I saw a beautiful article on Weibo today, and I want to share it with you first:

This article is transferred from a blog post by Prince Ma (Xiangrui Imperial Exemption), entitled "On the Self-cultivation of Edition Pets", as follows:

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How to start a good discussionJ

This is my personal opinion. When I am ready to have a 'discussion' about something, I am willing to follow the following criteria in the discussion, so that the discussion can be a 'healthy discussion' where both parties can gain something and not get angry:

1. Don't swear in any form.

2. You can complain, be sarcastic, and funny when you first express your opinions, but don't be sarcastic, complain, or funny when you discuss.

3. Don't speculate on motives. The following are all motivational speculations:

"You're crazy if you're red."

"You're hype."

"Isn't that because .xx?"

4. Do not use the "qualification theory". The following are qualifications:

"Who are you?" Who is qualified to say that?'

"You can do it!"

"If you have the ability, you can also xx!"

"Let's talk about it when you can xxx."

5. Don't "confuse concepts". The following are confusing concepts:

"XX singing skills are not good? Do you know how hard he tried?

"Not hard enough? Do you know his talent?'

"XX is not talented? Do you know how hard he lives?

6. Do not carry out the "Identity Definition J. The following are definitions of identity:

"You're not patriotic!"

"You're five cents, aren't you?"

"You're a layman who doesn't know how to pretend to understand!"

7. Use as few rhetorical questions as possible and more declarative sentences.

8. It is better to withdraw from the discussion directly and elegantly, rather than use the sentence "Since you are all xxxx, I have nothing to say to you". Like what:

"Since you think Ashin is good at singing, I don't have anything to say to you."

"Since you think beyond is the god of rock and roll, I don't have much to say to you

"Since you're all swearing, I don't have anything more to say to you."

9. Most importantly, sincerely admit your mistakes and take responsibility for your mistakes.

The atmosphere of discussion on the Chinese Internet is indeed extremely bad, and if you are interested in rebuilding it, I hope these insights can have some effect.

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I hope that mine, and all the readers, can see and try to do it, so that we can communicate in a peaceful and friendly environment, instead of opening and closing our mouths to be "stupid", "brainless", "XX black...... And so on. We read the text for different purposes, but it is nothing more than to make our spirits happy, instead of arguing with others all day long, but making ourselves unhappy.

Okay, now that I'm done with the foreword, let me say a few things:

First, thank you to all the friends who are grinding iron and come to grind iron, it is you who have given me the motivation and confidence to complete this "Miao Jiang Gu Affair", and let us experience such an unforgettable time together. Thank you for all the people who encouraged me, thank you for all the people who supported me, thank you for your thanks, thank you for your ......

Second, the cause and origin of the matter, some people understand, some people don't understand, some people support, some people distort, some people encourage, some people maliciously slander, I originally wanted to explain a lot, but now I don't want to. Because those who know the Tao know the Tao, and those who don't know the Tao, no matter what you tell him, what you get is still a middle finger. For a short period of time, I have been thinking about one question, and now I have thought clearly, that is, cherish the people who love you and ignore the people who hate you.

I have always felt that real men are either sweating in the sun, or silently tapping on the keyboard in the dark night, weaving a beautiful dream, and creating the future with hard work. So at the end of last month, I decided to compete for the top of the list and start a healthy competition. What we do, what we say, under the sun, is like that.

Third, Little Buddha has always been a part-time author at night, because I still have a job during the day. But I am doing everything well with the most professional attitude. This month, Xiaofo updated 266403 words, 85 chapters and 1 chapter, almost 10,000 words a day, this is a miracle, breaking my own record, and this number, even those professional writers who write articles all day, can't compare (this can be compared with professional writers on the whole network, including the top Tang family Sanshao and tomato potatoes - Gao Pan...... And I am proud that the vast majority of readers responded well, indicating that the little Buddha was attentive.

This is healthy competition, but here's a point, maybe next month, or later, the update won't be so powerful.

