I'm speechless, what's this method called? In order to help your grandson get angry, I actually want to sit here and cooperate with him to lift the table on me? I can't do this, so I quickly got up and dodged, and the big cow was even more angry, lying on the ground and rolling on the ground like a mad dog. Mother Lu squatted down distressedly and persuaded. But it didn't work, but it was counterproductive, and the big cow rolled and scolded: "Fuck your mother, fuck your mother!" I was even more surprised, who was he scolding, was it purely angry, or was he scolding me for not cooperating with him to lift the table?

This made my face ugly, and Lu's mother stretched out her hand and pointed at her son and daughter-in-law, trembling with anger. I thought she was angry that the two of them didn't educate their children well, and they came when they opened their mouths. Lu Mu said: "Are you two living in vain?" Do you have to be childish like this? At the beginning, you still wanted to have a second child, but I didn't agree, for fear that the big cow would be angry. Looking at it now, I really shouldn't have stopped it at the beginning, you are angry, I can still have a grandson! ”

Hearing this, I really can't wait to leave the Lu family immediately. I can't stand it. Lu's wife burst into tears: "Okay, you guys can get used to it, see what he can do in the future!" "Turn around and put on your shoes and you're going to go out.

Mr. Lu glared at his wife and pointed at his wife: "How do you talk to your mother?" No apologies yet! Lu's wife ignored him at all and went straight out.

Seeing his wife running out, Mr. Lu was just about to chase after him, but was scolded loudly by Lu's mother: "Come back, what are you chasing?" You can't even control your wife, are you ashamed? ”

I said I was going out to find my sister-in-law, but Lu's mother rolled her eyes and didn't make a sound. Mr. Lu may feel shameless. Pretending to be tough and saying, "Don't look for it, where can she run?" Sooner or later, I'll have to come back. ”

I said, "People are prone to danger when they are angry, what if you cross the street and get hit by a car?" Don't go, I'm a guest, she has to give me three points of face, and it is possible to persuade me to come back. Mr. Lu was noncommittal, I hurriedly put on my shoes and went out of the house, took the elevator downstairs and went out of the unit, and saw Lu's wife hurriedly walking in front of the gate of the community. I trotted to catch up. Lu's wife saw that it was me, and looked back behind her, there was no one else, I said don't look at it, they are at home to persuade your son.

Lu's wife was even more angry, sat on the edge of the flower bed, and began to cry.

I looked left and right to see that there was no one, so I sat next to her, persuaded her a few words, and when she slowly calmed down, I took off the necklace of the five poisonous oils and carried it in front of her. Lu's wife stopped crying, not understanding what it meant. I said, "The transparent liquid in this pendant is called five poisonous oils, which are made of a variety of poisonous insects and some special materials in Southeast Asia. It can detect yin qi and feminine matter. The closer you are to the feminine, the darker the color of the oil. ”

Lu's wife looked at me, and in addition to doubt, there was also a bit of vigilance in her eyes. I whispered, "I've already tested the gold necklace you gave to my mother-in-law." Now there is no one else, you have to be honest with me, otherwise your mother-in-law's illness will not be cured, and you will not have any good fruit to eat. ”

"I—I don't get it." Lu's wife is still holding on.

I smiled and said, "There is a thin slit in the center of the necklace's chicken heart pendant, which must have been customized by you and spot welded by the goldsmith." It's hollow inside, it's something sandwiched, right? It's easy to verify, why don't I go back and talk to your husband? "Spare time.

These words broke Lu's wife's psychological defense, she covered her face with her hands and cried again. I finally persuaded her to recover and asked what was going on. Lu's wife took out a handkerchief and wiped her face, and said: "My mother-in-law, that is simply an old nemesis, I have been in Lu's house for more than ten years, and I have not been angry until now, I think it is a miracle!" ”

I hurriedly asked what it meant, and Lu's wife panted evenly and began to tell me about the Lu family. I've seen a lot of it, but when she says it, I fully understand.

Mr. Lu lived in rural Shandong when he was a child, and Lu's mother's living habits were quite unhealthy, with a heavy mouth, very salty food, and very frugal. Although the Lu family was born in the countryside, his family was not poor, and there were more than a dozen acres of land in the local area, which could be regarded as middle peasants according to the previous rules. But Lu's mother is so savved that people can't understand it, every time she eats, it's always leftovers or vegetable soup from the last meal, and it's useless to persuade Lu's father.

