"I didn't give it to my child when I saw it!" Kou Xingyu recalled: "At that time, I noticed that the bottle seemed to have impurities, and I began to think that my mother was not very good at washing the bottle clean. Later, when I thought about it, I washed the bottles myself. It's impossible for us doctors to not even wash the bottle, so I grabbed it. ”

Kou Xingyu turned the bottle over and poured it on the back of his hand, and found that the dripping milk was indeed variegated. He opened the bottle and looked at the milk powder inside, and the child on the other side was still crying in a hurry. Tang Jinzhi felt sorry for his granddaughter, anyway, there were no outsiders around him, so he told his son the truth: "There is nothing unclean, and the inside is a home remedy for me." specializes in treating jaundice, your daughter-in-law is unreliable, and you are also a doctor, I don't know how to feel sorry for the child. ”

As she spoke, she snatched the bottle and hurriedly closed the cap to breastfeed the child. Kou Xingyu is also a doctor, how can he let his daughter drink milk without asking. Hurriedly stopped Tang Jinzhi: "Mom, what kind of home remedies? The child is a common jaundice, which can naturally subside with more sun, and it will not exceed two weeks at the longest, what kind of home remedies to eat!"

"Hey, what if it's more yellow after two weeks?" Tang Jinzhi patted his thigh and rubbed his fingers on his son's temples: "You are a doctor with a hard heart, and your own children can be the same as other people's children?

After scolding for a long time, he didn't say what the so-called home remedies were, and Kou Xingyu was even more puzzled in his heart. Pulling Tang Jinzhi, he said earnestly: "Mom, Weiwei is a doctor and a doctor in obstetrics and gynecology. When it is convenient for you to take care of your child, you should listen to her more, and you can't always talk about things like you. ”

"What's the matter with the obstetrician and gynecologist? At most, she treats gynecological diseases, and she doesn't even have any experience in giving birth to children? I can raise children by reading books? I gave birth to two of your brothers and raised two grandchildren, and I am not as good as her. When it came to this daughter-in-law, Tang Jinzhi was full of complaints.

"Oh, I'll tell you about your daughter-in-law later. Feed the milk to the child first!" Tang Jinzhi felt sorry for his granddaughter, but Kou Xingyu held the bottle and refused to let go, under the persecution of his own son, Tang Jinzhi said angrily: "This is the ash in the incense burner in front of Guanyin Bodhisattva in the temple, and it can be mixed into milk powder to get jaundice." ”

"Fragrant ash?" Kou Xingyu's face turned pale, and he couldn't hold back his temper and yelled at his mother: "You give my child fragrant ashes?"

"What are you shouting!" Tang Jinzhi pushed his son and gave Kou Xingyu a look: "Don't tell your hypocritical daughter-in-law, she can't make a fuss." ”

"Can incense ash be eaten by children? This adult can't eat it? Who told you that incense ash can get jaundice? There is no scientific basis at all, don't you have any common sense?" Kou Xingyu strode to the kitchen, opened the bottle and poured all the milk powder into the sink. I rinsed the bottle again, and then re-brewed a bottle of milk powder.

Seeing that his son was angry, Tang Jinzhi was also unhappy. Standing at the door of the room, he muttered, "I don't want to tell you that you doctors are scientific all day long." The child had jaundice, needles and blood draws, and nothing was detected in the end. Whose child does not have jaundice, when you were a child, jaundice is just to drink some fragrant ash. ”

Kou Xingyu patiently fed his daughter milk powder, and then picked up her daughter and burped. Holding his daughter all over the house, Tang Jinzhi followed him and kept thinking about it. Speaking of the jaundice of the son of the Zhang third family, and how about the jaundice of the daughter of the Li Si family, anyway, he is very experienced.

"Jaundice is a common disease, and the conditions you are talking about are not the so-called incense ash at all, but the natural reaction of the body. You should be glad that these children have not been killed by your ignorance. Kou Xingyu didn't want to explain to his mother what hemolytic jaundice was, if it was hemolytic jaundice, it meant that it was caused by the incompatibility of blood types between mother and baby. Then this is in Tang Jinzhi's eyes, that is Jiang Yan's problem. There are still mothers and children in this world who do not match the blood type, isn't it the biggest funny?

The daughter slowly quieted down, and Kou Xingyu put the child on the small bed. Seeing his actions, Tang Jinzhi was even more angry: "Tell me, what's the use of buying such a broken bed? You have to sleep next to adults at night, your daughter-in-law is hypocritical." Why do you have to let the child sleep on her own in three months, isn't she afraid to sleep by herself? I think she is just lazy, and she wants to sleep well in the middle of the night and doesn't care about the child. ”

"I had a long talk with my mom that day, and I wanted to know what kind of prejudice she had against Vivi. I explained what I could, but in the end I realized that it was not a matter of misunderstanding and preconception. Kou Xingyu looked at Gu Shen and Kou Xi: "This is simply a matter of consciousness, I never found that my mother was so stubborn." Maybe it's because of menopause?"

Kou Xi couldn't help but say, "Menopause?

"Menopause is not necessarily those years, it is likely to be delayed for many years. And there is also a psychological release, for example, if you have been nervous for many years and suddenly decompress, then the emotions will naturally be reflected. ”

Kou Xi and Gu Shen glanced at each other, and the two of them said in unison: "I didn't understand!"

"For example, maybe when we were little brothers. My mother was under a lot of pressure, taking care of our food, clothing and school, worrying about our future, taking care of the elderly, and working in the fields. So she is slow to respond to the outside world as a whole, which is why we think she is very talkative and honest. But both of us have stable careers and happy families. Her inclusiveness is not as good as it used to be, which is actually liberating to a greater extent!"

Kou Xi and Gu Shen were silent, and after a long time, Kou Xi raised his head and said, "I have always felt that if life is good, people's personalities can become more tolerant." In the final analysis, the conflicts in many families are due to poverty. For example, when you were a child, many of your classmates had three or four children or five or six children at home. They are all big and small, and mothers have to do a lot of housework and farm work every day. I don't have much patience with children, anyway, I grew up in free-range. Our family is just me, and your family has two sons, so relatively speaking, we are actually quite good. ”

"Actually, some people are like this!" Gu Shen understood Kou Xingyu's words, looked at Kou Xi and said, "For some women, they suffered a lot when they were young, and she was reluctant to let her daughter-in-law and daughter suffer. But some people will think, I could have eaten it back then, why can't you eat it? And she judges others by her own standards, especially ..... Mother-in-law!"