Kou Xi was a little stunned for a while, and he couldn't digest Kou Xingyu's words.

"We have a psychology department in the hospital, and sometimes the child is not emotionally right, and the parents will bring it to the child when they realize that the child has a psychological problem. But so far, the vast majority of people have been reminded by a third party. Kou Xingyu looked at Kou Xi and showed a wry smile: "Although I am not a doctor in that department, I have heard a lot of cases. I'm telling you, a lot of parents don't realize what 'psychological stress' is. The word adolescence has only appeared in society in recent years. That's also because there are always a few suicides among children in junior high school and high school this year, which has attracted the attention of the school. The school proposes this term at parent-teacher conferences, and some parents will pay attention to it, but more often they will scoff at it. ”

"In fact, there have been problems in the psychology of teenagers for a long time, and the two of us have sighed about one thing before. Jiang Yan took over the conversation and said to Kou Xi and his family: "A mother and daughter came to the hospital to see a doctor, and the child was diagnosed with depression. Because she has been ostracized by her classmates for a long time in school, the teacher will not pay attention to her because she is not good at studying. Over time, the academic performance will be worse, disgusted with school, cynical, indifferent, and all kinds of emotions. I don't know who this parent listened to, so I came to the hospital to see a doctor. After being diagnosed, he yelled at his daughter in the corridor, 'Why don't you die', 'Narrow-minded and unproductive', 'Be careful and can't think about it', 'Why don't your classmates exclude you if they don't reject others, or do you have a problem'. ”

Kou Xi frowned and couldn't help but say, "How can you say that about a child? The child is already depressed, and he wants to stimulate her so much." If this is the case, I will immediately give the child a year off from school, take her around for a walk, buy some books to read and explore her interests. After one year, if the child is willing to return to school, he or she can transfer to a new environment. ”

She looked at Jiang Yan: "What did that parent do?"

Jiang Yan looked at Kou Xi with a look of pity: "That child may have been strongly stimulated when he saw his own mother treating him like this. Jumped directly from the window at the top of the staircase and died instantly. The child's mother was stupid and cried breathlessly. ”

Kou Xi suddenly thought of Huo Xinyu, and after glancing at Gu Shen, he couldn't help but ask, "Parents didn't take this opportunity to touch porcelain, right?"

Jiang Yan shook her head: "I just registered in and asked, I didn't get injections, I didn't take medicine, and I wasn't hospitalized." I can't complain about the hospital at all, and the case says 'soothe the mood, parents don't stress their children'. It's because she didn't control the abuse of the child, where is there licking her face and making money. ”

She pouted disapplausively: "Actually, let me tell you, there are only many examples in obstetrics and gynecology." Oh, don't you know, our hospital often has a daughter who is abandoned after giving birth. Every once in a while, a baby can be found in the corner. Especially in the past two years, various hospitals have recommended caesarean sections, and the price is definitely more expensive than natural delivery. There are even more of these various situations, and our doctors and nurses are angry every day. ”

The more he talked about the topic, the closer he got to Kou Xi's question, Gu Shen pretended to be curious: "It's a good thing to have a child, is it because of the fact that there is something wrong with giving birth to a boy or a girl?"

"Many, many, even if it's a spontaneous birth, the newborn doesn't come out with the mother. Because we have to do post-processing, some women need stitches, so it will be rolled out later. It often happens that the mother who pushes out has no family to take care of her, and all the family members follow the child. There are quite a few fights in the ward, and as soon as I say it, my fire will come up. Jiang Yan said and covered her heart, looking very annoyed.

"Fortunately, Xingyu is also a doctor, I don't think you would be like this at that time. And when you give birth, your uncle and aunt should also be by your side. Kou Xi looked at Jiang Yan with a smile: "It is difficult for a clean official to interrupt family affairs, not to mention your hospital, even ordinary people like us have seen a lot." ”

Kou Xi looked at the two couples in front of him: "I didn't have much experience before, and I relied on my sister's help when I gave birth to Mile." Now pay attention to scientific parenting, when I was in Hong Kong before, I found that there are professional nursery teachers there are very powerful. Now there are regular lectures like this in Shenyang Hospital, and I have been there a few times to listen to them, which is very useful. ”

"What's the use of being used? I'm still a specialist, and people don't listen to what my mother says. In person, what to do behind the scenes. Jiang Yan knew that Kou Xi wanted her mother-in-law to serve her confinement.

The words have come to this point, and he simply confided all his grievances: "I tell you, listen to me, hiring someone to take care of you is a hundred times better than your own parents taking care of you." Because people take your money and do what you ask them to do. I'll give you a list of meals for a month, and you ask the babysitter to cook for you according to the above menu. ”

"Confinement meal?" "There is a standard confinement meal in this era?" Kou Xi was very surprised, she always thought that it would be at least ten years before there would be a professional 'confinement lady' and 'confinement meal'.

"I had a caesarean section, and the confinement meal was different from a normal birth. But, alas, at this point, it's time for me to speak ill of my mother-in-law again. Jiang Yan glanced at her husband sitting next to her and sighed: "I know, it's my love for people to take care of me, just eat whatever you do." There's no need to make any demands, but I say from the bottom of my heart, it's all about cooking, shouldn't what I do be based on my needs? Who is confinement for? Isn't it maternity?"

"My mother-in-law is good, she brought a dozen chickens from the countryside. Later, I gave birth, and my father-in-law also took a dozen old hens. They were all raised in the countryside when I was pregnant. But is it necessary to say that one chicken a day? And every day a bowl of chicken soup with thick oil and water floating, without a single bit of salt. It's all oil. Even if it's millet porridge, it's soaked in chicken broth for me to eat. ”

Kou Xi also did confinement, and the millet porridge and chicken soup he ate during confinement were also like this. It's just that at that time, Wang Yazhi came to cook and would cook something delicious for her. Especially the millet porridge, with red dates and brown sugar, the sweet taste makes her appetite great.

"Five meals a day, three meals of noodles, two meals of millet porridge with chicken broth in between. My mother prepared for me Codonopsis, astragalus, and gastrodia, and the old lady didn't put any of them. Asked her not to make such greasy chicken soup, and she also thought that I was bullying her with my mother. It's good to say that I'm picky, that I have chicken to eat, but other people can't eat it if they want to. ”

"After giving birth, I had a low-grade fever and could only save myself by drinking warm water every day. When the milk was low, she was angry at me. He complained that I refused to eat pig's trotters, and that I didn't eat meat, so I didn't have milk. When it comes to her mother-in-law, Jiang Yan is full of grievances.

"Later, my mom and Xingyu both went out to work, and we both lived in hell at home. She hugged my daughter every day and muttered to her face to face. Saliva on your child's face, and be sure to kiss your child's mouth dozens of times a day. Later, my fever subsided for a few days, and my worth was immediately apparent. No matter the time or the time to say hello, I pushed the door in, lifted my clothes, and threw the child on my chest. When I'm breastfeeding, I have to ........"

Speaking of this, Jiang Yan realized that there was also a 'brother-in-law' Gu Shen in the room. She closed her mouth in frustration and turned her face to the side to sulk.