Cao Fan benefited a lot.

Before Thursday, Cao Fan didn't even go to school.

During the day, he studied calligraphy and poetry with Wang Xizhi and Li Yu.

At night, I entered the world of wonder to cultivate, and completely entered the realm of selflessness.

On Tuesday night, Zhang Hua also joined, and he later joined, so Wang Xizhi and Li Yu once again handed over a lot of his knowledge of calligraphy and poetry and poetry.

Cao Fan was speechless, so he had to listen again.

Zhang Hua also joined in the day and night study, and also missed classes all day.

Li Yu's appearance did not make Zhang Hua feel strange, because one of the two paintings he found was Li Yu's real handiwork.

He finally knew where the two pieces of calligraphy came from.

Then Wang Xizhi asked: "Little apprentice, when did you take away the calligraphy of me and your little master?"

Zhang Hua hesitated: "I took it away last Saturday morning, I really don't know that it was the calligraphy of the two masters. ”

Cao Fan said disdainfully: "Are you taking it? ”

Zhang Hua was even more nervous, he said: "Cao Fan, don't talk nonsense, I really took it over to watch, watch." ”

Wang Xiyi said with a solemn face: "That painting is the "Orchid Pavilion Collection Preface", which is the second lone work for the teacher in the past thousand years. It has a strong collection value. ”

Li Yu also said solemnly: "The value of my article is also extraordinary! It can definitely be regarded as your family heirloom." ”

Zhang Hua looked embarrassed and worried.

Cao Fan is also playful, Zhang Hua, you are in trouble.

Zhang Hua wanted to explain two more sentences, but he didn't go back to get the two calligraphy works.

Obviously, I can't put it down, and I can't bear to take it out.

The ghosts of Wang Xizhi and Li Yu rose with a solemn look on their faces.

Zhang Hua quickly stood up, and with a helpless expression, he was about to return to the house and take his calligraphy works.

Wang Xizhi, Li Yu and Cao Fan suddenly laughed out loud when Zhang Hua took more than a dozen steps.

"Assert ......"

"Hahaha......"

"囖囖囖......"

Ghost and human voices echo each other, reflecting the difference between the whole world and the world.

It makes the atmosphere in the house very weird and a little funny.

Zhang Hua looked back and said, "What's wrong with you, two masters and senior brothers!"

"No, come back and continue to learn calligraphy. ”

Wang Xizhi said with a feeling.

Zhang Hua walked back with a confused face and said, "Master, what does this mean?"

"It means that you can keep those two pieces of calligraphy and don't have to take them. Li Yu also said.

"Little Master, what do you mean by that?" Zhang Hua asked rhetorically.

"It means two pieces of calligraphy, and we gave them to you. Li Yu said.

"Yes, when we gave you a gift, you and Cao Fan both shared, don't pay it back, I didn't let you return it. Wang Xizhi said.

"Zhang Hua, you are not allowed to steal next time, this is a bad behavior. Cao Fan said with a smile.

Zhang Hua woke up from the surprise, and then quickly thanked the two masters, and knelt down and kowtowed three times.

As a ritual for this apprenticeship.

As a dignified emperor, Li Yu also talked about the etiquette of the Great Hua Kingdom.

Wang Xizhi added next to him.

Dahua is known as the "State of Etiquette", and the so-called summer of etiquette, the etiquette and rituals of Dahua.

The etiquette of the Great Chinese Kingdom is the most Zhou, and the Zhou ritual is generally implemented in ancient times.

In ancient times, there were five rites in Dahua, the sacrifice was an auspicious ceremony, the crown wedding was a wedding ceremony, the guest was a guest ceremony, the military was a military ceremony, and the funeral was a fierce ceremony.

Folklore believes that etiquette includes four kinds of life etiquette: birth, crown, marriage and funeral.

In fact, etiquette can be divided into two categories: politics and life.

The political category includes sacrifices to the heavens, the earth, and the temples, the worship of the ancestors, the kings, and the sages, the village drink, the meeting ceremony, the military ceremony, etc.

The life category includes the five rituals, the high rituals, the rituals, the birth ceremony, the crown ceremony, the food etiquette, the gift etiquette, etc

The ancestors of Dahua used body movements to convey the language of "two-way reciprocity" and "orderly and positional", and these actions are called li.

The ceremonial actions that have been passed down carry the words passed down from ancestors to future generations.

These ceremonial actions originated from ancient times, from an era when human beings had no language.

It is a "dumb language", a "pictograph" that everyone can understand, and a "Mandarin" that has been passed down from generation to generation.

There are ten liturgical actions and two regular liturgical actions.

Carry the principle of two-way reciprocity, orderly and positional, indispensable, and suitable for both exchanges and the principle of life.

