(xxxvii) Behind the scenery
Sister Chen was amused by Li Xiaocan's hateful and indignant look, and sneered: "Xiaocan, your marriage is happy, you have had a lot of things recently, so there will be quarrels." After a while, when there are fewer things, you will be almost done. Sister Chen gently stirred the coffee, and the delicate spoon touched the wall of the cup, making a pleasant and crisp sound, and said slowly, "You know what? I was divorced. ”
Li Xiaocai was stunned again: "Why?" ”
Sister Chen's tone was calm, as if she was telling someone else's business, and she had nothing to do with herself.
In this office of only two people, on this ordinary night, there is only the low hum of the air conditioner. In the mellow aroma of coffee in cup after cup of bitterness, Sister Chen told her half-life experience.
Sister Chen's name is Chen Yun.
My ex-husband and I came together because of love. We were introduced to each other, and he was very nice to me.
At that time, I was so simple, choosing a boyfriend, I only saw whether he was good to me or not, and I couldn't see anything else in my eyes. He took me to drink coffee and eat Western food, chartered a car and said to surprise me, and when I opened the trunk, it was full of roses. As long as I like something, he doesn't blink an eye. I was sick and he was more nervous than me. Gastroenteritis injections, he stayed with me for a few days and nights. Of course, his family runs a garment factory, and the conditions are relatively good.
We were together and were opposed. His mother thought that I was a girl from other places, not tall, not as good as his family, and had no formal job, and had no local network to help his family, and thought I was high.
His mother is the president of a garment factory, and she has the final say in the affairs of the factory and family affairs. I didn't want to be thought that I was going for his money, so I broke up with him. But I didn't expect him to fly to me, and he insisted on being with me.
In a fit of rage, his mother cut off his financial resources, transferred all the money from his card, and stopped his credit card.
Even so, he still has to stay with me. In the end, after holding on for more than half a year, his mother compromised and agreed to the two of us.
He took me back to his house, but his mother didn't mention anything about getting married. His mother was cold and haughty when she saw me.
I was very stubborn, so I stayed in my room all day and didn't come out.
Once at dinner, he took the initiative to mention: "Mom, when will I be able to marry Chen Yun?" ”
His mother glanced at me and knocked the edge of the bowl with chopsticks disdainfully: "What's the hurry!" During this time, the factory was busy, Chen Yun first went to the factory to help, stabilize a little, and wait until everyone was familiar with it. ”
He was silent, and lowered his head to pick up the rice in his mouth. I felt uncomfortable, but I couldn't refute it. Thinking that he has paid so much for me, I can't bear it.
But I don't admit defeat in my bones, since you look down on me, the more I want to show you, I'm not unworthy of your son.
So I worked hard, went to the factory to study, worked with the employees on the assembly line, and I figured out every link from order to feeding to production to shipment.
Three months later, when I stood in front of his mom with the business plan that I had worked on for a whole week, her mom looked at me for the first time and asked, "Is this your own plan?" ”
I looked her in the eye and replied clearly and loudly, "Yes." ”
Soon, the plan was executed. A few months later, the project began to bear fruit, and the sales of e-commerce were soaring due to the fact that it was in line with the mass trend and the quality of the products was passed.
In the fifth month, the performance of the team I led exceeded the performance of the physical store. But it was also because of this incident that I really saw what it means to be a businessman.
His mother began to get acquainted with me, and once squinted at my eyes, but finally revealed a positive gaze, and praised everyone that "this is my daughter-in-law, quite capable". After seeing my ability, his mother changed from the previous perfunctory to urging: "Ah, I found someone to watch the day, and I will set up a bar next month, and I will ask the most famous host in the city to be a witness to your marriage, and you will definitely get married in style." ”
I watched her talk about the wedding coldly, but I knew her thoughts very well.
Because she gave us the wedding room, she wrote her own name, not even her son's name, as if she was guarding against me.
I didn't care about fighting with her for any property, and I knew I couldn't fight with her. It's just that I know she doesn't treat me like family.
The wedding was held as scheduled, and the high-end and luxurious wedding, the most high-end hotel, the famous host, and the luxurious fleet caused quite a stir in the local area.
The honeys are envious of me for counterattacking, marrying into a wealthy family, realizing Cinderella's dream, and living a fairytale happy life. But they didn't understand my heart.
After marriage, his mother has been firmly in control of my salary, and only gives us 20,000 yuan a month to live on. My husband has been enjoying it since he was a child, and he went to work outside, and came back within a few months, saying that he was too tired and angry. The investment also failed, and the money was spent lavishly, and when he squandered it, only a little bit came into my hands.
