Chapter 316: The Old Man's Wisdom and Emotion

In the living room, quietly.

No one spoke, Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan, didn't even open their mouths to explain.

Don't say that it is the four of them, that is, the second generation of the entire Huang family gathered together, and when the old lady spoke, she would also remain silent, quietly waiting for the old lady to finish speaking, but she didn't dare, and there was no need to interrupt the old lady in the middle of her words to explain something. Because they all know that the old lady who has experienced too many ups and downs knows better than anyone else that even if she is eighty-three years old this year, she is not confused!

It's just that these old ladies have rarely participated in many things at home, and her children have grown into towering giant trees.

The old lady will not go and cause trouble for the children in the houses.

She's wise, and when she's old, she's old......

Too much or too wide will annoy the children, and it will also affect the children's thinking and decision-making.

Although over the years, she has seen many things in her eyes and is dissatisfied, but she will only use not to express her position to let the children know that she is not very satisfied, and will not directly intervene in the family affairs and foreign affairs of each house, and she will not even ask.

But this time, it's her favorite little granddaughter who has a boyfriend!

And the little granddaughter talked to her privately and begged for ......

Therefore, for the first time in so many years, the old lady's reason was overwhelmed by emotions, and she decided to come forward in person to check for the little granddaughter and see how the young man was.

And the impression that Wen Shuo left on the old lady ......

It's not a perfect score, but it's not low, more than 80 points.

After listening to Huang Qinfeng's story just now, I knew that Wen Shuo did not have the slightest timidity in front of the children of the old Huang family, but fought the basis of reason, which made these brothers who were more confident than one on weekdays all deflated, and the old lady's score for Wen Shuo in her heart was five points higher!

The old lady knows that although these children of the third generation are very competitive and excellent, they will not be worse than their fathers in time, but what they lack most is the life experience that is scorned and ignored, as well as their correct and perfect understanding of the family and the complexity of life - they have not experienced real winds and waves since they were young!

Each of them feels that they have experienced hardships in their own industry, and they can be regarded as thriving with their own abilities and efforts, but they don't realize it, or even if they do, they will deliberately not recognize it.

That is, when they seem to be experiencing fierce competition, experiencing the lessons of failure, and then regaining their strength and standing up again to become better, in this process, in fact, the power of the family and his surname have given him a strong boost, affecting everyone around him, superiors, subordinates, opponents......

However, this is unavoidable.

Without the help of the family, even if they are all excellent, they will be eliminated by the cruel reality, and most, if not everyone, will be eliminated.

There's also an element of luck in that.

What the family gives is this luck - good life!

If you don't give them the help of this luck, how can you let the huge family that has spread out its branches and leaves flourish for a hundred years?!

In private, the late Huang Lao, as well as the second generation of outstanding children who are in their heyday, feel sorry, so they try their best to make themselves behave well, in addition to selfishness, try to use it for the people and the public.

And what about the third generation?

Huang Shen and his older brothers and sisters, as well as the old lady, are most worried about the third generation of these children, although they are all excellent, but their selfishness is getting stronger and stronger, and their contribution to the public and the people will become less and less......

When there is no reverence, one's ultimate defeat is almost a foregone conclusion;

And when most of the pillars of a prosperous family lack reverence, the family is close to falling apart.

What is helpless is that no matter how good these children are, no matter how their elders teach, it is difficult to understand the deep meaning.

These worries flashed in the shrewd old lady's mind, she sighed softly, looked at Skullcap and Deng Xiaolu, and said lightly: "Young people have a lot of things, don't accompany me, go and busy with you......"

"Yes, Grandma. ”

The two quickly got up and left respectfully.

The old lady took a sip of ginseng tea and said, "You don't need to explain anything to me, I know in my heart that you two don't look down on Wen Shuo, there are three main reasons, first, Wen Shuo was born poor, and he is an orphan and widow's family, and the gap between the conditions of our family is too big, and it is inevitable that there will be some problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is right, however, Zhizhi and Wen Shuo are both smart and sensible, and they have the means, Wen Shuo's mother is also a reasonable person, at least, she is kind-hearted, and she knows how to love children, which is enough." ”

"Second, it is a problem of family background, the door is not the right one, Zhizhi is such an excellent child, if she marries Wen Shuo, it will not bring the greatest benefits to the family; in other words, if you marry into the right family, it will bring great benefits to the family power of both parties, as well as the win-win development of cooperation in the future. Therefore, if Zhizhi marries Wen Shuo, you will lose a lot, so you are unwilling!"

Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan finally couldn't help it, and opened their mouths to justify, but they were stopped by the old lady waving her hand.