The ten ceremonial movements are: bowing, bowing, prostrating, prostrating, holding hands, pushing hands, hand-to-hand, bowing, bowing, bowing.

The two regular etiquette actions are: the first time we meet, we bow to our parents, and our friends, classmates and colleagues bow our hands.

It should be noted that in general, when holding a fist and saluting, it must be a fist with the right hand, and the left hand is held outside the right hand, and there is no distinction between men and women.

The ritual of kneeling and prostrating is divided into nine bows, with the heaviest and the first time.

The so-called great gift, but kneeling nine times, no more.

Etiquette is a code of conduct that originates from the nature of human nature and meets the needs of life.

Etiquette is the difference between humans and animals, and it is also the basis for the harmony of human society.

Looking at today, there are few people who speak etiquette and know etiquette, so social order chaos is common, all kinds of friction and conflict occur frequently, and people not only lack a sense of security when they get along, but even have a sense of crisis that they are all enemies.

Individual, there is etiquette, etiquette is civilized, and solemnity is peace and governance.

Groups, no manners, rudeness will riot, disobedience will cause chaos.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that etiquette is absolutely indispensable in the crowd.

The exchange of feelings between people, the maintenance of order between things, and the maintenance of normalcy between countries are all the power of etiquette.

The role of etiquette cannot be ignored, how can we modern people not take it seriously and learn?

Otherwise, in society, it is inevitable that you will encounter walls everywhere and suffer losses, and it will be too late to regret it.

Because we believe that no one wants to be ridiculed behind an impertinent behavior: "How can someone be reasonable, uneducated, uncommon, coarse, unkind, unseen, disgusting, ridiculous, far away from him, ...... less in contact."

What impact will this series of terms have on your future, everything?

Etiquette is a virtue that does not interfere with others, it is a good deed that respects others, and it is also a pass for oneself to do all things, and it is to be practiced in a way that is to be practiced.

If we can do more "self-denial and revenge", starting from our own duty and family, we believe that society will be more peaceful and courteous.

A handshake is a ritual when most countries meet and say goodbye to each other.

In social situations, handshakes are commonplace. It is common to shake hands during mutual introductions and meetings.

When you meet friends, say hello, then shake hands with each other and greet each other.

Those who are close to each other shake hands and greet each other, and even the two hold hands together for a long time.

In general, it is enough to hold it once, and you don't have to use force.

But the younger should bow slightly to the elderly, and the lower should bow to the higher one and hold each other's hands as a sign of respect.

When a man shakes hands with a woman, he often shakes only the woman's finger part.

There is also a sequence of handshakes, which should be reached out first by the host, the elderly, the high-status, and the women, and the guests, the young, and the low-status people greet each other first, and then shake the other party's hand.

Many people shake hands at the same time, do not cross, and wait for others to shake hands before reaching out.

Men should take off their gloves and hats before shaking hands.

When shaking hands, look at each other and smile, do not look at the third person to shake hands.

A proactive, warm, and well-timed handshake by the host is necessary to increase the sense of intimacy.

In addition to meeting each other, a handshake is also a form of congratulations, thanks, or mutual encouragement.

If the other party has made certain achievements and progress, the other party can shake hands to congratulate, thank you, and encourage when giving gifts, as well as after giving prizes, certificates, and speeches.

When a soldier wears a military hat and shakes hands with the other party, he should first raise his hand and salute before shaking hands.

In addition, some countries also have some traditional meeting etiquette, such as Southeast Asian Buddhist countries are to fold hands in greeting, rB people are bowing, and the old tradition of Dahua is to clench fists. These etiquettes should be known and used on certain occasions.

In the West, relatives and acquaintances often meet each other by hugging, kissing faces, and touching cheeks.

Husbands and wives hug and kiss, parents and children kiss their faces and foreheads, and brothers and sisters are close to their cheeks.

Generally in public, women who are close to each other kiss each other, men hug each other, men and women kiss their cheeks, juniors generally kiss their elders, and men often kiss the back of their hands (fingers) to distinguished female guests to show respect.

In some occasions to welcome guests, or solemn occasions to congratulate and thank, in official or civil ceremonies, there is also the etiquette of hugging, sometimes warm and friendly hugs, sometimes purely courtesy.

This kind of etiquette is generally two people standing opposite each other, the right shoulder is down, the right hand is on the left back shoulder of the other party, the left hand is on the right back waist of the other party, according to their respective positions, the two people hug each other with their heads and upper body to the left, and then the head and upper body hug each other to the right, and then hug to the left again, and the salute is completed.

"Step calmly, stand upright, bow deeply, worship respectfully, don't trample on the threshold, don't limp, don't stumble, don't shake your hips." Correct and polite manners can make people appear cultured and give a good impression of beauty, and vice versa, they can appear vulgar and rude.

