Chapter 914: Being in the midst of blessings does not know blessings

Duan Tingting laughed, "It's not that I'm obsessed, you know?" I've been pregnant for so long, and my parents don't say anything, they just wait for me to compromise, just wait for me to bow my head. I don't! ”

"Tingting, I don't think you are such a stubborn person, what are you angry with your biological parents?"

Duan Tingting leaned on the head of the bed and did not speak, with a stubborn expression.

Liu Qianzhou said: "Don't be unhappy, after giving birth to a baby, at least you have completed another major event in your life, isn't it?" It's something to celebrate, right? ”

Duan Tingting looked at Liu Qianzhou and said softly, "Qianqian, I think you are the wisest thing to do." Don't be in a hurry to fall in love after graduation, work first, do your job well, and then pick slowly after you have the ability and achievements. Look at those older leftover women now, even if they don't have a boyfriend or marriage, even if they are ridiculed and talked about, they have an easy life, they can meet their own expenses, and they have a decent job image, a good salary, and a person's life can be whatever they want. Where is a woman like me who fell in love and got married after graduation, did not work hard to improve herself at the most suitable age for hard work, and did not have a good job and good income. After getting married and having children, work was forced to stop. Until now, I have no income, I rely on my husband to support me, and I have to look at the face of the whole family when I spend every penny, and I am really fed up with this kind of life. I wish I could be like you, so powerful, make so much money, it doesn't matter if your husband is or not, you have so many choices, so free time. Why am I so inferior to you? ”

Liu Qianzhou gently held Duan Tingting's hand: "Tingting, don't envy other people's lives, because of your life, I also envy." ”

Duan Tingting listened to it funny: "How can you be envious? Is this also called life like me? ”

Liu Qianzhou sighed softly and said seriously: "Don't say that, it's more than enough to be above than below." Let's just say that the people in our university dormitory, see if you are the worst? ”

Duan Tingting raised her eyes, thinking of Wang Yuwen who was living in dire straits, and then thinking about whether Jin Chendan, who was still in prison, could see the light of day again in this life, Duan Tingting laughed helplessly.

"So, compared to Wang Yuwen's mediocrity, compared to Jin Chendan's desire to become a master, but he went astray, are you like this, is it the best life?" Liu Qianzhou asked in a low voice.

Duan Tingting nodded slowly, and Liu Qianzhou said again: "You envy me, but how did I go abroad in the first place, have you forgotten?" If I couldn't stay any longer, would I go abroad? I was only 19 years old when I went abroad, and I hadn't started my sophomore year at the end of my freshman year. A nineteen-year-old girl is forced to live in a foreign country, with a language barrier and no background, what a worrying choice it should be. Tingting, back then, as long as I had a second way to go, I would not leave my hometown to study in the UK. I am not a rich second generation, I study abroad, and I can only flee. ”

Duan Tingting looked at Liu Qianzhou distressedly, "Qianqian, you have suffered." ”

Liu Qianzhou immediately smiled, "Hehe, it's all over anyway, and it's all over anyway." Life is that it didn't defeat me, it recognized me, and that's what we all strive for. ”

"Hmm."

Liu Qianzhou said again: "So, you envy me for such a life, can you bear the pain and torture I endured at the beginning?" Tingting, you are the happiest of the four of us. What you're worried about is just a small problem in life. You graduate, work, and then go on a blind date, so lucky to meet the man you love. How many people have been on a blind date for a lifetime, and they can't find the person they love, but you know it. Falling in love, getting married, having children, your life is walking on the right track little by little, this is the most normal and desirable life. You said you don't have much money to spend, but is your family really so poor that you can't open the pot? No, isn't it? If you want to live, you can still get by. It's that your heart is not satisfied, it's not that you have too little money. ”

Duan Tingting stopped talking and buried her head.

If someone else says this, Duan Tingting is afraid that she doesn't want to listen to it, and she will only listen to Liu Qianzhou if she says it.

Liu Qianzhou said: "Your life has not taken a detour, you were born in your parents' well-off home, and what you see is this prosperous city, and your life is much ahead of many people." Our dorm, and even the rest of our school, came to the city after they went to college. In order for us to put down roots in this city, we're going to have to work twice as hard as you locals, maybe more. Employment pressure, pressure to buy a house, pressure to fall in love and get married, life pressure and so on. You, you're really happy. How much have you experienced in all these pressures? ”

When Liu Qianzhou said this, Duan Tingting had a feeling of sudden enlightenment at this moment, and suddenly her mouth suddenly opened, and only Liu Qianzhou could give her such strength.

