Chapter 442: Selfish or Selfless
Su Yingxue shook her head: "But, my father and mother, in order for me to live well, actually ......"
Tang Jun sighed, and knew that this stupid girl was starting to get entangled again.
"Yes, I know what you think. However, Cher, you must know that the reason why a person is a human being is because he has his own thoughts and ideas. For so many years, you have wronged yourself for your father, even if you finally break free, it is a normal thing. ”
"However, my father and mother were also for me all those years~"
"I know, of course I do. But, Cher, even if it's for you, at least these things should be done with your permission. Tang Jun hurriedly explained.
"Yes, they're your mom and dad. I know it's disrespectful, but that's just the way it is. They are trying to keep you from knowing about the so-called terrible gang that has caused trouble to their parents, but they have lost their right judgment because of this. You are the one who you are, and you are the one who has the best authority to make decisions for yourself. Whether you really choose to do what those people say, or choose to stay at home, these are your own decisions, and they shouldn't keep this decision buried forever.
They, without giving you, enough respect.
Even though you were still young, what about you later? And after that, they should tell you. Instead of hiding and tucking, hiding and tucking, it shows that they really believe in that statement, they are really afraid of this fate, perhaps, in the end, they are still thinking, that fate has not changed in the end.
But, Cher, have you ever thought about it? If, if, without their confinement, would you meet Jiang Li at that opportunity? Would you run away from your house in such a desperate way?
Jiang Li is just a fuse, Liu Lingjun is just a fuse, and it is your father and mother who really buried this disaster. ”
Su Yingxue's face was angry.
"My father and mother have already done this in order for me to live well, and you still say that about them?" Su Yingxue felt incredible.
Tang Jun said these thoughts because he couldn't bear to look at Su Yingxue's appearance, but he also said such things when Su Yingxue couldn't bear it the most.
"I know. Xue'er, I know that you are sad, and I know that in the eyes of everyone, of course, I also think so, your father and mother have indeed made a lot of sacrifices and efforts for you to be able to live a carefree life. ”
"Then you ......," Su Yingxue said.
Tang Jun stretched out his hand to stop her opening: "Yes, I admit that they are the best parents in the world in the general sense. But, Cher, you should admit something. In this world, the most correct sentence is 'too much'. That's how much they love you. ”
Su Yingxue frowned.
Daddy's love for her, except for the thing she couldn't accept, is really loving and loving. It's just, isn't it too much?
"Haven't you always been envious of that Dong Wan?" Tang Jun opened his mouth and said, "Then do you know what you envy her?" ”
What envy her? Envy that she has a folio
Bright parents, parents who can be more enlightened than this world. Not only does it not restrict her daughter from going out at will, whether it is making friends or playing, there is no restriction at all. Even, at a young age, she was able to secretly manage her own business as a Miss Guan, even if she had no parents to rely on, she was completely able to live independently. Unlike her, although she can survive without her parents, she already knows that it is entirely because she was lucky to meet Tang Jun, otherwise, she doesn't know how to hit a wall in this world.
Almost, almost, she won't survive. Even if she can live now, it is because the person in front of her recommended people for herself, paved the way, and imperceptibly trained herself.
What is the stake? With an industry like Mingyue Pavilion, does he need to make money from her? It's just for her.
Su Yingxue thought about it, and her eyebrows furrowed tightly.
Although she unconsciously learned a lot of business from her father, what really taught her and allowed her to really practice it was the shopkeeper Tong and the three Mr. Zuo.
"However, they really paid too much for me." Su Yingxue muttered.
Seeing that Su Yingxue had calmed down, Tang Jun knew that she had listened to what she said.
"yes. I'll admit that they're still good parents, but, Cher, they've done everything for you, and they've made them the best parents, so what about you? Do you feel happy? ”
Happiness?
It stands to reason that Su Yingxue should feel happy, but why is her heart heavy at the moment?
"You're not happy. Because. The love they give you is too much for you to bear. True love should give you enough space and leeway. When they do everything they can to do what they think is the best, they don't even think about whether you need it or not, what they know is that they need it to be able to show their love for you. Selfish, not you. Cher. ”
Su Yingxue shook her head: "This is obviously selfless love, selfless love that even gives up everything, how can you say that?" ”
Tang Jun was speechless and a little depressed, but he still said: "Xue'er, selfishness and selflessness, in fact, sometimes there is no way to distinguish clearly. Love is hard to say. And selfishness and selflessness are for the one who is accepted. Is this selfless or selfish for her?
If you do so in a way that makes you feel that you can accept it, without pain and without entanglement, then this kind of love is selfless. Even if they ask you to avenge them to solve your pain of losing your parents, what they think is selfish for you to avenge you is actually selfless for you. But now, they don't ask you for revenge. It's not because they don't hate those who hurt them, but because they feel that it's a protection for you, but what about you? You need to live your whole life with the resentment of not being able to avenge your parents. Such a request is selfish to you. What they think is selfless, in fact, is the most selfish. ”
Su Yingxue was completely confused by this paragraph.
But there was one thing she understood. Daddy didn't let her take revenge, not because she didn't hate those people, but because she just wanted her to live well. That's just it. So, if she can live well, can she avenge them within the scope of ensuring her safety?
(. = )