Chapter 1044: Not satisfied
Duan Tingting is still breastfeeding, so she can't eat indiscriminately, let alone think that she has a good time, her daughter is still drinking milk, how can she ignore her daughter?
I have heard of a woman who is still breastfeeding drinking, and the child is drunk, because the breast milk is full of alcohol, and the child is drunk.
So if you want to eat something too spicy, will your breast milk become spicy?
Wang Yuwen said: "Actually, some time ago, I just couldn't think about it, and I felt that this marriage was too boring. It's better to go out and live alone, and feel that it's boring to live at home. ”
"You're boring, do you mean that you're too idle for a day, and you're bored, or what? You're having an easier day than we are, aren't you bored? If you're bored, go to work, there are more people, how good. Duan Tingting said.
Wang Yuwen said: "But what can I do when I go to work? ”
"Wow, Wang Yuwen, you are also a top student who graduated from Yundu University, you don't even know what you do? Whatever you do, with our academic qualifications, you won't be able to find a job. Duan Tingting said.
"But I haven't been to work in years, and I don't know what else to do now. In the past, when I graduated, I was able to do a little major-related ......"
"Wait? You said that when you graduated, you also did something related to your major? No way? How do I not know, I only know that you did it in a nail salon, and you and your husband didn't meet in a nail salon? Duan Tingting asked.
At the beginning, Jin Chendan told them about this.
said that Wang Yuwen was in love, and the object was a small boss, so I don't know what to do, but it was the object of Wang Yuwen's customer. The woman often went to the store, and Peng Zhifeng was a couple with Wang Yuwen's female customer at that time. Later, I went to the store more times, and I became familiar with Wang Yuwen after coming and going.
probably learned that Wang Yuwen was a high-achieving student who graduated from Yunnan University, and at that time, Wang Yuwen's economic conditions were not very good, and he didn't earn much, and the money was spent on buying clothes and cosmetics, and the food was harsh, so he was still thin during that time, tall and thin.
Peng Zhifeng feels that getting married is not like that, finding a woman who is taller than himself can not only satisfy his inner vanity, but also have better offspring genes. At that time, the object had too many requirements, spent a lot of money, and had a lot of requirements, which were not as reliable as Wan Wang Yuwen, so he hooked up with Wang Yuwen directly.
At that time, Wang Yuwen spent a year at Peng Zhifeng's house, and the matter between the two of them was completed, which can be regarded as a flash marriage.
Wang Yuwen was said by Duan Tingting, and her face was a little ugly.
But it still didn't show too obviously, "What, I think doing nail art design is also design." ”
Duan Tingting laughed, "If you think so, then I really can't refute it." ”
Wang Yuwen said: "The key is that my grades in school, just like that, I am lucky to be able to graduate, how can I still find a job in this major?" I didn't get good grades. ”
Duan Tingting didn't scold people anymore, she just felt that if you put yourself too low all of a sudden, you yourself will look down on yourself first, you say that others can still look down on you?
If you can't learn well, no matter how bad you are, you won't be able to be a nail girl, it's a shame for the school!
The difference in a dormitory, lo and behold, five years later, ten years later, the difference is already so obvious.
Wang Yuwen said: "During that time, I felt very stressed in my life, and I especially wanted to divorce. Maybe it's because I've been married for too long, and I don't have a seven-year itch, but I have a five-year itch first. During that time, I didn't want to spend it. I want to get divorced, I don't take care of my children at home, I don't do housework, I eat and sleep for a day, I sleep and eat, and after a few days of shopping, I don't think it's interesting, so I stay at home all the time. It lasted about a week, and at first my husband didn't believe that I was going to get a divorce. However, after that, I thought he would agree to come, but he didn't agree to the divorce, he didn't divorce, he didn't divorce, I said I would leave the house, I didn't want anything, only my son. But he was also willing, so the two of them quarreled and almost fought. My mother-in-law usually picks on me, but at that time she began to help me speak, and also helped me scold my husband. ”
Wang Yuwen smiled, gnawed on the duck's neck, and saw that she was so spicy that she was teary-eyed, and knew how delicious it was.
