Chapter 505: The Heart of a Good Teacher and a Parent
Looking at Ouyang Huiqing's crying and almost howling, and then looking at Jin Wentie's blushing face and suddenly being invited to "drink tea" in public when he was presiding over the meeting, the fat man suddenly felt that he was actually quite unbearable in his heart......
As the saying goes, "a slap doesn't make a sound"
When Jin Chirui confided in his heart without concealment, he was really remorseful, and bluntly said that he was ashamed of his parents, his ex-wife and his two sons.
And Wen Shuo also confirmed that Jin Chirui would not pretend in front of him, but sincerely told his guilt. But as Jin Chirui spent more and more time in the capital, how many times he called home, but in the end he failed to get at least verbal clear understanding from his parents, which made Wen Shuo, who was a teacher, suspicious:
"How much sin did Jin Chirui create to make his parents hate him so much?
Don't accidentally accept a white-eyed wolf as an apprentice!
Fuck, the fat man's acting skills are good enough, is it possible that Jin Chirui has the level of being better than the blue?"
It wasn't until he finally listened to Jin Chirui mention some past things in a few small talks, as well as his heartfelt jealousy of his parents, that Wen Shuo realized that Jin Chirui had told him for many reasons, but it was not completely, he loved and respected his parents, but more than that, he was afraid of his parents, he was living in the hospital, why wasn't he running away?!
In the past few years of "illness", Jin Chirui definitely has personal mistakes.
But these mistakes of his, fundamentally speaking, are indeed caused by his parents' too strict education.
There is nothing wrong with strict education.
Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing definitely didn't have the slightest intention of harming their son, but they did a little too much.
They desperately want to train their son to be a perfect person in all aspects.
But they overdid it.
In the process of cultivating their sons, they didn't even realize that they were mixed with too much selfishness - when the love of cultivation and hope is mixed with these selfishness covered by love, it becomes a kind of endless greed in selfish desires - whether the son is excellent or not will no longer be a question of whether the son is happy or not, but a matter of their face.
The saddest thing is that they not only harmed their son by doing this, but also made their son still ignorant, sometimes hateful, sometimes irritable, but he didn't know, or he didn't think about it at all, and he didn't dare to think about his parents' fault.
Because of fear and obedience, a habit has been formed.
This kind of habitual thinking can be summed up in one sentence: "We do this for your own good!"
In fact, these truths are nothing new in this era of rapid development of modernization. However, as long as they have some economic conditions, have a certain cultural foundation, and live in an environment with relatively average literacy, everyone who is a parent has heard from others, thought about it themselves, and read it from some books.
But the human heart and human nature are inherently extremely complex things.
If everyone can continue to improve themselves through various channels, then the world will be perfect, but not colorful.
In the same way, in front of Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing, other people said the same words, or even completely the same posture as Wen Shuo, first politely and then preachy, then angry, and then earnestly taught...... It doesn't work any way.
will even be educated by Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing angrily.
"We know more than you, we know our son better than you, how old are you, and you are here to teach us?!"
But today.
They listened to Wen Shuo seriously from the beginning, even if Wen Shuo was so angry that he was furious, waving his arms and glaring at him, and then slowly reasoning with them and analyzing the psychology of their couple......
They listened.
They are also clearly aware of their problems.
So Ouyang Huiqing cried bitterly, and Jin Wen sighed and blamed himself.
The reason is simple.
After Wen Shuo entered the house, every small action, including handing out cigarettes, the beating of eyebrows when looking at them, the frequency of blinking, taking out cigarettes, handing cigarettes, taking lighters to light the fire, reaching out to signal, etc., were all intentional.
Inadvertently, the emotions and thoughts of the two were substituted into his rhythm, and then he knew that he was moved with emotion.
This is not a mystic, it is better than a mystic.
It is the mental hypnotism of the old academician Song Zhaosheng.
Of course, the fat man will not be overflowing with love to take care of other people's family affairs, the question is, Jin Chirui is the first apprentice he accepted, a strange person with extraordinary abilities, or a talent who does have the ability to work...... This kind of person has already been deposited in the fat man's bank card, with the fat man's stingy and stingy nature, how can people take it back and destroy it?
He can't do it with his own father and mother!
If his own father and mother can really treat Jin Chirui well, then no matter how hard the fat man picks the door, he will not deprive other parents of the right to live with their son.
But Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing will really give Jin Chirui "love" badly.
Therefore, the fat man thinks that he is very loving, very kind, and a good man, for the happiness of their family in the future, for the sake of his mother's loving father and filial piety, and for his own good apprentice, he is willing to work hard to make peace.
"Old Jin. Ouyang Huiqing wiped her tears and cried: "Just let Chi Rui work in the capital and Chairman Wen, don't, don't force the child to go back to Zhonghai, I'm afraid that after the child goes back, he will be sick again......"