Although I am the vice president of the company, the performance of the team has far exceeded that of the physical store, but I have no money in my hands. I reasoned with his son, and his son went to negotiate with his mother, and the result was a reward for us with a car worth more than 600,000 yuan.
Obviously I earned the money, but I only wrote her son's name, I couldn't get angry, but her son said, "It's okay, mine is not yours, don't care so much, you have to learn to endure, catch big fish for a long time, and wait for my mother to die in a hundred years, everything is ours." ”
The new car had not been driven for two months, and his father wanted to talk about business and drove away.
His son is still a peacemaker, he only knows how to eat, drink and have fun, and he can't understand the incompatible mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship between me and his mother.
Although I have a nominal status in this family, I have no financial rights, and my expenses must be signed by his mother. I rely on my own ability to make money to see her face, she has always treated me as a free employee, and even the 20,000 yuan a month is on the card of her son who does nothing, not my personal account.
My mom has a birthday, I want to buy a mink coat for my mom, my mom is afraid of the cold, arthritis, can't get cold, I ask my mom for 5,000 yuan, I need to explain to his mom what kind of use, and submit * receipt.
With such a mother-in-law, I was extremely aggrieved, I thought that as long as I could prove myself, I didn't expect her to be so calculating.
What made me even more unbearable was that as soon as I got married and saw that e-commerce was booming, she wanted to take away my achievements and urge me to have children.
When she heard someone coughing, she asked me if I was vomiting and bought me some children's clothes for me. I also buy some children's toys to put in the living room, intentionally or unintentionally.
When I first arrived at his house, I made up my mind that I must not get pregnant before drinking, otherwise she would look down on me even more, so I secretly took the birth control pill. Her son didn't understand the intricate and delicate relationship between me and his mother, so I kept it a secret from him.
Now that I think about it, in fact, my divorce from him is inevitable, because he doesn't know me at all. He didn't understand my self-reliant, unbullied character, and I didn't look down on his incompetence and cowardice, we were just young and drawn together by passion.
The man has no concept of the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and he can't understand the situation of his daughter-in-law as an outsider, he always comforts me, 20,000 yuan is enough to spend, food and clothing are worry-free, there is a house, a car and assets, what are you still tossing.
Maybe it's because I've been using contraception for too long, and I can't even get pregnant.
My mother-in-law watched me go home carrying a large bag of Chinese medicine, and sneered: "Girls still have to put their families first, and they can't work too hard, because their bodies are bad, and they can't be drawn." Women don't have too many desires, just be a good housewife. ”
I was angry, but I was also afraid. If I couldn't get pregnant, my mother-in-law would definitely force me to divorce his son, so in desperation, I resigned as vice president and handed over the e-commerce team I had run single-handedly. Concentrate on taking care of your body at home, exercise early and go to bed early and get up early every day, maintain your health and condition your body, and eat a lot of Chinese medicine that is more bitter than Coptis chinensis.
I've been looking forward to it countless times, but I still haven't gotten pregnant. I became more and more anxious and panicked, and my hair fell out a lot, and I lost a lot of it. My mother-in-law's attitude towards me has reverted to its previous coldness.
Once, when I created profits for her, she was full of hypocritical smiles, but now seeing that my stomach has not moved for a long time, she began to knock on the side again: "Mr. Zhang, his son has not yet set up wine, and he has taken the pregnant girl home, and he will give birth in a few months; There is also Mr. Cao, his son is two years younger than my son, and now the children will call their parents. For women, passing on the family is the basic task. It's a girl, you will give birth, unless those whose private lives are chaotic, who knows what you have done and broken your body, you can't give birth! Women, you have to love yourself, don't try to be happy for a while, but come to harm others, and then you can only eat the bitter fruits you plant. ”
The more she talked about the back, the more outrageous and explicit it it became, which simply slandered my personality. I hated it so much, but I didn't dare to contradict it, I didn't think I could ruin my marriage because I was impulsive, after all, his son didn't make any real mistakes. I wouldn't be stupid enough to divorce because of my mother-in-law.
But I know the power of my mother-in-law, she can break us up in minutes, especially with such an unassertive husband, it is not uncommon for a marriage to be broken up by the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The emperor lived up to his wishes, after half a year, after countless times of running and tossing, I finally got pregnant, I didn't believe my eyes, I went straight to the hospital with a pregnancy test, after getting the results, I was excited and cried, God knows how much I suffered for this child, how much I suffered, how much suffering. Thank God so much! My heart recites "Amitabha". Back home, I put the pregnancy test stick, which showed parallel bars, on the table in the hall to see how she reacted.