01 Stock trading is a painful industry
Stock speculation is a very painful industry, every day to face is to make less or lose money, both situations will be quite painful, buy early, buy more, buy less, sell early, sell more, sell less...... It can be said that as soon as you enter the stock market, you are destined to be married to pain, and only by getting rid of this pain can you succeed in this industry, and to succeed in stock speculation is to endure the pain that ordinary people can't bear.
The process of stock speculation is to make all the mistakes you have made, so that you will never make mistakes again in the future, and you will not be far from success. Falling and getting up, constantly falling and getting up, successful people are all getting up from the dead.
It's normal to be entangled, no matter how successful you are, you will be entangled, the key is that when you are entangled to numbness, you are not far from success.
The people I have seen who have successfully traded stocks are all desperate people, and those who really have other ways have changed careers after two or three years.
Everyone in this industry wants to make a lot of money, and everyone wants to get something for nothing, but is it possible? It takes too long to succeed in this business, and you must not say that you have succeeded in 10 years. There is no complete bull and bear that has not been experienced twice in 10 years, do you dare to say that you have made any mistakes? If you haven't made all the mistakes, it will be unforgettable, and you will have to make mistakes and be painful in the future, so it's best not to mix in this industry if you are not mentally prepared.
Everyone wants to lick the blood, everyone wants to succeed, the key is that the pain of this industry is far more than everyone expected.
The stock market magnifies the joys and pains of life, so when you are happy, you are happy, and when you are in pain, you are very painful.
The stock market is still a relatively fair place, or a place proportional to the degree of effort, it is an industry that can rely on itself, and you can only blame yourself if you are wrong.
Now let's talk about what is a successful person in stock trading, in my eyes, a successful person in stock trading is a person who makes a living from stock trading, a person who can make a living from stock speculation every year, not a person who makes a big profit this year and a big loss next year, as long as the person who can make money in the stock market stably, he is successful, no matter how much you earn.
Don't underestimate this goal, less than 100 of the 300,000 customers can actually do this.
The pain of speculating in the stock economy, this pain is actually set an incorrect income target at the root, and the problem to be solved is how much do you want to earn every year when you come to the stock market? 20%? Many people are too little, I set a target for myself to be 20% per year, the most important reason why many people are too little is because the cost is too small, you have 300w may be 20% is not too little, but if you are only 2, 3w you may be too little, a little if you want to earn more, you will take unnecessary risks and lose a lot of money, a loss of a lot of money will be more want to get back, the more you want to get back, the more you want to get back, the more you lose...... has come to a vicious circle, and your road to stock trading may be coming to an end.
Therefore, we must set the right income goal for ourselves, don't be ambitious, and do a good job in a down-to-earth manner, money is just a prize for us to do things well.
Let's talk about my current stock trading method, I am now mainly doing right-side trading, because only right-hand trading is the safest, rather low-risk and low-return, we professional stockholders have no salary income to ensure that they can not lose money every year, can not eat the old capital, to do this we must reduce their own desires, the so-called control of desire to control the risk, only earn their own money, give up some of their own unsure of the market.
I don't know if you have this feeling after speculating in stocks for a long time, some market fools can make money in a year, or you can make money by typing the wrong code, and some markets are impossible for everyone to make money.
Speculating in stocks is actually as simple as that, but our demons are too heavy, we want to make more, not satisfied, the more we want to make more money, the more we can't earn, the more we have to lose, and we want to make a big loss when we lose a big loss. The key to speculating in stocks is to control the risk, don't say double at every turn, I think it doesn't matter how much income you make, the key is how much risk you take to get the return, the big return you take a big risk is useless, sooner or later you have to return it to the market, so I would rather make some low returns without taking any risks.
My current yield may be dismissive to many so-called masters, but so what? Trading is for yourself not for others, the key is to survive in this industry, to make this craft familiar and long, is not a master and what does it matter, the so-called practice makes perfect, anyone can do it for a long time, the key is that you have to survive to do it for a long time, in order to have the opportunity to practice makes perfect, you can't leave the market because of a mistake.
Doing stocks is like being a thief, you have to go to a place with more people, more people can fish in troubled waters, what is more people is when the volume is large, many people can participate in the troubled waters, the dealer is the police, only when there are many people can fish in troubled waters to facilitate escape, when there are few people, you and the police do not catch you to catch whom? A thief's skill is not in stealing, but in how to escape when there is danger. Therefore, when we do stocks, we must think that we are thieves, we must always be vigilant, we cannot relax and we cannot our tails, we may be caught every day if we do not leave this line of work, and we must be modest and cautious to be a man with our tails between our legs.
When we come to this market, we have to figure out our positioning, it's good to be a pickpocket, don't be a pickpocket and want to rob, high-risk and high-return, we can't afford to lose. Don't think too much about stocks.
Let's talk about the most unforgettable two tears that I have shed since I entered the market, the first time is that I don't know that year I heard the news to buy a stock called Sisha shares at that time, and took more than half a year to buy 10 yuan to rise to about 12 yuan, that day I remember very clearly at noon when the market opened more than 12 yuan, I sold it and wanted to pick it up again at a low level, and after selling it, I went to the bathroom and came back to the limit, this stock was like pulling onions on dry land, and it rose to 20 yuan out of control, and it was less than 10 minutes away, and it was less than 10 minutes after waiting for half a year.
The second time is the famous 519 market bought a few months ago 000511 now called Yinji Development stocks have been trapped, and finally waited until the 519 market, as a result, 90% of the stocks were about to rise and fall at that time, it didn't move much, the first day didn't move, the second day didn't move, the third day really couldn't help but change shares, the result was ......
At that time, I really cried these two times, it was painful to cry, it felt like the end of the world, and I really thought about giving up on stocks at that time, but I really couldn't accept it. In retrospect for a few years, this is actually just a stumbling stone on the road of stock trading, and it would be good to step over it.
Stepping on the short is the norm, selling the stock is either up or down, that is, there is a 50% chance that it will regret and will be uncomfortable, so it is very painful for many people, this pain can only be solved in time, there is more time to step on the short, every day is painful, and the pain is more and the feeling of the short is not so painful, and this painful feeling will naturally slow down a lot, so now buy stocks as long as it is not a loss or a small loss, and now the short will just laugh at yourself. As for how to let it go after it is sold, it has nothing to do with itself.