"I don't even know what to say. Kou Xi couldn't find anything to answer for a while, and looked at Gu Shen with a confused face: "You can't use these words to prevaricate my father, and don't let the second aunt come over to help." ”

"The second aunt is old, so there is no need to come to the house to take care of you. Gu Shen had one more heart than Kou Xi, and originally wanted to use the banner of Kou Xingyu. After all, people are their own sons, and it is reasonable that they are not willing to let their own mother go over to be an old mother. So he also deliberately wanted Kou Xingyu to help him just now, but he didn't expect that Kou Xingyu also had the difficulty of not being able to speak.

In the eyes of his parents and relatives, he is already regarded as the master of 'marrying a daughter-in-law and forgetting his mother', and if he stops him again in the name of being afraid of his mother's hard work, wouldn't he be slapped in the face every minute. If you are really filial to your mother, then you will be sent to the provincial capital to enjoy the blessings. Why go and wait for you for a month, and be sent home in ashes?

"Hongyu is even more unlikely to speak!" Gu Shen knew him well, and his current career depended on Kou Xi's mind and Kou Dewang's operation. In addition, with such a capable big boss as his brother-in-law, Kou Hongyu can't wait to take this opportunity to curry favor.

"Xingyu, Wei Wei didn't tell me much just now. Could it be that in the confinement, the contradiction between the two of them was very deep? The incense ash incident should be the last straw that crushed Weiwei. Kou Xi can also be regarded as a person from the past, and her softness in temperament has made her marriage in the past ten years a lot unsatisfactory. She even thought that human character really doesn't become different because of being born again. She thought that she would become very spicy after being reborn, but it turned out that she still couldn't change Wang Yazhi. And Jiang Yan is the same, she will not say it explicitly in the treatment of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but can only endure it. But even forbearance will be shown on his face, which is also the reason for the 'white-eyed wolf' in Tang Jinzhi's mouth.

"A lot of the contradictions come from cultural differences, and I can't say that my mother is uneducated, so everything is not done right. Kou Xingyu sighed: "Maybe it's because of little contact, or maybe it's a kind of emotional mentality." ”

Kou Xingyu thought for a long time: "Maybe there are too many people in front of her who say, 'You are a blessed mother-in-law, your son has married a daughter-in-law in the city, the family conditions are good, and the father-in-law is the dean, and your son's future is limitless in the future. After talking too much, my mother naturally felt that this meant that her mother-in-law was not worthy of such a good daughter-in-law. ”

Kou Xi instantly understood, she was actually more clear than Kou Xingyu in the short term among her parents. After all, it has been too hard to fight with this group of women for so many years, and he immediately continued: "Because of inferiority, it leads to pride, and no sycamore can't attract a phoenix." If it weren't for your excellence, it would be impossible to marry a woman from such a family. ”

Kou Xingyu nodded with a wry smile, and had to admit: "It's still women who understand women." ”

"Because my son is excellent, I married a daughter-in-law with good conditions. The in-laws have the ability and ability, don't want a bride price, don't buy a house, everything is from the in-laws. If it weren't for his son's excellence, people wouldn't have posted it upside down. As soon as Kou Xi's voice fell, he heard a crisp and neat voice behind him: "When did I post it upside down!"

Kou Xi turned his head, his heart trembling slightly, for fear that Jiang Yan would misunderstand. Before she could explain, she heard Jiang Yan say: "Did she really say 'upside down' in front of me, that is, when Xingyu was going to send her back to her hometown." She was furious, thinking that I was sowing discord and that I looked down on her as a rural mother-in-law. Said a lot, a lot of things, very unseemly and outrageous. ”

Jiang Yan leaned on Kou Xingyu and sat down, putting her hand on Kou Xingyu's shoulder: "We have been in love for so many years, and I know Xingyu very well. He was a very proud man, and he never took advantage of me when we were in a relationship together. The reason why we have only been married for so many years is because Xingyu does not accept any help from my dad. After all, the family conditions of the two of us are very different, and he doesn't want my marriage to be a way of 'poverty alleviation', and he doesn't want my quality of life after marriage to be much lower than before marriage. He really wanted to give me happiness, but it took time to meet the material conditions that I had when I was in my mother's house. ”

Kou Xi is very clear about this, because Kou Xingyu was admitted to the university with her help. The time to study medicine is very long, and Kou Xingyu knows very well how much energy he has spent and what price he has paid to get to this day. But as parents, Kou Deyou and Tang Jinzhi don't know anything in their hearts. They feel that they have done a great job raising their children to finish college. Therefore, in Hongqi Town, he has always walked with his head held high, and he can even impart the experience of educating children with great interest.

Kou Xi saw many times that there were disagreements over the education of children, and Tang Jinzhi reprimanded Hao Hongmei mercilessly: "I am the one who has trained a master's degree, and that's how I taught his uncle, can you compare to me?"

There are a lot of things they don't want to know and don't want to know at all. It is very clear to tell you: "As a parent, I raised you for you to study, and I have done my duty." "As for how the children go on this path, they don't care about the complex interpersonal relationships, workplace disputes, and work bottlenecks after entering the society. It doesn't play any role at all, and it will only ask you: "If everyone else is in order, you will do it." "What do you want to do so much, what's the point of comparing yourself with others." "People are more popular than people!"

So when parents often complain that their children don't talk to themselves, complain that their children are impatient with themselves. I never thought about how to relieve the pressure in my child's heart. They also really want to talk to their parents about their stress, which is the person closest to them. But at this time, the parent's sentence "I don't understand, I'm outdated" simply and rudely erected a barrier.

Kou Xi suddenly had a new understanding, she found that being a parent was really too difficult. It's not as simple as giving birth to a child and raising him. She touched her stomach and looked at Gu Shen: "If there is a training class in this world that teaches you how to be a qualified parent, how good it would be." ”

"Do you know what I like most about my uncle?" Kou Xingyu looked at Kou Xi and recalled, "When I was a child, I liked to ask why. Every time I asked my dad, my dad was impatient and said, 'Why, why, why do you say?'"

"I gave my dad advice, and I thought I was very advanced. I told him, and my dad would say to me, 'Who's better than us, and no one else does this, so why are we doing this?

"Why don't you compare yourself with those who can't eat? Why don't you compare yourself with others?"

"You just haven't been a good father, your father is just incapable, you're this life!"

Kou Xi looked at Kou Xingyu with puzzlement and shock on his face. It seems that these words have never been heard in Koudwan's mouth.

"My uncle will always say: I'll help you ask. Kou Xingyu showed an envious look.