After all, this month, my body is a little overdrawn, mainly due to lack of sleep.

Don't say this, say too much, like Xianglin's sister-in-law, it's boring, it's bitter, you know, that's it.

Uh, (⊙o⊙)... This is the state.

Fourth, for those friends who are ambiguous about my move, I would like to answer them in a unified manner:

1. I'm a professional black man – see my single chapter last month, Xie Lu Xie;

2, for the sake of profit - I posted in November last year, why did I ever make such a move? Why only fight for a month? Have I ever published a single chapter like this since I started the book?

3. Begging - If you write an essay and sell words, asking everyone to support the genuine version, it is begging, then I can only say sorry to you, our values are not in the same galaxy;

4. Fool the reader, incite the reader, and be careful...... Some- this, uh, is that me? If you have the energy, can you please turn over all my chapters?

5. Selling Moe – Well, you're talking about me, I'm wrong......

To summarize here: I actually have two opinions on these readers who say that I am, the first is those who have read my article, but do not agree with my behavior, I just want to say more of your support, you should be for my good, good or bad, I can understand, and I can support. Thank you! The second is that you haven't read my article, and you come to accuse it by hearsay, I can only say, I really don't want to explain it to you, if you can read the article first, and finish talking, then I still appreciate you.

Otherwise, I sympathize with you.

I am grateful to all the people who love me and hate me, it is you who have made me understand the beauty of this world, and made my mentality, Hongchen refining my heart, and becoming strong.

Tell me a little episode, contact with my beginning, I remember that there was a person who came to scold me, and said that he was very objective, and then my reader retorted to him, and then he immediately straightened his waist, and then stared at him, with a strong sense of superiority accusation: Miao Jiang readers, just this quality?

For this matter, please see my announcement: The world is a mirror, thank you.

Fifth, I want to say to other readers, in this world, we like analogies, Sinopec VS PetroChina, Mobile VS Unicom, Ghost Blowing Lantern VS Tomb Robbery Notes...... Wait, wait, I don't mind everyone comparing me, whether it's good or bad, because in this world, some people love you, some people hate you, no one is perfect, no one is right or wrong, there is no sense of existence. But...... I want to say that I've been shot countless times for this, I'm tired, really, let me write well, I don't want to go to other people's calves all day long, that's what I'm trying to do this month.

I want to prove that my readers are no less than anyone else, and my supporters, no less than anyone else.

But the competition failed, and that's the case, so let's not compare, okay?

I know that the people who really love me and love Miao Jiang have stopped after I advocated it several times, and you understand me, understand me, understand me, and ...... Uh, I'm sorry to say, I love Miao Jiang. But for those who hold the view that "the author doesn't matter, the book doesn't matter, I just say how I feel", can you spare me?

Otherwise, you compare me with the three young men of the Tang family, with the silkworm potatoes, with the tomatoes, and with the Jingguan and Kong Ergou that I like......

I don't care anyway.

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Seeing this, it shows that you really have perseverance, when I was a child, I watched our principal speak, and before the end, he usually said a few words of nonsense, so let me say a few more points, first, thank you to all my supporters, thank you! Second, I won't talk about these things anymore, unless it's the author himself, otherwise I won't get involved in these things, I'm tired, and you're not in a good mood. Third, the responsibility of the author is to write a good essay conscientiously, only if the quality of the essay is good, it will be remembered, and everything else is false.

I will focus on the work itself and strive to dedicate a more wonderful Miao Jiang to everyone, which is the responsibility of men.

Okay, after this testimonial is written, it's time for me to cut off the Internet, it is estimated that many people will scold me, then I will close the Internet, laugh and scold by others, and just follow my heart. There are many things that I can't say, and I don't want to say any more, alas, this heart of the little Buddha is only sold to people with enthusiasm. There are some things that I can share with you, so let's do it later.

In the future, I will insist on one time every night to focus on answering everyone's questions.

Okay, I'm long-winded, it's time to break my sleep, go have a glass of wine, tomorrow, the sun should still rise, right?

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