Chapter Forty-Six: Mutual Affection and Mutual Understanding
a)
The plasticity of children is actually very strong, and Zhu Yuliang soon found that his daughter is very similar to himself: she loves cleanliness very much. As long as there is a little mud or chicken poop on her little shoes, she has to go to the bucket to scoop water and rinse it off.
Therefore, within a week of returning to Tongxin Pavilion, the little girl became a cute person who loved everyone and smelled fragrant.
It was naturally Cai Fuguo who hugged her and teased her the most, but she didn't seem to be very kind to Uncle Cai. For example, she was obviously playing in the patio, but every time she saw Uncle Cai coming back from work, she ran home in a panic. Zhu Yuliang asked her: "Uncle Cai is your savior, he likes you so much, why do you avoid him?" She said, "Afraid!" Fear! ”
"This kid! She said she was afraid of you. Zhu Yuliang said to Cai Fuguo.
"Haha! She was afraid that I must have done something sorry for me in my previous life. Or are you afraid that I will hold you? I'm going to hug you! Cai Fuguo came into the house and grabbed her, and then lifted her up in the air, and she screamed and writhed in the air. Cai Fuguo held her in his hand, and after a while, she was about to twist it down and stop letting him hold it.
Once, Cai Fuguo hugged Wen Jing to watch Zhu Yuliang stir-fry, Wen Jing pursed her mouth and pouted him with saliva. Zhu Yuliang scolded: "Why are you so rude to Uncle Cai? Uncultured stuff! Put her down, and everyone ignore her! ”
Cai Fuguo laughed and said, "Do you remember the first day you came to Tongxin Pavilion?" My two stinky boys splashed you in the face with sludge; Now your daughter has come to avenge you. It's called one report and one report! ”
Usually, Zhu Yuliang took Wen Jing to work in the Huansha Business Department, and ate in the canteen of the Business Department at noon; In the evening, she carried Wen Jing home from work, and then fried two dishes and brought them to Cai's house for dinner. Three adults and one child are like a family, but they are also happy.
Chen Meijuan likes Wen Jing very much, her sons are not around, she just found the object of her mother's love, so whenever she is free, she accompanies Wen Jing to play games, or tell stories to Wen Jing.
When the power is not cut at night, Zhu Yuliang wants to take his daughter to attend the study meeting of the unit, and Wen Jing runs and plays with other children. When the power went out at night, the mother and daughter basically spent time at Cai's house; Unless they saw that Chen Meijuan was going to work at the desk, the mother and daughter returned to their house early.
(b)
Since Chen Meijuan suffered a major setback in her life, she has indeed seen a lot, let go of a lot, and has become a lot more simple and kind. She now feels that every day of her life is earned, so she cherishes her time, cherishes every time she gets together with someone she is destined for, and cherishes every trace of kindness and friendship between people.
She is a Kochi, not an idiot. In the past, she was just not sure what the friendship between her husband and Zhu Yuliang had reached, but since her husband sent Zhu Yuliang to Meichi to give birth for a few days and did not return, she was sure of a fact: her husband cared about Zhu Yuliang very much; And this kind of care has reached the point where I don't want to and can't hide it anymore.
After Cai Fuguo returned to Tongxin Pavilion, he told Chen Meijuan about the causes and consequences of their rescue of Zhu Yuliang's mother and daughter, as well as the fact that he himself transfused 500 milliliters of blood, and did not mean to hide any details from her. She believed that if she asked her husband further, "Do you love Zhu Yuliang?" Then Cai Fuguo will definitely give her an honest answer.
The way the Tsai couple get along is that neither will fail the other first. If marriage is regarded as a contract for the duration of the contract until the death of one of the spouses, and only one contract can be entered into by each person within the same period, neither of them will be the first to breach the contract or propose to rescind the contract.
However, during the performance period of the contract, if either party has a love for a third party in his heart, is it considered a breach of contract? Of course not! For example, when you are performing a contract, you have your eye on one or more better collaborators, and even you are looking at new collaborators, but as long as you are still conscientiously fulfilling the obligations of the original contract, and have not concluded a new contract with others, and have not had substantive acts with others that may affect the performance of the original contract, then you are not in breach of contract.
To put it bluntly, marriage is a contract that makes life better and gives a lot of added social value. Marriage itself is not sacred, but the process of marriage is sacred only when both parties keep their promises, abide by their principles, fulfill their obligations and enjoy their rights.
Chen Meijuan thought to herself: "Marriage can only restrain the bodies of both parties and not get into the bed of a third party, but can marriage restrain the whimsical hearts of both parties?" Since you can't bind the hearts of both parties, why bother with the derailment or temporary absence of the other person's heart? Aren't there enough troubles in life?
