Chapter 1045: Being in the midst of blessings does not know blessings
Liu Qianzhou paused, she said: "Don't say it's your husband, let's talk about yourself, don't you usually play with your mobile phone at home?" ”
Duan Tingting said: "So, I don't think it's a big deal. Because everyone plays, he ignores me, and I ignore him. ”
Gotcha, common problem!
Liu Qianzhou said: "You also have a lot of complaints about your family Ji Hanliang, isn't it because of this?" ”
Duan Tingting paused, she could tell Liu Qianzhou about these things, but isn't there still Wang Yuwen here, and she doesn't want to talk about her family.
Everyone wants others to see that they are glamorous, to make others think that they are living a very happy life, and always hope that others will envy them. No one wants to publicize their dissatisfaction, because people want to save face, and for the sake of face, they can swallow their anger.
Some women, for the sake of face, can swallow their anger for a lifetime.
But Duan Tingting thought about what Wang Yuwen said just now, so a person who can talk big has already said so many things about herself first, so she will talk about it.
"Me, alas!" Duan Tingting sighed.
Wang Yuwen looked at Duan Tingting: "What's wrong?" Could it be that Ji Hanliang is not good to you? ”
"How dare he?" Duan Tingting raised her eyes, her eyes were fierce.
Wang Yuwen smiled: "I think so, your family Ji Hanliang is tall and handsome, it's not all for your sake, let you everywhere, I look at the state of your family, that's what I yearn for the most." ”
"Come on, I still envy you. At least you haven't been to school since you got married, your children are in kindergarten, and you don't need to go out to earn money to support your family. In our family, the children want to eat milk powder, and the family wants to eat and drink Lazar, and if they don't work to earn money, they can only drink the northwest wind. Where is it like you, even if your husband is not considerate enough to you, at least you won't worry about money at home. Your family is going to use a lot of money, are you worried about using it? Duan Tingting shook her head lightly and smiled bitterly.
It's really a difficult scripture for every family to read, and no one has an easier life than others.
Wang Yuwen said: "In our family, there are a lot of bad things, I envy you and your husband are talented and beautiful, and they are the right people." Even if your husband's family doesn't have much money, your family is not short of money to spend, at least you have to borrow it from someone before you spend it, right? ”
Duan Tingting nodded: "It's not to the extent of borrowing from others, but let's take the money all at once, we can't take it out, that is, we can just get by in life." ”
"Life is passable, how much more do you want? Your husband is tall and handsome, what more do you want? Life is also a well-off life, with a car and a house, and a rich life. You're still not satisfied? Wang Yuwen asked.
Duan Tingting thought about it, the wishes of ordinary people are probably ordinary and dull days like her.
But being in it is really a little unwilling.
But think about it, how many people's wish is to live like her, that is to say, how many people's lives are not as good as her, so she is also relaxed.
Wang Yuwen said: "I envy you, in addition to your husband, there is also your living state, you think, not all in-laws can be like your in-laws with good hearts and people, so easy to get along with in-laws, it is difficult to find." Before I got married, I always heard that when a woman got married, she not only looked at what the man was like, but also her mother-in-law. If your in-laws get along well, you can live a good life. Although I rarely live with my in-laws now, once I have a child, my in-laws who are easy to get along with can help take care of the child, right? ”
Duan Tingting nodded: "My in-laws don't have anything to say, they are really good." Ji Hanliang's family has one son for him, it stands to reason that the family hopes to have a boy, but he was born a girl, I thought that the in-laws in the family would give a face, but no. They were also excellent to Babe and treated me better than before. But if there is a good bite in the house, give it to me. ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "Then you are still complaining? Women are so dissatisfied. Now, I really don't have anything to complain about, I think I'm happy enough, I don't know what to do every day, happiness is repetitive, life is repetitive, happiness is a bit too much. ”
"Qianqian, I really don't like to listen to you. But what you're talking about is ironclad facts. Can't you give our best friends who are struggling on the poverty line a way to live? Duan Tingting sighed.
Liu Qianzhou shrugged: "I'm sorry, you guys talk, I'll listen, I'll watch the movie, don't interject." ”
She's really, kind of at a loss of what to do.
wasting time with her son every day, how much did she despise herself in the past? It's really a waste of time.
Duan Tingting said: "Qianqian, you don't know that I have convinced myself every time that I am doing well now, but every time I see you, I begin to regret it, regret why I didn't work hard and try to learn a little more." You see that the youth has suffered, and now is the time of harvest. I used to live too happily, but now it's hard. Every time I persuade myself to cherish the present, saying that my life is good enough, this is the ordinary happiness that many people want. But when I see you, I still can't control the heart in my heart! You said that we are all people in the same dormitory, when we were squeezing the cafeteria together, did I ever think that in ten years, the gap between us would be so big? Now that I am now, if I could go back and remind me at that time, do you think I will not be what I am today? ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at her and stopped talking.
