Chapter 273: A Matter of Principle
Let's talk about lifelong events, the first few apprentices are all fatherless and motherless orphans, he has raised their eldest for twenty years, and the youngest one has been fifteen years.
As a result, he, who is equivalent to a loving father, is also a master, how can he also have the right to decide the lifelong events of these apprentices, but a few of them are good, and when they mention lifelong events, they will show him to run.
I ran a few times in a row, and I offended several groups of people, not to mention, those two girls were still very ruthless, and every day they gave him this kind of poison or that kind of poison every day, and that Qu Xiangtian couldn't stand the toss of these apprentices anymore, so they didn't give them a few more to find a daughter-in-law or a husband.
Now, Qu Xiangtian has no way to do lifelong events for the first few apprentices in front of him, and this time he naturally wants to hit Fang Dongqiao with his idea.
It's just that Fang Dongqiao is not a well-behaved apprentice, obviously like the previous apprentices, he doesn't have the slightest intention of respecting the teacher. This song is towards the sky, and Fang Dongqiao's eyes are so contemptuous that he almost spits out a mouthful of blood in his heart.
He really regretted not being at the beginning, why did he have to accept so many unconscious apprentices, but now that the apprentices have accepted it, he has no place to regret it.
As soon as this Fang Dongqiao saw Qu Xiangtian's expression, what else did she not understand, this master dared to regret accepting these unwell-behaved apprentices again.
So, she didn't prevent the master from sighing at this time, stood up, said to Qu Xiangtian that she had something to go back, and then Shi Shiran left Zhuangzi with the two maids of hibiscus and Qingluo, leaving Qu Xiangtian there, sighing for a long time, and saying that a few apprentices have no conscience, and he regrets not teaching several apprentices well.
Of course, Qu Xiangtian's emotion, this regret, Fang Dongqiao couldn't hear it at all, she was sitting in the carriage at the moment, closing her eyes and recuperating, and slowly walked back to the mansion along the way.
Before and after arriving at the gate of the mansion, Fang Dongqiao got out of the carriage and was about to return to the Bamboo Lotus Courtyard with Hibiscus and Qingluo, but the eldest girl Hongxing beside his mother Yun came over and saluted Fang Dongqiao.
"Fifth Miss, Madame is waiting for Miss to come over in the main hall at this time, saying that she has something to talk to Miss about."
Fang Dongqiao thought about the troubles of the past few days, so he couldn't help but ask Hongxing more.
"Is there another matchmaker coming to the door today?"
"Not really." Hongxing shook her head, and then said: "But after breakfast, Prince Zhong and Princess Zhong came to our mansion and talked with Madame in the room for a while. ”
As soon as Fang Dongqiao heard that Gong Tianyu's mother had come to Fang Mansion, he was a little uncertain in his heart. What is the purpose of this loyal prince and princess?
Fang Dongqiao frowned and guessed all kinds of possibilities, and followed Hongxing to lead the way, and went to the main hall together.
There, the Yun clan was sitting on the edge of the table, looking at his expression, as if he was a little hesitant, and when he saw Fang Dongqiao coming in, he hurriedly beckoned Fang Dongqiao over.
Fang Dongqiao didn't understand what his mother was embarrassed about, so he asked.
"Mother, it looks like you have something on your mind, but what happened?"
Yun glanced at Fang Dongqiao, opened his mouth and wanted to say it, but he felt that it was not good to open his mouth, so his lips were closed one by one, and he didn't say it in the end.
Seeing the Yun family's appearance, Fang Dongqiao couldn't help but ask: "Mother, my daughter heard that Prince Zhong and Princess Zhong have come to the mansion this time, but did Prince Zhong embarrass her mother in something?" ”
"No, no, nothing." Yun shook his head and said.
"What is the reason for that? Mothers might as well speak up to their daughters. ”
Seeing the Yun Clan's hesitant appearance, Fang Dongqiao's heart became a little uneasy.
The Yun clan heard Fang Dongqiao say this, as if he had made some decision, and finally told Fang Dongqiao about it.
"Jo'er, this is the case. Originally, my mother promised Qiao'er that she would find Qiao'er a simple, good-charactered, and life-friendly family, just like your brother-in-law, but at this time, Prince Zhong came to the door in person, and she wanted to be in-laws with our family and our family. ”
The Yun family didn't expect that Prince Zhong would come to the door like this to mention the relationship between the two children, so she also hesitated.
This Fang Dongqiao heard that Prince Zhong and Princess Zhong came today to marry Gong Tianyu, this news made Fang Dongqiao stunned on the spot, she couldn't have imagined that the little Zhengtai in the past would really talk to her one day?!