"It's not that Chi Rui is sick, it's that we're too sick. Jin Wenchang sighed, got up and said, "Let's go, go back to Zhonghai." ”
"Hmm. Ouyang Huiqing stood up.
Wen Shuo showed a stunned and embarrassed look, and hurriedly got up and said with an apologetic smile on his face: "Don't be, this is a rare trip to the capital, I haven't treated my uncle and aunt well on behalf of Mr. Jin, so what, stay for a few more days, and wait for Mr. Jin to come back from a business trip...... In this way, I will arrange it and let Xu Fang, oh no, no, no, she can't, I will arrange someone to accompany you and the second elder to have a good time in the capital for a few days. ”
"No, I got it. Jin Wen sighed again, stretched out his hand to shake hands with Wen Shuo, and said seriously: "Chairman Wen is young and promising, and he is even more splendid, thank you, thank you sincerely...... Bye. ”
"Yes, thank you. Ouyang Huiqing wiped her tears and said: "Teaching and educating people all my life, I never thought that I had drilled the horns of the bull in teaching children, like a fool, and harmed the children! Chairman Wen, thank you really this time, in the future, let Chi Rui stay in the capital and work with you, he's a person, alas, in short, you have to take care of him." ”
"I don't dare to be it, but I can't afford to say it to your second elder, I'm really embarrassed. Wen Shuo blushed and was embarrassed.
Just like this, you humbly thank me, push and push to come to the side of the road downstairs, Wen Shuomu sent Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing to take the taxi away, then he breathed a sigh of relief and turned back to the company.
That's done.
In fact, he had a clear heart in his heart, since Jin Wen and Ouyang Huiqing were persuaded by himself, they would definitely return to Zhonghai as soon as possible.
Because they knew that their son would come home to see them.
They also can't wait to see their son and ...... face to face Maybe you don't have to apologize, that would be too outward, but embarrassing, as long as they treat Jin Chirui kindly and gently, and are willing to listen to his thoughts and opinions, it's enough!
Back in the office, Wen Shuo sat on the sofa and lit a cigarette, leaning back on the sofa and thinking.
Jin Chirui has accumulated complex emotions such as arrogance, conceit, and anxiety in the past few years, which have slowly melted away in several idle chats and teachings, and there is a normal job that has put him on the right track of life and recovered his mentality. This time, he erased the biggest mental obstacle in his heart, and when he starts to practice the Xuanfa in the future, it will not be easy to give birth to inner demons.
I deserve to be a master......
It's really self-taught!
Regarding the inheritance and acceptance of the Xuanfa, Wen Shuo had heard from the old Han Tou before, and it was also recorded in the notes left by the old Han Tou, Jing Bai, Qin Luofeng, and Hong Sheng also talked about it.
The best time to practice the metaphysics is between the ages of twelve and sixteen, and at the latest beyond the age of eighteen.
It's too early, it has a good memory but it's not strong, and it's unstable;
It's too late, the mind and mentality are too deeply influenced by the secular society, and the character, meridians, five internal organs, seven spirits, etc., in short, the body and mind have been solidified, and it will be difficult to change it.
Jin Chirui's age is inevitably too big.
But Jin Chirui has a special ability, and he can't be considered by ordinary people.
And what worries Wen Shuo the most is that Jin Chirui's metaphysical practice cannot follow the path of ordinary practice, and he must "tailor" the practice steps of the metaphysical method for him.
To put it mildly, this is a test subject.
Wen Shuo taught him the mystical method, so he had to continue to study, analyze, and experiment, and while passing it on, he was also constantly accumulating experience and increasing his cognition in the practice and research of the occult method.
Before you know it, it's getting late.
Feeling Xiaoqing's activity in the jade pendant, Wen Shuo smiled and summoned Xiaoqing out.
Now Xiaoqing's body is becoming more and more substantial, but the wonderful thing is that her shadow is still faint in the light, if you don't look carefully, or people who don't have good eyesight, you can't see Xiaoqing's shadow at all. And ordinary people can't see Xiaoqing without opening the eye of the sky.
Even if it is, Xiaoqing is no different from a real person in front of Wen Shuo's eyes.
is indeed no different from a real person, she is growing and changing, although Wen Shuo no longer uses her own preferences to make Xiaoqing change her form, and Xiaoqing does not have her own beauty and ugliness preferences for personal image, but she is growing up unconsciously.
Today's Xiaoqing is still dressed and hairstyled, but she is taller and a little thinner, like a child who has just entered kindergarten.
Xiaoqing penetrated the window glass and sat on the windowsill outside, with her back to the room, looking into the distance.
Recently, Xiaoqing has become accustomed to sitting outside the window.
Wen Shuo didn't care much about her because he had a lot of things to do, and he didn't care much about Xiaoqing, but when he turned his head to see Xiaoqing's back, he suddenly felt that the back of that little man looked a kind of lonely gloom.
"Qing'er, grow up ......"
Wen Shuo's heart was sour.