Duan Tingting tugged at her sleeve: "What kind of eyes are you?" Are you disdainful? ”
Liu Qianzhou said helplessly: "It's not disdain, but it's that what you just said is impossible at all, baby." What do you wish for? Time Shuttle? ”
"Well, I knew that you could best pour cold water on me. Actually, you didn't ignore me at the beginning, when you were abroad, you told me several times to go out and do it with you, and persuaded me to make international calls for more than an hour several times. Said so sincerely, but in the end I didn't go myself. You gave me the opportunity, I didn't catch it, I really have no reason to complain about anything here? It is said that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. I'm a lazy person, and I didn't take the opportunity when it was put in front of me. Alas, who is to blame? Myself, my life, is this ordinary life! ”
Duan Tingting sighed infinitely, her starting point is much higher than the whole class, because she is a native of Yundu, and her parents are people with formal jobs.
But what about others?
Almost all of them are Liu Qianzhou, who has no background, the whole dormitory, Wang Yuwen and Jin Chendan plus Liu Qianzhou, are all outsiders, when school started, she didn't look down on the three people in the dormitory, the old hat, it's too earthy, the clothes they wear or something, really, I don't know what kind of fabric it is, and there is no style.
However, before the semester was over, Jin Chendan, who had changed the most, changed the most, just like his sister, wearing heavy makeup, dressing ahead of time, and pretending to be a rich girl, which was simply eye-catching.
But in general, Duan Tingting was the one who won at the starting line, and at that time, everyone didn't know how to grasp the relationship with boys, especially the rich.
Because a woman gets married, she is reborn for the second time, and if she catches it, you will succeed in counterattacking, and if you don't catch it, then the pinnacle of life is basically like waving goodbye. She is the first person in their dormitory to know these ultra-avant-garde truths, and the first to popularize science for everyone.
But in the end?
She married the most moneyless man!
Even Wang Yuwen's husband is richer than her husband, and her husband is tall and handsome, what is the use? Haven't you gotten tired of getting along for a long time?
Now if people want to make out at night, it depends on their mood, so the appearance of a man really doesn't matter.
Life without money, every day is entangled.
If you have money, you will be much more comfortable, where will there be so much grievance?
Isn't the conflict at home caused by lack of money? If she had money, her happiness index would go up.
"Tingting, you, don't be in the blessing and don't know the blessing, you are doing well now. Think about it, where do you spend that much money? I have a car, I have a house, I can't afford rice in my usual life, and I don't have money to buy vegetables? You know, you live now, you have all the money, that's fine, why bother thinking about so much? Isn't it? Wang Yuwen said.
Duan Tingting glanced at Wang Yuwen: "You, you're right, but sometimes, I think that if I can have more money, my life will not be so hard." Our family relationship is very harmonious, and all the conflicts are also because of lack of money. If you have money, there are contradictions in disobedience. ”
"Ji Hanliang is very good to you, and you don't spend money without money. You have money to spend, your husband is good to you, and your in-laws are good enough to you, aren't they? What else are you not satisfied with? You are like our family, you said that my husband is the boss of his own business, and he has some money, but he won't give it to you, so what is the use of marrying a husband who has money? Wang Yuwen said.
"How much does your husband give you a month?" Duan Tingting asked.
"Two thousand." Wang Yuwen said in a humble heart, but when she thought about it, Duan Tingting's life was not as good as she imagined, so what did it matter?
Duan Tingting was stunned: "It's not a lot to give you two thousand a month." ”
Wang Yuwen wanted to speak and stopped, and it was difficult to open his mouth when he spoke, for fear that he would be despised or sympathized with as soon as he opened his mouth.
Sometimes being sympathetic is worse than being despised, because being sympathized with means that you are not having a good time, and no one wants to tell others about their bad days, and they all want others to feel that they are doing well.
Wang Yuwen sighed with emotion: "Alas, there are a lot, where is a lot?" My son still drinks milk powder, although he is now eating staple food, but he is still drinking, and he wants a can of milk powder every month. In addition to buying milk powder for his son, he also has to include the family's living expenses, water, electricity and gas, all of which have to be included. ”
Duan Tingting was slightly surprised: "These are all included in it, so can it be opened?" ”
Wang Yuwen asked Duan Tingting: "Does your husband give you money?" Do you know how much your husband gives your in-laws a month's living expenses? ”
Duan Tingting said: "Two thousand yuan, I gave it." Because my husband's salary card was given to me, I take care of our family's money. But 2,000 yuan is just a living in our family, milk powder is not included in it, and water and electricity bills are not included. ”