Chapter 913: Discuss, take you away
Liu Qianzhou didn't know how to persuade her, this matter was uncomfortable for her as a bystander, not to mention the mother who had just given birth?
"Why don't you go back to your house for confinement?" Liu Qianzhou asked: "You are at home, your parents take care of you, and your mood will be a little better." ”
has already made the relationship with the in-laws so tense, and seeing them all day long, wouldn't it be even more torturous to yourself?
Don't say that you are uncomfortable, the whole family will be affected.
Duan Tingting said: "My parents want me to go home, but their family won't let me." As I said, the newborn child is a lot of toss, I don't want my parents to worry about it, this should be done by their family. Their family has already treated me like this, and they can't worry about snacks and snacks for their children? ”
Liu Qianzhou couldn't help but sigh: "You, why is this difficult?" Aren't you uncomfortable? ”
"I'm uncomfortable, and they don't want to be happy!" Duan Tingting yelled at the door.
Liu Qianzhou couldn't help but press his eyebrows: "Don't be like this, you just gave birth to a child, and you have to fight wits and courage with your mother-in-law and husband like this, I'm really afraid that you can't control your emotions and something will go wrong." After a woman gives birth, it is easy to be depressed, you must be happy, I am such a good friend as you. ”
Duan Tingting looked at Liu Qianzhou, and the emotion on her excited face froze for a moment, and then gradually moved.
She said, "Do you think I want to do this?" I'm just unbalanced, I've been having a hard time for the past two weeks, every time I think about the attitude of their family when I have a child, I want to strangle this child, and then I hit my head to death again, and I let their family regret going. ”
Liu Qianzhou was very frightened by her words, and hurriedly said: "Eh, you can't talk nonsense, are you saying this to scare me to death?" ”
Duan Tingting suddenly cried softly: "Qianqian, really, how good your husband is to you usually, I really can't see it, until you give birth to a child, you will know whether this man really loves you, or just uses you as a fertility tool." I kind of figured it out, why do you think I should quit my job and have children for the sake of my family? I also have to go out to work, and I can't be tied up at home by my children. ”
Liu Qianzhou took a tissue to wipe Duan Tingting's tears, "Don't cry, the baby is looking at you." ”
"I feel uncomfortable thinking about it, Qianqian, can I go to your house? I don't want to live at home, it's a place where I can't breathe. Duan Tingting said in a low voice.
Liu Qianzhou looked at her with an embarrassed face: "I look at you like this, your emotions fluctuate so much, I'm not worried that it's fake." But I picked you up during the confinement, if it was your parents, it would be easy to say, but I am just your friend, you say, will your in-laws and your husband agree? How can I compete with them? ”
Duan Tingting cried sadly: "I don't want to see their family, I don't want to live here for a day, sooner or later I will get divorced, if I don't let them realize how tossing the baby is, I won't be able to enter this house even if I die." ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "Seeing that you are crying so sadly, is your body recovering well?" ”
Duan Tingting nodded: "I haven't done anything else except eat, drink, and sleep all day, can I not recover well?" ”
"You're cesarean section, do you still have to go to the hospital?" Liu Qianzhou asked, "Have you been there?" ”
"Not yet, I don't want to go for the time being, I want to remove the stitches, I just think, I won't come back after the stitches are removed, and I will live outside with my children." Duan Tingting said.
Liu Qianzhou didn't speak for a while, and Duan Tingting was obviously swayed by emotions at the moment.
Before giving birth to a child, Duan Tingting mentioned Ji Hanliang, praising and recognizing more than being picky.
In Duan Tingting's heart, Ji Hanliang is almost perfect except for the fact that his salary is a little lower.
It is precisely because she knows that Duan Tingting loves Ji Hanliang very much, so she has been holding back the matter of breaking Ji Hanliang's affair with a female colleague in the company.
However, Ji Hanliang did not do the right thing in Duan Tingting's production, but the anger and contradictions in it should have been amplified by Duan Tingting's emotions.
Ji Hanliang is not bad, and he is not so bad to Duan Tingting, so it should be a scene she saw in pain, and after her repeated memories and deep thoughts, it became unforgivable.
After a while, when she is emotionally stable, it won't be like this.
"Actually," Liu Qianzhou said after a while, "you really shouldn't cultivate here, it's too bad for your health." So, I'll contact your parents first, you go back to your parents' house first, and then I'll pick you up at your parents' house, what do you think? ”
Duan Tingting raised her eyes and looked at Liu Qianzhou: "You're not lying to me?" ”
"We're not just friends today, I lied to you, do you want to meet in the future?" Liu Qianzhou asked rhetorically.
Duan Tingting cried: "Qianqian......"
"I can't pick you up from your husband's house, don't you?" Liu Qianzhou asked her: "But if you are at your parents' house, then the situation will be better, at least it will not be difficult to explain, your in-laws, your relationship is already very tense, I will intervene again, isn't that deliberately sublimating the conflict in your family?" ”
"Sublimation is sublimation, I can't move, I want to be able to run, I'll strangle Ji Hanliang's scum!" Duan Tingting said angrily.
