Mistake 1: Pandering to a woman's point of view

When most men meet a woman they like, they always blindly agree with the opinion that caters to the woman. They think that in this way they can win the heart of a woman, and they think that this way the woman will be very comfortable and happy. Because you always follow her, is there anything else she is not happy about?

Yes, maybe she'll be friendly to you, maybe she'll be happy when you agree with her, but for her, it's hard to have a relationship beyond ordinary friends. In fact, for women, they prefer men who have their own ideas and opinions, rather than men who will only agree with their opinions and requirements all the time.

Didn't expect that, right?

Women don't like their men who are always saying things like "good" and "right". Because men who always agree with them in the eyes of women are unassertive, weak, and incompetent. So in contrast, women prefer men who always have their own opinions, because women are more enthusiastic about men who have their own opinions, independent men, and men who don't have their own opinions.

Mistake 2: Present yourself in front of a woman

Most men feel a very strong ** in their hearts, (I'm not talking about sex/lust here, don't think crookedly) but want to show their ** in front of women.

Men want women to think that he is a cow, and he is powerful. I've done it myself. And, many times. I've done things like telling jokes, singing songs that I'm good at, and trying my best to train my muscles to show girls. In order to express themselves, men will think a lot when talking to women, and try to only say those things that he thinks women will like, or things that are brilliant.

When you can't say anything humorous or brilliant, you get nervous. Afterwards, I would scold myself in my heart for not being able to think of a good answer at that time. But this urge to "express yourself" can make women feel that they are unnatural.

This is why sometimes he can talk and laugh in front of his buddies and friends, and he has a sense of humor, but when he talks to a woman he likes, he can't show his strengths. Therefore, deliberately presenting yourself in front of a woman is usually only counterproductive. Not only does it make you nervous and unable to talk to a woman normally, but it also lowers your own status in her heart a lot.

So, do anything in front of a woman, including telling jokes, chatting, talking about yourself, etc., and remember not to say it just to show yourself in front of her.

Deliberately presenting yourself puts your own social status below a woman. In this way, from the very beginning, you are tantamount to telling the woman: I am not as good as you, so it is me who chases you, not you who chases me. On the contrary, if you don't deliberately express yourself in front of women, but instead maintain your own framework and let women show themselves to you, this is the right direction to attract women.

Mistake 3: Thinking that money and good looks are the keys to attracting women

Count how many times you've invited women to dinner? Buy a gift for her? Send her flowers and wait, but she still rejects you and falls in love with another man who is not as good to her as you are to her?

If you're anything like me, then you've had enough of this. Still, guess what? It's actually very normal, right, I mean it's normal. When you do these things, you give a very clear message:

"I don't think you're going to like me because of me, so I'm going to do everything in my power to buy your attention to me and your love for me with money and so on".

Your well-intentioned intentions often appear to women as excessive psychological compensation for their lack of self-confidence, and ineffective attempts at manipulation. Yes, what I'm saying is that in the eyes of women, attempts to use money and gifts, etc., are seen as manipulation.

One of the most common mistakes we men make when pursuing women is that many of us men give up before we even start...... Because they think that beautiful women are only interested in handsome guys and rich men...... Or a man who grows tall...... Or men of a certain age.

Of course, it is true that there are some women who are only interested in these things. However, most women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet and appearance. There are men whose personalities and character traits are indeed very attractive to women, like magnets......

If you learn those personality traits and learn how to use them, you can become the man who is very attractive to women.

You don't have to settle for a woman you don't love much because you're not rich, not tall, or not handsome.

Let me say it again: if you know how to use your body language and communication skills correctly, then you can make a woman feel that powerful sexual attraction to you, the same feeling you yourself feel when you see a young sexy beauty.

Mistake 4: Either too much or too little in front of a woman.

A lot of men like to be "cool" in front of women. Others are not good at words, they are disdainful of words. They always believe that men express their feelings without mouths, with actions. I like you again, I don't say it to you, I make you feel. That's right, that's great, and I'm personally very supportive of that.

But what women think of these men, "they are unapproachable." ”

You're doing well, you're letting women approach you, it's good for women to act on you first. But your coldness often makes women feel that you are unapproachable, so they give up approaching you and choose other men.

And then there are some men who are always saying things they find interesting, "I hit a monster yesterday and dropped some equipment." ”

"The song of so-and-so singer is very good." 'How was the game between Chelsea and Manchester United yesterday? They often talk happily, but women find it boring. Because the vast majority of men don't know that what men like is not the same as what women like.

