Duan Tingting continued: "But our family eats three meals a day at home, and my husband is not there except at noon, morning and evening. So 2,000 yuan is still a good deal, and our food is not particularly good. ”

"Two thousand yuan is all used to eat, that's a lot, there is meat for three meals a day, right? Not less than four dishes at noon and night, right? Wang Yuwen asked.

Duan Tingting was surprised: "Is it so difficult to eat meat in the current era?" Four or five dishes ranged, sometimes there would be a soup stew, and sometimes two cold dishes would be bought. The main reason is that my husband likes to eat the lo-mei at the entrance of our community, and often my mother-in-law will buy one or two cold dishes back. But every month's expenses, spending more and spending less, I have a number in my heart. ”

Wang Yuwen sighed: "Yes, the money is in your hands, you have mastered your family's economic artery." ”

"Even if that woman is not at home, of course she has to hold the money in her hands. Your family doesn't give you money? Except for two thousand yuan a month, don't give any money? Duan Tingting asked.

"Two thousand yuan is a lot, and in addition to going out to eat, drink and basic living expenses, I can also have one or two hundred yuan left every month. Sometimes, my mother-in-law will also give a little bit of milk powder money. I was able to save some too. After all, I haven't gone to work, I haven't been to work for a few years, and it's hard for me to reach out to him and ask for money. Besides, I was already very disappointed in him before, and I didn't want to ask for his money anymore. I just want to go out and do something by myself, earn some money to spend, whether it is to buy food and clothing for my children, or to buy something for myself, at least I don't reach out to him anymore to ask for money. Don't look at people's faces, see through them. ”

Wang Yuwen sighed, and then smiled and said, "Am I not preparing for a divorce?" I took it seriously, but their family didn't agree, so I put up with it. First, for the sake of a young child, he needs a healthy and sound family, and I don't want my child to be looked down upon when he grows up. The child is the first, and the second is the mother-in-law. Because my mother-in-law's attitude is much better, at least I am not as aggrieved as before. I really figured it out, whatever, it's not that life can't go on, just continue this marriage, just think it's for the sake of my son. ”

Duan Tingting asked, "Do you still have feelings now?" ”

"Feelings?"

Wang Yuwen laughed: "What is it, I have never seen it." I was too hasty to get married, because I was not reserved, because I was anxious when I saw that you were all married and married, and if I hadn't settled down yet, I was afraid that you would laugh at me. So, when I met a rich little boss, it was not bad for me, so I admitted it. Flash marriage, it can be regarded as a flash marriage, and I have a child in a few months. Now that I think about it, my husband and I don't seem to have really been in a relationship, it's just that when I was working in a nail salon, there was an ambiguity during that time. I think back to it, that time was the best time of his life for me. Even when I was pregnant, he didn't speak coldly, he scolded when he wanted, and sometimes he still didn't come back for three or five days, and he didn't have a good face for me when his mother came. Thinking about the first few years of marriage, it was really a sin. I don't know how I survived, but I suffered a lot anyway, and no matter how hard I suffered, it didn't matter anything. ”

Duan Tingting opened her mouth slightly, this is a bit deep.

"This kind of marriage sounds painful, but in fact he didn't make any big mistakes, to put it mildly, he just didn't understand you, and you really can't say that he is not. After all, he's very busy in business, you have to understand him. Duan Tingting said.

"Yes, that's what I've been trying to persuade myself all along, he's busy with business, so he can't take care of it at home, and I don't blame him. However, I'm a woman, and I have needs, don't I? Wang Yuwen said.

Duan Tingting understands in seconds, they are all women, after a long period of loneliness, can there be any demand? It's going to be suffocating.

Wang Yuwen said: "I'm just fed up and want to separate." But think about it again, my son has left the Peng family, can he live a good life with me? He's at home now, at least every day. His grandmother was kind to him and loved him, and sometimes when his father came back, she would bring him toys and take the toys that his father bought, and that was when he was the happiest. So he would look forward to his dad coming home every time. He loves his grandma and dad so much, he is really going to divorce, how can I take it with him? ”

"It's also true, the child is still too young, and he has no way to tell who is really good for him. Whoever gives a toy coaxes the child away, not that the child has no conscience, but that the child is like this, all children are like this, after seeing the toy, there is no normal thinking, alas! Duan Tingting answered.