Liu Qianzhou said: "Come on, how long can the current anger last?" After a month or two, your emotions and body are back to normal, and if you say something like this again, then I will listen carefully. Now, I don't believe it, but feel free to say that venting is the most important thing. ”
Duan Tingting looked at Liu Qianzhou, "Then what should I do now?" ”
"You're going to listen to me?" Liu Qianzhou asked: "And won't you confess me?" ”
Duan Tingting nodded: "Well, I'll listen to you." ”
"You should be able to go to the hospital to have your stitches removed, and when you go to the hospital to have your stitches removed, go back to your parents' house, and then I'll go to your parents' house and take you to me." Liu Qianzhou said.
Duan Tingting choked up and looked at Liu Qianzhou, "But I don't want to stay here for a day, Qianqian, why do you say my life is so bitter......"
"Don't cry, don't cry, your emotions will affect your baby, you don't want her to be unhappy with you, right? Not long after people came to this world, they were affected by your temper all day long, what kind of girl do you think she will be when she grows up? Hot? ”
Liu Qianzhou's words fell, and Duan Tingting shook her head: "It's okay to be lively, but you can't want it." ”
"Well, so, don't cry." Liu Qianzhou said in a low voice.
Duan Tingting raised her eyes again: "Are you really going to pick me up?" ”
"When did I lie to you?" Liu Qianzhou asked rhetorically.
Duan Tingting was silent, looking at Liu Qianzhou, tears flowed down like that.
Liu Qianzhou felt distressed, and wiped her tears with a tissue: "Actually, you are emotionally unstable, I can understand very well, you see that your wife and in-laws will be so emotional, you should be confined here, you should go home with your parents, if you don't see them, you will be in a better mood, and your body will recover faster." If you get angry and angry every day, it will make the whole person feel bad, don't you say? ”
Duan Tingting didn't speak, and Liu Qianzhou said: "I just came back, and I only learned today that your emotions are so unstable, otherwise I could have persuaded you earlier." ”
"Who told you not to come back sooner? I knew that if I didn't have a reliable friend around me, I would be bullied, and if you weren't by my side, I would be bullied badly. Duan Tingting said.
Liu Qianzhou was helpless: "I'm not here, your parents are in China, aren't your parents all right to do?" Even if you find something to do after retirement, you can take time off work to go to the hospital on the day you give birth. Could it be that when her daughter gets married, she is really spilled water? How can they be so ruthless? With your parents here, do your in-laws and husband dare to hesitate? ”
Duan Tingting said in a low voice: "I don't want to trouble them for everything after I get married, it's very difficult for them to raise me, don't worry about me enough, do you still let them worry about my children?" ”
"Tingting," Duan Tingting's reason, it was okay to say it once, and after saying it repeatedly, Liu Qianzhou couldn't listen to it anymore: "Are you the child adopted by your parents?" Why do you talk so much? ”
"Personal, but what I'm saying is the truth, I don't want to get married, I still have to rely on my parents to solve anything, I don't want to trouble them more, let them know that I am not good enough in the Ji family, I don't want them to worry." Duan Tingting said.
Liu Qianzhou twisted his eyebrows, "This is not a reason, Zhanbei is eager to pick up the affairs of his children and worry about it, but you act as if you want to dissociate yourself from your parents, why is this happening?" Do you have a bad relationship with your family? ”
Duan Tingting was stunned, Liu Qianzhou saw something from her silence, and immediately asked, "What's wrong?" ”
Giving birth to a child is not a trivial matter, on the day of childbirth, she didn't call her parents, or did her parents come later, can it be inferred that she didn't notify her parents at the beginning?
"Tingting?" Liu Qianzhou shouted.
Duan Tingting pursed her mouth, nodded, and choked up: "Yes, my parents didn't agree with Ji Hanliang in the first place, because I insisted on getting married, and they couldn't help it." When I got married, I said that I would live well without them worrying about it and not caring about them. ”
Liu Qianzhou understood, it turned out to be like this: "As a child, even if you say a few angry words like this, do you really break off family affection?" It's just angry words, and they won't take it seriously. ”
"But after I got married, my parents acted as if they had raised my daughter for nothing, and I went back at first, but their attitude was not salty or light, and they felt that they were better off without me at home. I'm going to go on my honeymoon after I get married, Ji Hanliang doesn't have so much money, my parents are persuading peace, but what did you tell me behind the scenes? said that I didn't listen to their advice at the beginning, and I had to marry this family, what happened now? People lied to me, I didn't even have money for a honeymoon when I got married, is it okay to live such a poor life? You say such a thing, I can listen to this breath I can swallow? At that time, I swore that I would not tell them that my life would be unsatisfactory in the future, and I would not give them my words. ”
As soon as Duan Tingting talked about the incident between her parents and her parents, she was angry again.
Liu Qianzhou hurriedly said: "Okay, okay, where is the overnight feud between parents and children?" They must have forgiven you a long time ago, and they didn't take your original words seriously, so you don't have to worry about it anymore. ”