"I want a bowl of spicy hot." Xiaoting said to the waiter, "Brother, you order more." Chengcai said to me, "That's all, it's not enough to order more, let's bring up the peanut edamame from the tooth sacrifice first." I immediately dismissed the waiter, "When are you two getting married?" I looked at the happy little couple in front of me and asked, "Brother Jia." Chengcai called me with an embarrassed face. It's okay, Brother Jia, you said yours. Xiaoting pulled Chengcai and signaled Chengcai not to show a bitter gourd face, "Then when are you two going to have a child?" "As soon as my voice fell, I felt that Chengcai shook for a while, which is understandable, after all, these are the two most headaches of Chengcai at present, I asked when I came up, so that Ya was suddenly overwhelmed." Brother, I... I—" Cheng Cai stammered a little, "You misunderstood me, brother. I looked into Chengcai's eyes and said to him, "I suggest that you two rent a house close to your place of work, the extra time can allow you to get to know each other more deeply, once you are close to the company, even if you buy a bicycle, it is a kind of sweetness to pick up your younger siblings to and from work in the morning and evening." Speaking of which, I took out a cigarette, Chengcai didn't touch the lighter for a long time, I smiled at him, and then lit it myself, "You two are saving money so desperately now, I can understand, after all, you want to take root in the imperial capital, and at the same time create a haode environment for future generations." But if you live like this for too long, sooner or later, you will find that the price of chasing money will lead you away from your original purpose. I'll just ask the simplest question, how long has it been since you two lived as a couple? "My powerful aura overwhelmed these little two.

"It's... This... This..."Chengcai really stammered, my question is not very difficult to answer, but Chengcai is more introverted, so he began to stutter. "The most recent one was four months ago." Xiaoting answered my question positively at this time, but through her answer, I also confirmed my hypothesis, there is definitely a rift between the two of them now, but Chengcai didn't notice it. "I remember that the boss said that between men and women, if this kind of thing does not happen for more than half a year, even if the relationship between the two is good, it is easy to have problems, brother, don't be busy to zuihou, the money is there, but the relationship is gone." I spoke my mind.

Until now, many married people I know have this situation, and it may be a bit serious to say that it is a relationship crisis; To say that it is a lack of passion, I feel that it is a little light, in short, the husband and wife are not comfortable with each other, they seem to respect each other on the surface, but they are beginning to alienate each other in their bones. The sexual affairs between husband and wife remain unchanged, but the quality and quantity begin to decrease month by month, in the final analysis: either it is caused by the pressure of survival, or I don't know how to run aiqing, I want to say too much, I will take out a separate article, to describe this problem.

"Xiexie, Brother Jia." Xiaoting glanced at the silent Chengcai and thanked me. "But Brother Jia, my work here has just improved a little, I'm afraid..."Chengcai's words were halfway through, "I know what you mean, you are afraid that after the other party comes back from maternity leave, you will be transferred back to the original department, and that kind of thing of climbing high and falling painfully will not happen." You have to believe in the boss, an ordinary migrant worker in just ten years, can be the CEO of a listed company, in addition to luck and interpersonal relationships, this person must have his personal charm, dare not say anything else, at least in terms of employment, he is absolutely outstanding, so you just thought too much. My words are equivalent to giving Chengcai a reassurance, "Xiexie Brother Jia, I don't even know what to say." Chengcai pushed his glasses and replied to me with some excitement. Then don't say anything, let's eat happily. I picked up the draught beer glass on the table. Cheers to friendship and friendship! "Cheers!" "Cheers!"

During the meal, I briefly explained the unspoken rules within the company, who can not be provoked, who has what temper, who is the second wife of the vice president, and who is the yain of a high-ranking official, which is staggering to Chengcai. "That's a lot of trouble, Brother Jia." "Brother, what do you think the boss is busy with every day? There are very few times when you are really busy with work, and every day is troubled by these trivial things, dinners, and all kinds of interpersonal relationships, and besides, you can climb to this position because you don't belong to any faction in the company, so you got this job by chance, take advantage of it, maybe your life will change from now on. I said to Chengcai in a serious tone. I will definitely live up to your expectations. After speaking, Cheng Cai drank all the beer in the draft beer cup. Just don't let your siblings down. After speaking, I raised my draft beer glass and looked at my brother and sister, and the other party immediately raised the wine glass, and after toasting, "Waiter, three more glasses, it should be cold." I shouted.

Xiaoting didn't say a few words during the banquet, except for drinking with the two of us, she didn't eat a lot, maybe the girls in the south had a small amount of food, I remember when I was in college, I was hungry at night, and I ate two steamed buns with boiled water. The next day, the second child told his girlfriend: "Steamed buns can be eaten twice in a row without vegetables, and it is at night, which is incredible." "But for the boss, it's a matter of course, after all, we're both northerners. I still remember going to Shanghai to eat xiaolongbao, at that time I was still in the boss's company, and I went to negotiate business with a certain vice president, and after everything went well, the vice president took me, the secretary, and the driver to eat Shanghai xiaolongbao. The four of us are all gentlemen, the secretary is from Hebei, the driver is from Shandong, and the vice president and I are from the Northeast. The waiter shuddered, "Sir, how much do you order?" "20 drawers for one person, what's wrong?" The vice president was also very depressed, after all, I consume, why do you care how much I order, "Are you packing?" The waiter continued to ask politely, "Just eat here." The vice president glanced at the other party and replied, "Do you have shallots in your store?" The driver accompanying him was from Shandong, so he asked if there were any green onions in the store, "Yes." "Please give me some more green onions." "Got it!"

After a while, the other party brought us a total of 80 drawers of xiaolongbao, and then put a shallot on each of us's plates. The driver is very entangled, the three shallots together are not as thick as my little finger, and the four of us will give one by one, "Waiter, do you charge for onions?" The driver asked the waiter at the hotel, "Our Nanxiang xiaolongbao is very famous, and green onions are generally used for decoration, not for eating." The waiter still answered us politely. I said I was going to eat Wuxi xiaolongbao, but no one listened to me. ”

to be continued