Men like competitive things, games, wars, politics, sports, women like emotional things, Japanese dramas, Korean dramas, romance novels, and celebrity gossip. So remember, often when you feel like you're having a good time chatting, the landmine is about to detonate, and you and her are already in danger.

Mistake 5: Ask her for approval or permission

We mistakenly think that pleasing women will make them like us. We men are always looking for ways to please women, to get the "approval" or "permission" of women.

Another terrible idea.

Women are never attracted to men who please them... When hell freezes over. But don't get me wrong. You don't have to be bad for women to attract them. However, if you think that being nice to a woman means "always trying to please her, seeking her approval and permission", think again. Pleasing a woman to gain her approval will never make her like you. Women actually hate men who seek their approval.

Don't believe me? Just ask any beautiful woman if she hates men who cling to their side all day long seeking their approval......

With so many mistakes, how many did you make?

Mistake 6: Not "understanding" how a woman's liking or love for a man arises

There is a big difference between women and men in terms of attraction and affection between men and women. You have to accept this fact and deal with it right.

When a man sees a young, beautiful, sexy woman, he immediately feels sexual attraction.

But is it the same with women? Is it also through the appearance that a woman feels sexually attractive? Or is there something else? Well, through 8 years of study, research, and practice on this subject, I can tell you unequivocally that women usually develop that kind of attraction to men because of factors other than their appearance. Have you ever noticed that it is generally believed that unhandsome men are with beautiful women at a much higher rate than unbeautiful women with beautiful men?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to a certain quality in a man than just their appearance...... What attracts them more than their appearance is the feeling that the man gives them when they are around him.

If you know how to use your body language and communication skills correctly, then you can make a woman feel that powerful sexual attraction to you, just like you feel when you see a young sexy beauty yourself.

It's not a coincidence, though. You have to learn this skill. Any man can learn how to make a woman sexually aroused......

Mistake 7: Caring about what a woman says

If I love her, I have to care about everything she says. She said she didn't like me talking like that, she said I didn't say that, she said I didn't look good in this dress, I wouldn't wear it again, she said she didn't like men with glasses, I would wear contact lenses......

Caring about what women say is a mistake that many men often make.

This is normal. It's just that a woman's sixth sense can feel it, and you always care about what she says, so that she will feel that you have valued her enough. She doesn't have to make any effort to get you to care about her.

In other words: she can now be placed in the sky like a kite, and when she wants to see you, she can make a phone call and ask you to invite her to dinner, and when she doesn't want to see you, you call her, and she thinks you are annoying. Or maybe she's secretly dating another man.

Mistake 8: Confessing too early - confiding in her your feelings/feelings for her too early in a relationship

Another unfortunate mistake is that most men confide their "feelings" to women too early.

Beauty is rare. They usually get a lot of attention from men. Most men don't realize this. But beautiful women are attracted to their attention by men in various ways all day long. A beautiful woman may encounter many attempts by men to get her attention many times a day, and all kinds of attempts by men such as approaching and talking, staring, staring, etc. Several times a day, dozens of times a week, and often hundreds of times a month.

And guess what?

Beautiful women usually have a lot of men chasing them, and they often have dated or been in a relationship with quite a few men. That's right. They have a lot of experience emotionally. They know what your words and actions mean.

One thing that can make a beautiful woman lose interest in you and leave you faster than anything else is when a guy starts to confide in him after a date or two: "You know what, I really, really, like you so much, love you so much." This is a signal to the beauties that you are giving you, that is, you can't control your feelings like the other men chasing her, and you fall in love with her immediately.

Don't do it. Lean back and relax.

Actually, there's a better way......

Mistake 9: Don't go for help

This is the biggest one of all the bugs.

It is this mistake that makes most men never get the women and the love they really want.

I understand that we men don't like to show our weakness or helplessness. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I used to be like that too.

Mistake 10: Being "too nice" to her

Have you ever noticed that a beautiful woman never seems to be attracted to a man who is too nice to her? Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you must have known beautiful women who like "bad guys"... But for some reason they don't have that kind of interest in you and just want to be friends with you. Why is that?

The reason is actually quite simple...

A woman does not look at how good the man is to her when she initially judges whether she is attracted to the man. Women like the men they like because they feel an instinctive attraction to them.

Guess what?

Being too nice to a woman does not make a woman feel that strong instinctive attraction. And being too nice to a woman doesn't make them choose you. I understand that this doesn't seem logical and hard to accept... But you have to accept it. Only by waiting until you accept this fact and start acting on it, you will never go after the beauty you really want.

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