Since Cai Fuguo has not defaulted, I will not ask that stupid question. Couples need to have a window paper at a distance from each other; Piercing this window paper, the balance of maintaining the status quo is broken. And this state of equilibrium is precisely the state of equilibrium that I feel most precious after I came to Tongxin Pavilion; I don't want to make a fuss about my life because of my jealousy and jealousy. ”
Therefore, Chen Meijuan, as a well-informed person who has been nourished by Western civilization and is well versed in the emotional psychology of men and women, feels that "being herself, watching the changes, being at peace with the situation, and being kind to others" as her survival principle matches her identity. It turned out that Chen Meijuan, who was jealous and selfish, stingy and mean, and a philistine, had already gone with the fire of raiding the house.
When Zhu Yuliang's mother and daughter didn't return to Tongxin Pavilion, there were only Cai and his wife here. Every day, the two of them get up, then go their own way, go home at night, and talk occasionally, like two zombies who respect each other, never leave, and all activities according to the program. Chen Meijuan clearly understands: her husband is depressed, and she is also depressed. Their lives really need to be added with fresh elements to restore their original colorfulness.
As soon as Zhu Yuliang came back with his daughter, this small courtyard immediately came alive. Don't say that the husband's life force is activated, her life force is also ignited......
Besides, the highest level of love between men and women is family affection. Why don't you recognize Lao Cai's sister? What's wrong with everyone taking care of each other, helping each other, and living like a family on this dangerous earth? Chen Meijuan thought.
(c)
During the day, Wen Jing ran in and out of her mother's office, and her mother's colleagues also liked to greet and tease her. But Zhu Yuliang always has busy times, and he can't watch her all the time.
One day, I suddenly heard Wen Jing crying after screaming. Zhu Yuliang ran out of the office, only to see his daughter knocking her forehead on the steps of the stairs, and there was still a little blood on a big swollen bag.
Xu Qingpei came out when he heard the sound, picked up Wen Jing and coaxed her; Zhu Yuliang sighed while giving his daughter a red potion.
"Xiao Zhu! You have to find someone else to take Jingjing, you can't look at her. What if something goes wrong? Do you want me to ask my relatives in the countryside to find you a nanny? Xu Qingpei asked.
"There are so many relatives in the countryside in Wenyuan! I just want to take my daughter with me; Otherwise, not only would she not kiss me, but she would also develop some bad habits. ”
"But the safety of the child still comes first!"
Thinking of Xu Qingpei's words, Zhu Yuliang fell into deep thought......
In view of the fact that he and Wen Yuanfang are currently living separately, and he is still in a hurry and his whereabouts are uncertain, it is indeed unrealistic to take Jingjing with him, after all, the two-year-old child is still too young and needs to be supervised by someone else.
So, Zhu Yuliang wrote a letter to Xiaoyizhuang.
Soon, she received a reply from Zhu Zhili. The letter said: Parents and younger siblings are looking forward to her sending Wen Jing to Xiaoyizhuang, because there are many people there, and it will not be too hard for everyone to take turns watching the children.
In this way, Zhu Yuliang wanted to take advantage of the family leave to send Wen Jing to Xiaoyizhuang.
When she told Cai Fuguo and his wife about this idea, they unanimously advised her: It is better to discuss such a big matter with Wen Yuanfang, after all, he is Wen Jing's biological father, and he has the right to decide where his daughter goes.
Zhu Yuliang listened to their advice and took Wen Jing back to Meichi.
Since leaving Meichi after maternity leave, Zhu Yuliang has returned to Meichi only a handful of times. First, it is because the relationship between her and Wen Yuanfang is getting worse, and the two are always pimples and quarrels when they get along; Second, it's because she really can't get used to it, and she can't understand what Wen Yuanfang is doing.
Once, Lou Cuiying took Feng Feng and Wen Jing to live in Tongxin Pavilion, and Zhu Yuliang took her to Meichi, wanting to spend a few days of reunion with Wen Yuanfang.
A group of four people came to the Wen family's residence and saw that the large playground at the door was crowded, and it turned out that a huge criticism meeting was being held here.
There was a sound of chirping in the loudspeaker, and Zhu Yuliang didn't pay attention to it. When they entered the house, they closed the door and began to tidy up the room, then they made a stove and boiled water......
Zhu Yuliang wanted to go to the cafeteria to see what dishes were available at night. When she squeezed through the crowd and crossed the large playground, she suddenly heard the name "Wen Yuanfang" announced on the loudspeaker. She was shocked, stood on tiptoe and glanced at the stage, and saw Wen Yuanfang sandwiched between seven or eight men, standing in front of the stage with his head bowed and being accused of various "crimes".
