"Very good, very good idea, this kind of thinking, it is indeed very in line with our fixed thinking of human beings, it is indeed very in line with our human self-righteous habits, and now, I want to ask you a question, what is good intentions?"

Sun Xiucheng's rhetorical question made everyone stunned immediately, and without waiting for someone to answer, Sun Xiucheng continued:

"Everyone has an illusion in their hearts that they are extraordinary, we always try to convince others of our own opinions, and we always like to use the reason that I am for your good to impose some so-called good intentions on others. After we were born, the kindness of our parents allowed us to learn all kinds of skills, most of which we did not like and would not be useful in the future, and the reason why we spent a lot of our childhood doing these meaningless things was because of the kindness of our parents. ”

On the earth in the world of Avatar, human education is more developed, and people with slightly better conditions spend their childhood learning various skills, so Sun Xiucheng's words immediately aroused everyone's contemplation. While everyone was still in the state, Sun Xiucheng took the opportunity to continue to add:

"When we are a little more sensible, we may discover our own hobbies, or art, or research, but the teacher's kindness does not allow us to deviate from the subject, and we have to waste a lot of time in areas that we are not good at, and then, we become ordinary. When we can stand on our own, we may want to do something else, which may be right or wrong, but there will always be people who tell you what to do and what not to do, and I have good intentions. Then, our lives are mediocre. Now, I want to ask again. Can anyone tell me what kindness is? ”

Sun Xiucheng's question made the hall fall into a terrible dead silence, Sun Xiucheng's previous lectures have never been as aggressive as today, so many people are very uncomfortable. Many people don't know how to answer this question.

"Doctor, you mean what we call good intentions. In fact, it's all malicious intent imposed on others, right? A little girl sitting in the front row suddenly mustered up the courage to stand up, and while talking loudly, she also looked at the middle-aged man next to her.

Sun Xiucheng only glanced at it. I guessed the relationship between these two people. This little girl must have been resonated by what she had just said, and she was dissatisfied with her father.

"No, little girl, you have made a mistake, what you just said is your opinion, not what I meant. Whether we understand the same or not, you and I can never think exactly the same way. At most, it's just similar. ”

After smiling at this little girl, Sun Xiucheng glanced at everyone, and then said loudly:

"Actually, I have a different opinion from this little girl, I don't think that the so-called good intentions are all malicious, in fact, many times these good intentions will help us, for example, rebellious children, without the kind care of their parents, it is too easy to have problems. I'm not here today to discuss the issue of good intentions, but the issue of subjective will and feedback from the recipients. From the words of this little girl just now, it is not difficult for me to conclude that this father loves his daughter very much, but he always imposes his kindness on her, and her daughter feels full of malice. This is a pedagogical question, and we are not going to discuss it in depth today, but now, I want to ask again, what is good intentions? ”

Earthlings are not all stupid, after Sun Xiucheng reminded them like this, it would be incredible if no one answered the answer Sun Xiucheng wanted.

"I see, you mean that good intentions are completely subjective."

A young man suddenly replied loudly, and after Sun Xiucheng glanced at the young man, he smiled slightly:

"That's right, good intentions are a subjective idea, the essence of good intentions is the same as bad intentions, they are just what you think in your heart, and different people have different opinions about the same thing. For example, a certain child likes to make ceramics, and his father thinks that this can exercise the child's hands-on ability, and let him play every day out of good intentions; The stepmother who didn't like him felt that it would waste the child's studies, and out of malice, let him play every day. The so-called good intentions are just a subjective assumption, this statement is true, and does anyone have other opinions? ”

After Sun Xiucheng finished speaking, he looked at the people below, and a girl who looked like a college student raised her hand and said:

"I think that when a person wants to impose his kindness on the other person, he needs to pay more attention to whether the kindness is reciprocated positively. If the recipient does not like the kindness, then the kindness is malicious to the other party, and the kindness must be terminated; If the other person likes the kindness, then the kindness can be persevered! ”

After listening to this girl, Sun Xiucheng smiled slightly, glanced at everyone, and said with a slight smile:

"Your understanding is not wrong, good intentions may be transformed into good intentions, but they will also be transformed into malicious intentions, as for whether this good intentions need to be persevered, I don't express an opinion, the father of the little girl just now, I think he should have a different opinion!"

Sun Xiucheng said, and then his eyes fell on the middle-aged man next to the little girl, and was collectively watched by everyone, and the middle-aged man had to stand up.

"I admit that the girl just said that she had a point, and that good intentions do turn into malice, and this is not difficult to confirm from my daughter's dissatisfaction with me. But as for what she said, the other party thinks it is malicious and wants to stop, and the other party thinks it is good intentions and wants to continue, I don't dare to agree. I don't dare to say anything else, but for my daughter, she is still young, her outlook on life, values, and worldview are not yet mature, and many times, the things she likes are precisely not conducive to her healthy growth, and the things she dislikes are exactly what she has to do. I won't stop my daughter from going to school because she doesn't like school, and I won't go against her will in this matter just because she likes to play games. In the future, I will think carefully about my good intentions, whether it is really completely right, if it is right, I will continue to insist on it, if it is wrong, I will correct it! ”

The middle-aged man's words immediately resonated with many people, and as soon as he finished speaking, warm applause echoed in the hall, obviously, his words were very in line with many people's concepts, and Sun Xiucheng was not surprised at all by this. After all, it's a good excuse to impose your kindness on others, and for your own good, what a beautiful excuse! (To be continued, please search, the novel is better and updated faster!)