No one asks about whether Xu Si is excellent and the ancient hero

Hmm, touch your head, why haven't you come for two days, everyone is still scolding Xu Si, the combat effectiveness is really long-lasting, so many cute little pot friends have not been able to divert everyone's attention.

Of course, as everyone said, Xu Si is definitely not a good husband, Yuan Niang and Eleven have suffered enough, this shortcoming, even if he is a great man standing at the top of the world, he can't hide it. But in the same way, we can't deny that he is a successful person because his house is restless - well, it's not bad, it's just an undercurrent surging - doesn't this put our eyes on the same level as Mrs. Luo.

For everyone's repeated emphasis on Xu Siguan's bad family, I express my heartfelt wondering. The housekeeper and Xu Si really don't have much to do with each other, what is the wife for? No ancient scholar would be entangled in the backyard - even in **, the queen and the queen mother have more power to deal with things than the emperor, and no one will take whether the housekeeper is good or not as the standard for judging a man, and men will be laughed at when they handle family affairs. The reason why parents pick and choose to find a daughter-in-law for their son is not to marry back the housekeeper?

For everyone to cite "Xiu Qi Zhiping" to prove that Xu Si is not a successful person, I can only say secretly: You misunderstand the ancient old master, the relationship between these four terms has never been juxtaposed, the ancient old man wanted to go crazy is how to glorify the ancestors and govern the country and level the world - but the number of civil servants is limited, so to do something else to balance, it is really impossible to be an official, you can also say that you have noble morals, simple family style or something (but the heart is not regretful), the success of the latter two can completely cover up the former, But the other way around, it can't be true.

Therefore, ancient men were a little naïve and shameless (this is especially reflected in the Confucian etiquette and system, because the ancient old masters liked to dream the most - the beautiful dream of Huangliang about Xiuqi Zhiping), they hoped to find a good wife, be able to take care of the house, and teach their sons to be filial to their parents, and ...... Can be virtuous and gentle to deal with his own concubine - if not, hey, I'm really unlucky, for Mao and others can enjoy the blessings of the family, and my wife can't do this thing? You expect them to realize that they also have a lot of responsibility, so it is better to spend more energy looking at the account book and scolding the concubine.

The Xu family does have some pickled things, but Xu Si and Mrs. Tai's handling methods are still excellent - you know, the evaluation of a family's family style is not based on how many dirty things their family has, but on how many dirty things their family knows and dares to publicly comment or express (both conditions are necessary) - for example, the ** son of the Wang family, the Yang family always shows a small family spirit, and the Qiao family is not allowed to be on the stage......

The only thing that Jiafu is clean is the two stone lions, but as long as the Jia family is not completely defeated, who knows outside, and the few who know will only dare to stammer-such as Jia Yu Village. Therefore, Xu Si can't manage the house according to everyone's requirements at all, even if he only has one wife to educate his son and brother every day, as long as he has a little opinion on the Xu family, no matter how little things will become a weapon for killing. As long as there are no sensational bad things in the Hou Mansion, or Xu Si still has a title with real power and power in the Sacred Heart, who dares to do anything?

So what's the more appalling bad thing?

For example, the widowed second lady was bullied (no outsiders will care if she was bullied because of conspiracy or something, people are absolutely weak compared to the fourth room), for example, the fifth master raised a drama and raised a problem, such as the aunt of the Hou Mansion died - believe me, if this is the case, no matter who did it for what, the problem will come down to the lady in charge, just as Yuan Niang's public opinion is responsible for the accidents of the previous concubines. As for outsiders, at most, they think that General Hou Ye is dignified, how can he do such a troublesome and painful thing!

So when Yuan Niang is seriously ill, there will be so many tender and delicate girls who pounce like dogs seeing meat and bones, in their opinion, what a successful and charming husband Xu Si is, since this woman can't do a good job, so leave early and replace me with me, I will definitely be able to get his favor and take care of this Hou Mansion - cruel and shameless, naïve and ignorant of the world, but this is the real world, the real idea.

As for the prince and Cinderella living happily together, the prince is responsible for taking care of Cinderella's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship and diplomatic exchanges every day in addition to managing the country, which really only exists in that story from a long, long time ago.