"It's over! Finally it was his turn. Zhu Yuliang didn't want to go to see the food again, so he returned home halfway and closed the door, and began to worry and feel sorry for her husband.
Unexpectedly, the venue dispersed, and Wen Yuanfang returned home as if nothing happened. He was surprised and delighted to see that the four of them came to see him. Zhu Yuliang asked what was going on, and Wen Yuanfang said that this was normal, and the group of people who criticized them would stand on the stage in two days and accept their condemnation.
Therefore, for more than two years, Zhu Yuliang will not go to Meichi if he can not go to Meichi.
(iv)
The mother and daughter were quite lucky this time, not long after returning home, Wen Yuanfang went home from work. Seeing their sudden visit, he was naturally overjoyed.
Wen Jing hadn't seen her father for another month this time, but she didn't look like she was pinched by her father at all, and she pounced when she saw her father coming. The blood relationship is so wonderful, although Uncle Cai likes Wen Jing so much, Wen Jing just doesn't want to see him, but only kisses her father.
Zhu Yuliang told her husband about her daughter's broken head this time, the fact that the Cai couple often helped send her to the hospital when she had a fever, and her plan to send her to Xiaoyizhuang.
Wen Yuanfang had a gloomy face, and said in silence for a long time: "Anyway, you always cut first and then make your own decisions." If you knew this, then you should continue to put it with Cuiying, you have to get your daughter back. ”
"Look at her slimy look towards Cuiying, if she doesn't get it back, she only thinks of Cuiying as her mother. Cui Ying is her big cousin after all! Also, when she first came home, she was dirty and small, her skin was dark, she was already black after eating Cuiying's milk, and she was allowed to tan in the sun...... At that time, I wondered if I had given birth to this child. ”
"I knew that you were like your father, who looked down on the peasants and my poor relatives in your bones. If you get Jingjing to Xiaoyizhuang, won't you be close to you in the future? Isn't Xiaoyizhuang also in the countryside? ”
"Good, good! I'm not here to quarrel with you. I've decided, I've bought the ticket, I'll go to Runzhou the day after tomorrow, and you don't have to come to see us off! After Zhu Yuliang finished speaking, she closed her mouth, not wanting to discuss with her husband about ideology and class positions.
Taking advantage of the time when Wen Jing was asleep, Wen Yuanfang pulled his wife's shoulders and said softly: "Yuliang! Why do we always have to fight? Can't we speak properly and talk calmly about the problems between us? ”
"Okay! I'd like to talk about it. First of all, how do you solve the problem of our family living in three places? Can you be transferred to Chengguan to work? Or you can transfer me to Meichi, anyway, you are now the leader of Meichi Supply and Marketing Cooperative, it shouldn't be difficult for you to transfer your wife to work next to you, right? As soon as we are transferred together and the family of three lives together, I believe that most of the problems between us will be solved. Zhu Yuliang said.
"Oh, this is not right now, I have to lead by example, and I can't use power for personal gain. Besides, there are more people who live separately from each other. Wen Yuanfang said categorically.
"Secondly, don't impose on me your ambitions and worldview! When we got married, we said okay, don't try to change each other in the name of marriage. I don't want to change you, and you don't want to change me! I don't want to be the object of any man's transformation, and I don't want to be an appendage of any man. That's my bottom line! Whoever violates my bottom line, I'm sorry! Zhu Yuliang said confidently.
"This ...... I'll try to do it! Wen Yuanfang said hesitantly.
"Finally, I don't want to see you coming and going and sneaking around anymore."
"I'm sure it won't last long! Yuliang, you have to be patient and have faith in your husband. Wen Yuanfang's tone towards his wife was almost to the point of begging.
Zhu Yuliang felt that her husband showed an unprecedented low profile this time, which showed that he still cared about her, so he felt pity for him in his heart. After all, the current heartbreaking situation between them cannot be blamed on Wen Yuan.
The couple had a long-lost warmth and warmth that night......
After Wen Yuanfang arranged the work at hand, he simply sent the mother and daughter to Xiaoyizhuang. He returned to Jiyang after staying for two days, while Zhu Yuliang did not return until after taking family leave.
Soon, Wen Jing was rescued from falling into the water for the first time in Xiaoyizhuang, which was only known by Wen Yuanfang and his wife after many years. Xu Guiying and Zhu Xinghua didn't want the eldest girl and eldest son-in-law to worry in vain, so they didn't write to tell them at that time.
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