Liu Qianzhou looked at her, "How many people envy your family, in fact, everyone's dream, how many people want to make a lot of money?" Do you want to be a big official? Everyone still prefers to live an ordinary and prosperous life in a peaceful and prosperous world. When we were young, we imagined the days to come, and at that time we all thought that our future husbands don't need to have much money or power, but as long as they love themselves enough and care enough about this family, they will live a dull and happy life for a lifetime. Who wants to have a lot of ups and downs in this life? No one, right? You, you are in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings. ”

Duan Tingting was made to cry by Liu Qianzhou, and Liu Qianzhou hurriedly brought her another tissue.

"I've heard people say that you can't cry often during confinement, you said that in your confinement, except for crying and anger, there is nothing else, which is not good for your health." Liu Qianzhou sighed.

Duan Tingting smiled helplessly again: "I'm alone, really...... I can't comfort my own bad mood, and the husband I found can't comfort me. Qianqian, you are not superb, but you have someone who has the ability to make people stable. You can comfort my emotions, and that's the best thing about you. Every time I listen to you, I feel like a new student, you are really amazing. ”

Liu Qianzhou held her hand and held it gently, "You're fine, but you don't know." Because you often go to other people, and on the way to see others, you forget about your own goodness. ”

"Am I fine? I don't think so. Duan Tingting shook her head: "Failed life, failed marriage." ”

Liu Qianzhou denied: "If you are not good, how can you be admitted to Yundu University?" In my high school, there were few people in the whole school who supported Yundu University. The college entrance examination proves your ability. Also, you're not good enough, how can you find someone you like? An excellent person may not be able to find an excellent partner, but a person who is not excellent will definitely not find an excellent partner. You, having a handsome husband, a lovely daughter, and in-laws who can help take care of the baby are your blessings, and others can't look forward to it. Fate has been good enough for you, what do you have to complain about? ”

Duan Tingting doubted again: "Am I really good?" My husband is also very good? ”

"Isn't Ji Hanliang good enough? He works hard and hard, in order to give his family an extra penny, he runs Didi to make money after work. When he was young, he had good looks, and when he was a husband and a father, he had a sense of responsibility, and a man had these two points, isn't it called excellent? He's struggling to support his family a little now, but he's also holding up, isn't he? ”

In Liu Qianzhou's gentle explanation, Duan Tingting's emotions finally stabilized little by little.

Unlike when Liu Qianzhou entered the door, she was as irritable as she saw, and her face calmed down.

Duan Tingting whispered: "But he doesn't care about me that much." ”

"No, it's you who amplify their reaction in the pain and anxiety. When people are at their most vulnerable, they can remember the words and deeds of others the most. But in fact, if it is we who make that choice, we will know very well that we must not have deliberately chosen that way, because of one reason or another, prompting us to choose this way, don't you say? Liu Qianzhou asked her.

Duan Tingting nodded, "Maybe, but I still can't let go of that scene, and when I think about it now, it still hurts." ”

Liu Qianzhou said: "There is no doubt that your mother-in-law and your husband will be there any doubt that day, but if you have been deliberately angry with them for so many days, will they feel better?" ”

Duan Tingting shook her head, and Liu Qianzhou gently stroked her hair.

"That's right, so people have to be considerate of each other, and everyone's role is not so good."

"Qianqian." Duan Tingting's tears rolled out: "Don't you want to take me to your house?" ”

Liu Qianzhou said, "If you are still willing, of course I don't care, anyway, I don't have anything to do, so I'll stay with you for a while." However, I can't deepen the conflict between you and your husband's family, so you have to go back to your parents' house before I can pick you up. ”

"Well, I'll think about it." Duan Tingting nodded.

In fact, at this moment, Duan Tingting didn't really want to leave.

Liu Qianzhou said so many words, can it be useless?

Duan Tingting said: "Qianqian, thank you for coming over today. ”

"Thank you, I'm not coming, I don't know how bad your mood will be." Liu Qianzhou said with emotion.

"You're busy at home, aren't you? Somehow there is an extra child, are you still busy? Duan Tingting asked.

"It's okay, Zihua is nine years old after all, he can understand words, he can listen to everything, and he can help do something. So there was just one more child in the family, but nothing more. Liu Qianzhou said.

Duan Tingting asked, "Then do you know about Wang Yuwen?" ”

Liu Qianzhou looked at Duan Tingting: "I don't know, what's wrong with Wang Yuwen?" ”

Now Wang Yuwen will contact him, and it is estimated that it will be Duan Tingting.

Duan Tingting smiled and said: "Divorced, renting a house outside with a child, just before I gave birth, she called me to borrow money, I said that I will have a child soon, waiting to spend a lot of money, how can I lend her money." She was saying, let me borrow it from you, and I said that you are abroad, you want to borrow, let her figure it out by herself. Qianqian, I'm going to give birth, and she didn't say a word about caring about me, and it was the little in her family over and over again. ”