Wang Yuwen smiled: "Yes, who said no, you said that I took the child away, can I give the child a better life?" I take him with me, and I can't go to work by myself, and I'm worried about whether he's in a good mood. A woman with a child can imagine how difficult it will be. A woman who has no children, lives and works alone, is tired enough, and drags a child. So, ah, defeated by reality. In addition, their family did not agree to the divorce, so we have been staying at home, taking care of the children, not going out to work, and not getting divorced, and it is the same as before. ”

Duan Tingting said: "Then you haven't thought about it, now with your mother-in-law's help, why don't you go out and look for a job?" It doesn't matter what kind of work he does, he can find one to do first. ”

Oh, according to what Wang Yuwen said, it seems to be angry.

Under normal circumstances, if a woman is not conscious, she will have no chance to turn over in this life.

In fact, in today's society, equality between men and women is advocated.

So since the job opportunities and work treatment are equal, why seize this opportunity?

You don't want to think about it, you yourself are in this situation, flash marriage and pregnancy, you have a child immediately, you have not been to work since the child was born to this day, you have been eating and living at your husband's house all these years, even if you buy a facial cleanser, you have to reach out to your husband to ask for money, who can afford you like this kind of soft rice?

Empathy and thinking, a man reaches out to a woman in food, housing and transportation in a woman's house, can you afford this man?

Men eat soft rice, no, women should be forgiven for eating soft rice? That doesn't make sense.

"I thought about going out and looking for a job, I wanted to look for a job, but I couldn't find it. And now that the child is older, my mother-in-law is willing to help take care of me, and I am not so tired of it, so I don't want to go out and toss, which is fine. Ordinary happiness, how many women pursue such ordinary happiness all their lives, isn't it? ”

"But you're different, most women, still haven't lost themselves. When children can go to school, many women will also choose to return to the workplace. Can a woman find her presence at home without working? Anyway, based on my personal experience, I can't help it myself. I'm going crazy at home, I can't find the value of my existence. Even though I was working hard and doing just a very ordinary job, I could still feel the anger of my colleagues and the enthusiasm of my work. Even if the work pressure is high, I can handle it. I now feel that the state of work that I once couldn't finish is actually the happiest. ”

Duan Tingting sighed softly, "But now? What else can I do besides bring a baby? What is my presence at home? It was my daughter who called me 'Mommy' in a milky voice. What else is there? So, in two years or a year, when Beibei is a little older, I don't have to wait for her to go to kindergarten, I will go out to work when I am two years old, I have had enough of the days when I have nothing to do! ”

Wang Yuwen looked at Duan Tingting with a puzzled expression.

"Why? Your husband gives you all his salary, you don't have to worry about eating and drinking, and you will be given 10,000 yuan a month, even if you give a few thousand yuan for living and pocket money, you can still save a few thousand yuan a month, and in a year, it will be 20,000 or 30,000. ”

Wang Yuwen said that he was extremely envious, thinking about himself, and sighed softly.

"How good you are, I don't even know how much twenty or thirty thousand there is, and my private money doesn't exceed ten thousand. Just before I got married, when I was paid at work, I saved that money. But as soon as you get married, you always have to buy yourself a few better clothes and clothes, and you will spend it. Over the years, I haven't saved much money. Sometimes when my son gets sick, the little money that he can save for a few months is gone in an instant. Alas! ”

Duan Tingting said: "If the child is sick or something, you have to let your husband pay for these." When the child goes to the doctor, the money has to be spent. ”

Wang Yuwen nodded: "Yes, but he said, isn't my son mine?" Every time the child has something, he is not at home. Call him and he will let me pad it first and give it to me when he gets home. But when he goes home, where will he give the money? If I can afford to pay for my child's first treatment, why should I need him to pay for it? Anyway, he always had his reasons. ”

Duan Tingting raised her face slightly: "Then your husband is not responsible, you can't get used to him, just because you compromise every time, so he will eat you." ”

"I also know, but I'm soft-hearted, my son was born to me, can I leave my sick son alone?" Wang Yuwen sighed.

"You, you just post your own money every time, and since you have the money to post it, then post it. The next time you owe the debt, the account hangs on his head, and he asks him to give the money. Aren't men trying to save face? Let him go! Duan Tingting said.

Wang Yuwen looked at Duan Tingting: "Is this okay?" ”

Duan Tingting immediately spoke up: "Why not?" Absolutely. ”

Wang Yuwen said hesitantly: "However, the hospital can't be billed, and you have to pay the money before you can see a doctor." I can't make my son's illness serious because I don't pay the money, and then I, as a mother, feel uncomfortable. ”

Duan Tingting twisted her eyebrows and said: "If you can't make up your mind yourself, that kid's father will eat you." Men want to *, you look at yourself, you know what kind of person your husband is, not considerate enough, not gentle enough, but what about yourself? has been married for so long, and has not made any demands on him, and has not reformed him at all. You deserve it. ”