yuliang had an unusual relationship, so he covered Yuliang everywhere in the Huansha business department. What a fool I am! I thought that the whole world was a good person, and I thought that my Yuliang was the purest woman in the world...... I didn't expect ......

Am I really going to lose my wife? Oh, no, no, no! Yuliang is a woman who can't act or tell lies. If she fell in love with someone else, she would have told me directly. I've known her for so many years and she's never lied to me; She was a chaste woman, and I knew her better than anyone else, so I couldn't doubt her.

As for Cai Fuguo's personal affection for her, now Sima Zhao's heart is well known to passers-by. It is also human nature for a man to like other people's wives, and it is not a big rebellion; Shouldn't I be able to let go of Sun Lei? But it is polite to be affectionate, as long as everyone treats it rationally and handles it properly, extramarital affairs are not a big deal.

The reason why Yuliang is angry with me is nothing more than that I am not there for her every time she needs me. It is despicable and shameful for me to use the ropes of marriage to demand that she be loyal to me from the beginning to the end. I want to use practical actions to save Yuliang's heart and use my personal personality charm to protect my marriage. No matter what, I will never give up on my Yuliang! ”

(iv)

Wen Yuanfang's inner repentance and self-blame, if he can tell him frankly in front of Zhu Yuliang, he may be able to obtain his wife's forgiveness, so that they can rebuild their old friendship and restore the relationship between the two when they first married.

It's a pity that the man's conceit and the husband's self-esteem make it impossible for him to confess. He only showed that he had returned to Tongxin Pavilion more often in action, but each time he still came and went in a hurry, his whereabouts were secretive, and sometimes he even came home suddenly in the middle of the night and asked his sleepy-eyed wife to open the door for him......

His behavior of increasing the frequency of going home in this way caused Zhu Yuliang's growing disgust. Zhu Yuliang felt that her husband was not as frank and upright as before, and now he had become a suspicious and sneaky man.

Is this still the Wen Yuanfang I admired before?

Wen Yuanfang's hurried comings and goings and mysterious whereabouts made Zhu Yuliang feel as if he had become the mistress of this man's sneaky arrangement, nothing more than that there was a piece of paper between them that could prove that they were a legitimate husband and wife. And Wen Yuanfang is using this piece of paper to exercise the so-called spousal rights, asking her to fulfill the obligations of his wife who is essentially a mistress.

Once a woman no longer admires her man, the direct manifestation in bed is coldness and coping...... And this feeling is terrible for Zhu Yuliang.

When Wen Jing turned one year old and was carried back to Tongxin Pavilion by Lou Cuiying, what stood in front of Zhu Yuliang was completely a little country girl with dark skin, dragging snot and dirty clothes.

Even if Wen Jing returns to Tongxin Pavilion, she can't leave Lou Cuiying for a moment. As long as she didn't see the eldest sister for a few minutes, she would start shouting: "Eldest sister! Eldest sister! I want big sister! In this way, Wen Jing stayed at Lou Cuiying's house for another year, and was not taken back by Wen Yuanfang and his wife until she was two years old.

Wen Jing almost cried on the day she separated from Lou Cuiying, and she kept shouting, "Big sister!" Eldest sister! I want big sister! And Lou Cuiying was also crying profusely, turning back three times in one step, as if Wen Yuanfang and his wife had adopted Wen Jing and were breaking up their mother and daughter. That scene made Zhu Yuliang also burst into tears, but she didn't know what she should be sad about.

Wen Jing has never lived alone with her mother, and this kind of mother-daughter life alone cannot bring a sense of security to her young heart. Once, Zhu Yuliang put a piece of meat in his daughter's bowl, but he didn't expect the little guy to throw the meat out of the bowl, so angry that Zhu Yuliang almost beat her.

Another time, in order to wear something, Wen Jing wanted to wear this one, and Zhu Yuliang wanted to wear another one for her, but neither mother nor daughter gave in, so angry that Zhu Yuliang slapped her buttocks.

When Wen Jing saw her mother beating her, she hid under the bed and refused to come out; No matter how hard and soft my mother is, she just won't come out......

The current situation made Zhu Yuliang feel how ridiculous her original wish to raise her daughter to be a princess and an angel was, and she suddenly understood the full meaning of Chen Meijuan's laughter when she was humiliated by the raid.

Tragedy is not only the destruction of valuable things to show you, but also the distortion of normal things to show you.

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