Duan Tingting raised her eyebrows: "Your mother-in-law is probably afraid that you will take Haohao away, so she is afraid that you will divorce." At this time, your mother-in-law still doesn't help you say it, then your mother-in-law is really unreasonable. Living with this kind of unreasonable mother-in-law, it is strange that I can live a good life, and I am aggrieved all day long. ”
Wang Yuwen laughed dryly: "Yes, I used to think that my mother-in-law deliberately instigated the relationship between me and my husband, she was not satisfied with what I did, and deliberately told my husband that I was not good, this is not good, and that is not good." However, when we got divorced and really put the divorce on the table, my mother-in-law began to help me again, saying that if she really got divorced, she would go back to her hometown and no longer recognize my husband as a son. When I said divorce, my mother-in-law persuaded me, all kinds of guarantees, all kinds of promises to be good to me in the future, help me take Haohao, help me clean up the housework or something. My husband mentioned divorce, and my mother-in-law scolded, Tingting, you have seen my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law scolded people, that is really unkind. ”
Duan Tingting nodded, "Yes, your mother-in-law, anyway, I am the most ruthless old man I have ever seen." It's also that you have a good temper, if I have a violent temper, I won't be able to live a clean life for three days. ”
Wang Yuwen said: "I used to think that it was all a family, and it was not wrong for my mother-in-law to pick on me. After all, when I got married, no one came to my mother's house, and nothing came out, but my husband gave my mother's family 20,000 yuan. So, I do have a loss. As soon as we got married, my husband didn't let him suffer any grievances, and directly lived in his own house, car, life, everything. I followed him, and I didn't suffer much. So after my mother-in-law came, I did things, and she picked on me, so I endured it and didn't respond. If I don't respond, she'll always get angry. But now, since the divorce has passed, she hasn't treated me like she used to, and she's fine. Didn't pile everything on me and make me do it. will also help me share, sometimes, for example, I can't be busy, she will also help me pick up Haohao, I am now my mother-in-law, I am still satisfied, that is, my husband, the attitude is a little better, but basically not at home. ”
"Isn't your husband in business? Isn't it normal that he's often away from home? Duan Tingting asked rhetorically.
"Yes, I can be considerate at first, but after all, we are women, and women are still very weak, and they want to be accompanied, don't they?" Wang Yuwen said.
She sighed, "I'm really much better off now than before, when my mother-in-law stirred up trouble and deliberately instigated my relationship with my husband." My husband also doesn't come home for three days and travels a lot. It was really hard at that time, and people were also very depressed. But now, my husband has given me more money, life is better, and my mother-in-law is also good to me. But I'm a little dissatisfied, and I feel different from what I wanted before. ”
Duan Tingting looked at Wang Yuwen, although she didn't like Wang Yuwen, Wang Yuwen talked about the most sensitive issues of women.
The younger I get, the less I need to be accompanied, and I feel that I can go to the world alone.
But as he gets older, he doesn't want to be alone, even if it's a stranger, and he is willing to stay with him for a while. Fear of loneliness, the bigger it is, not the more independent and self-reliant, but the more afraid of loneliness.
Duan Tingting said: "Yes, women, especially women like us who are over thirty years old this year, are really in a different state of mind. In the past, I always wanted to be alone for a while, and the man could throw as far as he could. But now, I don't want my husband to leave me at all, even if he sits next to him and plays with his mobile phone, but he is not allowed to leave for too long, afraid of being lonely. ”
"You're okay, Qianqian is okay, at least your husbands are also working in Yundu. I go to work during the day and come back at night, right? Even if there is an occasional party, or your husband occasionally goes out for a car, at least they come back in the evening. I'm different, if he doesn't come back, what can I do? It's not that he won't come back, but that he won't come back. When you go on a business trip, it's three to five days, and you basically spend three or five days a week outside, how many hours can you have at home? In the past, it was rare to be at home, and I was still eyebrow-raising, and I couldn't get used to it, so I quarreled when I got home. It's not noisy now, but I'd rather have a better one. At the very least, quarrels are also a form of communication, only more extreme. Wang Yuwen shook his head with a wry smile.
Duan Tingting looked at Wang Yuwen, she was nibbling on the spicy duck neck, so I don't know if she was too spicy or what, anyway, her eyes were red.
Duan Tingting twisted her eyebrows: "What state have you reached" Marriage is actually like this, there will be different situations at each stage, everyone is the same, and it is not only your family. Can you understand, but it's you, he doesn't tell you, and you can't tell him? ”
"I want to say, but he's been playing with his phone, what can I do?" Wang Yuwen shook his head: "I have given up." ”
Duan Tingting raised her eyes, "Give up?" ”
Wang Yuwen sighed: "Yes, I didn't expect him to be more considerate of me when I gave up telling him this, so I didn't mention it if I asked for more." I was sad and disappointed enough with him, and there was nothing more disappointing for me. ”
Duan Tingting raised her eyebrows: "It seems that the contradiction between you is much more serious than what you said." But men are the same, isn't it just playing with mobile phones when they go home? ”
"Really? Then you ask Qianqian, does Boss Song play with his mobile phone when he goes home? Wang Yuwen asked.
Liu Qianzhou raised her eyes, and Duan Tingting looked at her: "Your old Song, do you go home and play with your mobile phone?" ”
"Very little, it was originally an old man, and mobile phones were not so attractive to him." Liu Qianzhou said: "In addition to answering the phone, the mobile phone is rarely taken out. ”
Duan Tingting shrugged: "Yes, your family is different, you can't use your family to talk about things." ”