Talk about the husband and wife relationship of Xu 4 and 11
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First of all, Xu 4 and 11 have only been newly married for a month, and there is no emotional foundation before marriage, at most there is a general impression that the quality of their newlyweds should be good together, and XING's life is not very harmonious, of course, the reason for this is not that Xu 4 is simple and rude, but the gap between a mature man and a childish girl.
11's requirements for Xu 4, to provide a place where he can settle down, preferably with a good temper, these Xu 11 have far exceeded 11's established goals: not to be a concubine, and not to be a fool and crippled husband. It can be said that when 11 was a daughter in the Luo family, she never thought that she would get such a husband, and the intrigues of the mother and daughter of the Luo family, Xu 4 can be called a very good ancient husband, and the mother-in-law who directly affects the quality of life of 11 is also a very good mother-in-law. I remember reading a novel about the girl getting married, and her mother-in-law and husband giving her a dowry, and when she entered the door, she was shocked by a group of spirits.
Xu 4's requirements for marriage are not high, advance and retreat appropriately, and his daughter-in-law is already very satisfied in his opinion, of course, it is best to have a little fun, it can be said that Xu 4's requirements for his wife are not known to be tortured so low by Yuan Niang or he does not have much requirements for women, anyway, it can be seen from his satisfaction with 11 rather than a lot of pickiness, Xu 4 is a broad-minded, not a girl chirping man. Xu 4's satisfaction with 11 is not how powerful and charming 11 is, I mean the image that 11 shows at the moment, it is that Xu 4 has low requirements. Maybe what Xu 4 was thinking in his head was, well, much easier to get along with than Luo Yuanniang, convex. However, when a man's heart doesn't realize the sad urge word love, maybe he can feel the harbinger from XING, covering his face, compared to 11's patience and sad expression, compared to Xu 4's loss of control and Meng Lang, how imaginative it is. If it is the KUAI feeling brought by the body of a young girl, Qiao Liu should also be able to do it, but obviously, Qiao Liu has a cup.
The unique charm of 11 needs Xu 4 to be explored slowly, and life needs a pair of eyes that can find beauty, and Xu 4 and 11 have such eyes. Xu 4 is mature enough, and he will not be picky about 11 or carry out domestic cold violence because of the daughter-in-law who was forced by the Luo family; Xu 4 is not easy to be emotional, a cute girl like us 11 is escorted by the author and many readers, Xu 4 did not immediately crawl over to be a Qiong Yao man, and worship under the heroine's pomegranate skirt Since then, other women in the world are as ugly as burning sticks, even if they used to share the same bed and raise children, and like the mentor of 11 life, slowly guide 11 like a small animal to familiarize herself with the surrounding environment, while maintaining, and letting her grow independently. Watch her carefully, try to figure her out, and don't dominate her by force. This feeling, beauty.
11 has respect, appreciation, and gratitude to Xu 4, and there is also a comradeship similar to that of comrades, with a hidden sense of maintenance, 11 Xu 4's good impression is slowly accumulated, but this kind of good feeling is currently not male and female, selfish feelings, she is grateful to Xu 4 for being able to provide her with a place to settle down, and deeply admires Xu 4's personal ability, Xu 4's care for her makes 11 feel warm, from 11 to ancient times, she only felt a little warmth in the girl and the fifth aunt, Maybe in the reader's opinion, what Xu 4 has not done well enough is good enough for 11, because 11 is not very demanding. Life needs to be carefully managed, and a woman who has many requirements for life without management must be an insatiable woman, 11's character I like very much, although in the eyes of our readers, 11 Niang is very wronged, but 11 Niang's mentality is like the warm sun in winter, there is no such sadness and sadness, and no one is sorry for her second disease. This must be one of the factors for Xu 4 to fall in love with her later. 11 will definitely be very good to Xu 4, not only because Xu 4 is the boss is the boss, but also because Xu 4 is really good to 11, when two people are really good for each other, will love be far away.
Xu 4 is a high-ranking and powerful man who is allowed by law to have three wives and four concubines, and compared with Xu 4's attitude towards women and the number of modern laws, three wives and four concubines are not allowed to be high-powered men, so Xu 4 is not worse than modern men. A man's feelings for a woman, I believe that it is not a woman who can be transformed by the concept of monogamy with a little more law, this kind of thing is too whimsical, I don't like the so-called transformation of a woman at all, it has a strong savior feeling or heartthrob color. The posture is too high, they all open the plug-in from the author, go through the back door, go to win the war that must be won, and are complacent about it, and win the battle to defend love and marriage.
Xu 4 is not a man who is not heavy, so he may not find the fountain of youth in young girls when he is old; It is not easy to be emotional, it is possible that after being emotional, it must be wholeheartedly and sweep away the haze of the past; His nature is generous and nostalgic, which shows that his feelings are lasting and not a whim. Although Squeak doesn't pay much attention to Xu 4, Xu 4's own excellent nature is destined to make him a dedicated husband in the future, but it takes time and events to promote, not through the so-called transformation of the heroine.
I like this book very much, and the direction of the protagonist's personality is very reasonable at the moment, and there is no sign of sudden transformation. Come on, squeak.