Due to the accelerated pace of modern society, postpartum depression is becoming more and more common, but it is only mild or severe!

Zhou Yuan and Chen Qiang have been together for many years, and when there was no Xiaoman, Zhou Yuan could go to Luannan District to stay with Chen Qiang for three or four days a week!

The life of the young couple is also quite comfortable because there is no other thing to delay!

When you're in a good mood, you take turns cooking some food, and when you're tired, you're out there to pick up food!

Zhou Yuan is also very happy after pregnancy, and everyone's attention is on her, this feeling of being cared for makes Zhou Yuan very happy!

However, since Xiaoman was born, everyone, including Zhou Yuan, has focused on Xiaoman!

Even if sometimes Zhou Yuan and Chen Qiang have a little time to get together, all the two of them talk about is Xiaoman's affairs!

At the beginning of this life, I was still very happy, or I was too busy to think too much!

After a long time, there will be problems!

Zhou Yuan has been with his parents and Xiaoman for a long time, and Chen Qiang often works overtime, and he can see Chen Qiang once or twice a week!

This pace of life is completely different from the previous life!

It's better if the focus of a woman's work and life after giving birth is on children, but any woman who has a little life pursuit will care about her married life!

The consequence of this is that women want to be respected before childbirth or during pregnancy, but they do not get the corresponding feedback, and the result is that they have to have some other ideas!

Zhou Yuan used to be a little woman who only had Chen Qiang in her heart, but after becoming a mother, she was naturally different, and her life needed to have multiple colors and multiple identities!

Obviously, Zhou Yuan did not really recognize himself in the transformation of his identity, or his self-positioning was not clear enough!

A moment of major change in a family's life is the birth and growth of a child!

If you are not ready to be a mother or father, please make your life more pure!

Zhou Yuan still has a tendency to be depressed after all, although she didn't realize it herself, but some things happened unconsciously!

When Zhou Yuan called Chen Qiang, he was just concerned about Chen Qiang's situation on duty, but he accidentally complained about his dissatisfaction with his recent life!

"What are you doing?" Zhou Yuan asked!

"Just a call from the streets of Nancheng!" Chen Qiang said!

"Male?" Zhou Yuan asked!

"Hmm!" Chen Qiang said!

"Talked for so long?" Zhou Yuan asked!

"So long?" Chen Qiang is questioning!

Chen Qiang hurriedly looked through the QQ chat history and found that Zhou Yuan had sent a message half an hour ago!

"I just talked about one thing, and I talked a little more!" Chen Qiang said!

"What's so interesting?" Zhou Yuan asked!

"It's just work!" Chen Qiang said!

"No wonder you've been on duty lately!" Zhou Yuan said!

"Didn't this just turn around the personnel relationship and ask to be on duty!" Chen Qiang said!

"What about Xiaoman?" Zhou Yuan suddenly asked!

"What's wrong with Xiaoman?" Chen Qiang asked!

"Xiaoman will be two years old soon, and he will soon go to kindergarten, as well as elementary and middle school, have you thought about it!" Zhou Yuan asked!

"This ...... Doesn't Luanbei University have a child? There is also a high school attached! Chen Qiang said!

"Luanbei University is attached to the kindergarten? My colleague's children all study in the people's primary school, and the junior high school is in Luancheng No. 1 Middle School! Zhou Yuan said!

"Xiaoman can't read the People's Primary School!" Chen Qiang said!

"You can't do anything after working in the agency for so long?" Zhou Yuan asked!

"Now it's all zoned and enrolled nearby, Xiaoman is indeed not in the zoned area!" Chen Qiang said!

"Isn't there a people's primary school in Luanjiang City? You go and check in first! Zhou Yuan reminded!

"The project in Luanjiang City has just resumed, and it is estimated that it will take another year or two to enroll students!" Chen Qiang said!

"Now children are pregnant and start looking for schools, Xiaoman is two years old, you don't have to worry about his studies! Zhou Yuan said!

"It's too early!" Chen Qiang sighed!

"By the time you remember, it's already over! Aunt Li's house next door just got pregnant and started to show up! Zhou Yuan said!

"I think the primary school affiliated to Luan Peking University is very good!" Chen Qiang said!

"You ......, okay, I'll figure out how to deal with Xiaoman!" Zhou Yuan hung up the phone after speaking!

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"Dad, did Yuan Yuan sleep?" Chen Qiang dialed Chen Xufang's phone!

"I've been asleep for a long time, do you want me to call her?" Zhou Xufang said!

"No need, she just sleeps!" Chen Qiang hung up the phone after speaking!

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Since Chen Qiang became a secretary, the time spent at home can basically be calculated in seconds, at first Zhou Yuan still felt nothing, since Xiaoman began to learn to read at the beginning of the year, Zhou Yuan felt that his father had too little time together!

The transition of married life from love to affection is always unnatural!

At first, the parties will not realize this change, until they quarrel for the sake of the next generation, and they realize that the relationship between them has changed from husband and wife to "the child is her mother or the child is her father!" ”

Although this transition is natural, it is difficult to detect each other, and it is difficult to automatically adjust to the change of roles!

It's a natural shift, and it's a fundamental shift!

In the past, Chen Qiang and Zhou Yuan were people who could warm up their bodies by looking at them!

Now Zhou Yuan is more concerned about how much time Chen Qiang spends on Xiaoman!

And Chen Qiang is concerned about when Zhou Yuan is willing to take the time to go to Nancheng Garden to accompany him alone!

If you do the math, it seems like three years have passed!

It turns out that the biggest person in the change of family roles is not the father, but the mother!

Chen Qiang felt that he hadn't seen Zhou Yuan's bright smile for a long time!

Chen Qiang did not feel emotional because of the neglect he received in the past three years, while Zhou Yuan polished off the edges and corners of life in the trivial life day after day, but retained the feelings of a girl!

So Zhou Yuan was a little depressed, although Zhou Yuan didn't admit it!

If Zhou Yuan starts to be depressed immediately, he may retire within three years!

But most people's depression is selective depression, if you are depressed about only one thing or one thing, this depression is just an excuse for life!

Chen Qiang needs space, Zhou Yuan needs space even more, but fortunately, what Nancheng Garden and Luanzhong District leave for both sides is space!

Although this kind of space is not the north and south of the mountain!

The best way to get rid of depression is to live your own life, and this life needs a carrier!

This carrier is a space, and Nancheng Garden is an independent space!

All Chen Qiang needs to do is persuade Zhou Yuan to relax in the space!