When Mr. Lu was 16 years old, his father died of illness, and after graduating from university, he went to work at Tsingtao Brewery. When he married his wife, because of the good family conditions of Lu's wife, he contributed a lot of money to help his son-in-law buy a house in Qingdao, and his small life was getting better and better. Lu's wife had a headache for this old woman with extremely abnormal living habits, after all, she was a mother-in-law, and she couldn't say anything, but she was afraid that she would get sick, so she had to hope that her husband would come forward to dissuade her, at least not let her eat vegetable soup or stir-fry the base oil every day.

Mr. Lu was a little foolish, saying that if he could persuade him, it would have taken effect a long time ago, and he would not have waited until now. The old lady has been eating like this since she was young, and she has been used to it for half her life, so let her go. Lu's wife said that if you continue like this, maybe your mother will get sick one day, and coronary heart disease is caused by eating too salty. Mr. Lu was still unhappy, and said that you were afraid that my mother would get sick and spend money, so Mrs. Lu was so angry that she didn't mention it again.

It's easy to say anything when you don't have children, since the day the two of them were ready to have children, Lu's mother began to become the "chief policeman of the railway" - everything is in charge. When she was young, she didn't know where she learned a large number of women's complete methods from pregnancy preparation to childbirth, all of which were used on her daughter-in-law. Some methods can no longer be described as wonderful, but ignorant. For example, you can't eat green leafy vegetables when preparing for pregnancy, otherwise the child's face will be green, you have to take 40 days of "reincarnation medicine" before pregnancy to increase the chance of giving birth to a man, you can't take a B ultrasound pregnancy test after pregnancy, which will harm the child, and the mother can't brush her teeth for a month after giving birth, otherwise the teeth will fall out, and you must not have a caesarean section.

There are many theories like this, Lu's mother told me no less than dozens at that time, and I don't remember very well, only a few of them. Lu's wife is from Qingdao City, so she naturally does not accept this "knowledge", but Lu's mother is very stubborn and has to force her daughter-in-law to comply, because of this, the two sides go from reasoning to avoidance, and then from dispute to quarrel. Mr. Lu is not too confused, and he knows that his mother's wild platform theories are untenable, so he only supports his wife on the surface and mud.

After the birth of her son, Lu's mother was even more anxious to go to the house, and she was extremely unhappy to see Lu's wife take care of the child using scientific methods. The child sometimes cries for no reason, and Lu's wife doesn't pick it up, or even coax it, but the child is tired of crying but goes over to pick it up, which makes her very incomprehensible.

Lu's wife said to me: "I'm not a foreigner, but I think there are some parenting experiences of foreign mothers that are worth learning from." Many people like to hold their children and shake them endlessly, thinking that the child is comfortable and sleeps quickly, but they don't know that the baby's brain is not fully developed, but it is damaged. As a result, my mother-in-law said that I was used to being the eldest lady at home before I got married, and I didn't understand anything. I can tolerate all this, after all, I am taking the child. But I always have to go to work, and after Da Niu was two years old, I had to hand over the task to her, and the result was miserable. She is very pampered with children, everything goes with her, and she can't wait for the big cow to say that she wants the moon, so she also goes to buy a ladder to pick it. When I wanted to discipline her, she stopped her, saying that their mother and son were different from me, that they had suffered a lot when they were young, and that now the next generation could no longer suffer. That's not to mention, I drink Coke Sprite to my children all day, and I found that the signs were wrong, so I wanted to quit and continue to bring it myself, but my husband objected, saying that it would be unhappy. Because of this, we quarreled a lot. The mother-in-law did not let Da Niu go to kindergarten, saying that he would get infectious diseases, and said that his son's generation had never gone to kindergarten and would not come over. I strongly objected and let him go to kindergarten anyway. When Da Niu went home, I was supposed to take the child, but she rushed to do everything, saying that it was for me to rest and enjoy happiness, but when I saw her connivance and pampering of Da Niu, I got angry and didn't let her take the child, and she was not happy. After several years, almost all of them were spent in this kind of contradiction and quarrel. Later, when Da Niu reached the age of five or six, I found that he was getting fatter and fatter, but there were no carbonated drinks at home. Later, I found out that my mother-in-law actually secretly bought Coke from outside for him to drink every day, and then threw away the empty bottles! ”

"There are a lot of such cases, and I have seen many fat children holding large bottles of drinks in the supermarket. But won't your son say it? Husband doesn't care? I asked.