Mother Yun asked Fang Dongqiao to go back and think about this matter, she said, after all, this is about the happiness of her own life, and she, as a mother, can't directly give her a decision, so she finally decided to hand over this matter to Fang Dongqiao to deal with by herself, hoping that Fang Dongqiao can think it through, and then give her an answer as soon as possible.
Fang Dongqiao returned to the Bamboo Lotus Courtyard with the question given by the Yun family, this night, she naturally slept unsteadily, tossing and turning, and finally sighed lightly, put on her coat and got up, gently pushed open the door, looked up at the bright moon in the sky, and there was a faint autumn sorrow between her eyebrows.
Mother Yun's ability to discuss this matter with her today, and let her decide this matter by herself, was enough to move her. You must know that in this world, it is the words of the parents who are destined to match, as long as the parents decide on the lifelong events of their children, then there is no right for the children to refute at all.
Otherwise, the children will definitely be branded with a great name of unfilial piety, and it will be difficult for men to perform in the way of official careers, and women may be sent to the Buddhist hall, accompanied by the ancient Buddha for a lifetime or expelled from the family, pointed out by the world, and not tolerated by the world.
And this point, for the men of this era is not a big problem, and the set of the woman to marry, if there is not a liking, you can have three wives and four concubines, as long as you have the ability and financial resources, as long as the career is prosperous, you can naturally nephrite warm fragrance, countless beauties in the arms, no need to care about the woman he marries is his beloved woman.
However, for women, it is the saddest thing, marriage is completely autonomous, it all depends on whether the parents' eyes are accurate or whether the parents really love their daughter, otherwise, it is normal to send their daughters out as marriage chess pieces for the sake of interests. And once she becomes a woman who is a chess piece of marriage or marries an unsuccessful child, then the woman's life will be ruined.
Although there are also women who marry after divorce or divorce, but after all, it is a minority, and few are few, most of the women choose to forbear, endure the husband's three wives and four concubines after marriage, hug left and right, and endure the humiliation of the husband and the concubine joining forces, just to retain the status and status of the wife, and only to ensure the identity of the son or daughter for the children born, so they endure everything.
And what about her, can she guarantee that a person of Gong Tianyu's status will be the only one after marriage?
Even if she is the only one now, what about the future? In the previous life, there were extramarital affairs under the system of marriage law to protect monogamy, and things like raising a junior Anshun happened, not to mention that in this era, men can legally have many women, can have three wives and four concubines, and can have countless maids, as long as they have financial resources and power, they can have as many women as they want, especially the status of Gong Tianyu, the dignified prince, with a character like him, how can there be only one wife for her in the future?
Even if Gong Tianyu had the idea of guarding her alone, then what about Prince Zhong and the princess, how could they allow their son to have only one wife? This is impossible, even if the loyal prince who loves his wife very much in the eyes of the world, in addition to the princess, although he does not have a side concubine or concubine to correspond to the princess, but he still has a concubine.
It doesn't matter if the emperor sent it, or if the court officials sent it, Gong Ling also accepted it.
Because for men in this era, especially men with status and status, if a man has only one woman in the family, he will be ridiculed by outsiders, because there is only one woman who is usually only from poor families, and the slightly wealthy common people will have concubines and the like, not to mention the big families? Which man doesn't have three wives and four concubines?
In other words, this Gong Ling is already respectful enough to love the princess Rong Wanshu, so he did not allow any other woman to offend Rong Wanshu's status, and no concubine dared to threaten Rong Wanshu's status, although the so-called concubines have a very low status, although they are basically an ornament, but even so, there are still two concubines in Prince Zhong's mansion, which fully shows that in a place like Prince Zhong's mansion, there will never be only one wife for future generations, and what they pay attention to is a continuous descendant. Spread out so that the family can flourish and continue to grow from generation to generation.
In this case, can she still agree to this family business? Thinking about it, Prince Zhong and Princess Zhong are also extremely reluctant for a woman of her status to become the future princess of her Prince Zhong's mansion, just because of Gong Tianyu's insistence, because of the princess who feels so sorry for her son, so she reluctantly came to the door to discuss this marriage.
In this way, it was a reluctant marriage, but if she had to show up to treat the sick after her Fang Dongqiao got married, and hang the pot to help the world, I am afraid it would make Prince Zhong even more dissatisfied.
This point of dissatisfaction, and then if they let Gong Tianyu take a concubine in the future, with her temperament, willing?
Is Ken like the women of this era, watching her husband being shared by other women?
At this point, I'm afraid she Fang Dongqiao will never be able to do it.
I'm afraid that's the most critical point, she can't tolerate this kind of thing happening. She has a deep-rooted monogamous idea in her previous life, even if she adapts to this era in other ways and lives in the system of this era, but at this point, her idea of a lifetime and a couple will not change in the slightest.