The old lady snorted, and then said: "Third, Wen Shuo's son was born in the market, and he is cunning, scheming, and unpredictable, so you don't worry about marrying Zhizhi to such a person, and you are worried that she will suffer losses in the future......"

Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan nodded and sighed softly.

That's the point!

The old lady showed a touch of kindness in her expression, shook her head slightly, and said: "As a parent, the most difficult choice is the lifelong event of the marriage of their children. Marrying someone who is intelligent and capable, worried that Zhizhi will suffer losses in the future, marrying a mediocre and incompetent, or even a certain talent, but cannot be outstanding, you will dislike it, and feel that you are not worthy of Zhizhi......"

Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan glanced at each other, with bitter expressions - it is true.

"So I look at Wen Shuo just right!" The old lady showed a faint smile and said: "I can't see through this kid, I can't feel his vein, but one thing I can see, Zhizhi also told me in private, Wen Shuo's biggest advantage is to be reasonable, even if he is unscrupulous and wants to treat others with evil, he will try his best to make the other party do evil first, if the other party is not evil, he can't do it at all." To put it bluntly, this kid acts as a human being, and he has a good bottom line in his heart, and he will not do things that violate his conscience and morality!"

"Our Zhizhi is also an extremely smart child, as long as she can run the family upright in the future, Wen Shuo will be able to restrain himself from doing things that are sorry for Zhizhi even if he has any crooked thoughts, with his heart. The old lady said quite confidently: "I fancy this! As for his ability to make money to support his family, that is all secondary, as the son-in-law of our Huang family, can he still be financially tight?"

"What's more......" The old lady's eyes showed rare relief and like, and said: "He was born as a helpless poor boy, but in front of Zhizhi's group of brothers, he said such categorical words, and besides, he is not bragging, everything is true, he has the confidence to say that, with his character, he will indeed do that, this is not enough to reassure you to marry Zhizhi to him?"

"It's good. The old lady waved her hand, and angrily stopped her son and daughter-in-law again, preventing them from speaking, and said: "It's good to marry Wen Shuo, a person like him, if he dares to be sorry for our family Zhizhi, you don't need to worry about him if you want to...... That's one of the reasons why I decided to endorse him!"

"Think of Qinxiang, Qinxing, Qinyu, Qinmin...... I will be angry about their marital status, divorce of divorce, separation of separation!" The more the old lady spoke, the more angry she became, and she said with a straight face: "Of the dozen or so brothers and sisters, one-third of them have families that are not in harmony after marriage, how did they think about their marriages in the first place? There is nothing wrong with being in the right place, but there are too many issues of interest entangled in it, and then they will turn sour! The children have incompatible temperaments and feelings, and they have no emotional foundation, and in the end they will either divorce and the two families will become enemies, or they will be bound up for the interests of the two families, and they will have to get by.

"At the beginning, I just thought, you are all married and have children and daughters, you can't interfere in your children's affairs, you can't mess with your face, what is the result?" The old lady snorted: "This time, my youngest granddaughter, Zhizhi who hurts the most, her lifelong affairs can no longer be decided by you to mess around!"

"Although Zhizhi is a girl, she has a hard temperament and is assertive, don't force her!"

"If you want to say that you are right, Wen Shuo started from scratch and broke into such a big career in more than a year, what was it like when he graduated from college?" The old lady said this, slowed down a little, and after taking a few breaths, her expression regained her calmness, and said: "You two are also in business, which can be regarded as the right family, which is very good." ”

Huang Shen smiled bitterly and nodded.

Zhuo Huilan was still unwilling to embarrass herself: "Mom, these are actually not important, what we are most worried about is that Wen Shuo him, he may ...... There is also a terrible identity, this kind of person is unstable. ”

The old lady was silent.

Huang Shen glared at his wife fiercely and told her to stop talking.

After a while, the old lady said lightly: "Don't hide it, I know what you are worried about, after reading the information you have collected, I have guessed that Han Kehu is a capable person! If Wen Shuo is really his heir, it doesn't matter! Wen Shuo has his mother, and his heart is good and not evil; and his teacher Han Kehu must be the reason why he is cautious and cautious." If our guess is true, then we have to look at Wen Shuo even more!"

"Mom, you, do you know Han Kehu?"

Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan were full of surprise - this world is too small, right?

"I've met twice, and I've heard a few things about him. The old lady waved her hand and said, "The relevant news, hide it in your heart." ”

"Yes. ”

Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan knew that the old lady had made up her mind, and after some reprimands and persuasion by the old lady, they also felt ......

You can observe and observe again.