When Li Yu and Wang Xizhi taught Zhang Hua, Cao Fan was also listening, and before he knew it, Cao Fan left suddenly.

He brought out the food and wine from the kitchen and went out into the courtyard to entertain himself.

And about etiquette, they are still telling.

As a guest of honor, when attending a banquet held in a foreign country, you should understand the toasting habits of the other party, i.e., who toasts, when to toast, etc., so as to make the necessary preparations.

When clinking glasses, the host and the guest of honor touch first, and many people can raise their glasses at the same time, not necessarily clinking glasses.

Be careful not to cross glasses when toasting. When the host and guest of honor are giving speeches and toasts, they should pause eating, stop talking, listen attentively, and do not take the opportunity to smoke. The national anthem should be played solemnly.

After the host and the guest of honor have finished speaking, they often go to other tables to salute, and in this case, they should stand up and raise their glasses. When clinking glasses, look at each other in greeting.

Toasting each other at the banquet is friendly and lively, but remember to drink too much. Drinking too much alcohol is easy to lose your voice and even lose your temper, so you must control it within one-third of your own alcohol consumption.

Then the four of them raised their glasses and drank under the pavilion, and the four of them drank for the first time, which made everyone feel quite warm and comfortable.

Zhang Hua was quite surprised when he saw a ghost drinking for the first time.

Although they raised their glasses, it was only a medium of nothingness, and their own glasses were not raised.

It's enough for them to smell enough and enjoy the smell.

Millennial ghosts and modern people drink at the same table, and the picture is unusually harmonious.

Drinking wine and eating meat, Wang Xizhi and Li Yu started a comprehensive baptism journey of Cao Fan and Zhang Hua.

Cao Fan and Zhang Hua will talk to them about modern life in a timely manner.

Complement each other and talk about each other.

Greeting is a simple etiquette for meeting acquaintances.

When you meet an acquaintance on the road, in the car or in other public places, you should take the initiative to say hello to the other person, which is also called a greeting.

The etiquette of greeting comes in many forms: if you meet up close and don't need to talk deeply, you can stop and say hello and ask: "Hello" or "Go to work?"

The answer is also quite simple and can even be vague, which is also very polite.

When they met an acquaintance on the road, one party "knowingly asked".

"On the street?" replied, "I'm resting today." “

It doesn't feel perfunctory.

When the two met, one asked the other, "Why are you going?"

This is also done out of courtesy.

Because this is all a greeting, a kind of courtesy!

Come to say hello, this kind of greeting, foreigners don't understand it very much, thinking that you want to invite him to dinner, today this kind of greeting is being used less and less.

If the two sides are a little farther away, there is no need to stop to greet each other, make a nod salute - look at each other, nod slightly, meet the two sides many times on the same occasion, you can also say hello with a nod salute, and at a dance or other social occasions and people you don't know at close range, you can use a nod salute to greet and show politeness.

When the distance between the two parties is long, or it is inconvenient to greet and nod, you can wave - raise a hand and smile at the same time.

Before greeting guests and shaking hands with acquaintances, you can greet them first in order to show warmth, or you can wave them first.

Farewell and send-off are also commonly used to beckon, but at this time the beckoning should be a few more times, even until the guest is far away, and you can also wave hats, handkerchiefs, etc. to show affection.

Modern etiquette is much the same as ancient etiquette, and it is basically the same.

According to the ancient sages, there are "three books", that is, "the foundation of the born in heaven and earth", "the foundation of the ancestors", and "the foundation of the rule of the monarch".

In the liturgy, funerals were the first to arise.

The funeral ceremony for the deceased is to appease their ghosts, and for the living, it becomes a ritual for the elders and the young, and to be filial and upright.

In the process of establishing and implementing the rituals, the patriarchal system of the Great China was born.

The essence of ritual is the way to govern people, and it is a derivative of the belief in ghosts and gods, and people believe that everything is manipulated by invisible ghosts and gods, and the performance of rituals is to curry favor with ghosts and gods.

Therefore, the ritual originated from the belief in ghosts and gods, and it is also a special manifestation of the belief in ghosts and gods.

The emergence of the "Three Rites" ("Rites", "Rites", "Weekly Rites") marked a mature stage in the development of etiquette.

In the Song Dynasty, etiquette and feudal ethics and morality were integrated, that is, etiquette and etiquette were mixed, and it became one of the powerful tools for the implementation of etiquette.

Salute to serve the persuasion of virtue, and red tape does its best.

It was not until modern times that the liturgy was truly reformed.

Both the etiquette of the country's political life and the etiquette of the people's life have been changed into a new content of non-ghostly theology, thus becoming the etiquette of modern civilization.

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Eventually, this ritual became a confrontation between ancient and modern people.

It became a debate between ancient and modern people.

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