Hey, I'm scared to death, what are you thinking Xiao Ming. You said what to do if you like someone who is not your ideal, you have someone you like, no, a friend asked me this question, I didn't know how to answer at the time, it was me and I didn't know what to do. I saw such a story in a book, and I'll tell you about it, you say.

One day, Plato asked Socrates: What is love?

Socrates said, "I ask you to go through this paddy field and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat, but there is a rule: you can't go back, and you can only pick it once."

So Plato did it. After a long time, he came back empty-handed.

Socrates asked him how he had come back empty-handed.

Plato said: When I walked in the field, I saw a few ears of wheat that were very large and splendid, but I always thought that there might be bigger and better ones ahead, so I did not pick them; However, as I continued walking, I always felt that the ears of wheat I saw were not as good as those I had seen before, so I didn't pick anything in the end...

Socrates said meaningfully: This is love.

Another day, Plato asked Socrates: What is marriage?

Socrates said, "I ask you to go through this forest and cut down the thickest and strongest tree so that you can make a Christmas tree in your house, but there is one rule: you can't go back, and you can only cut it down once."

So Plato did it. After a long time, he returned with a tree that was not the tallest and thickest, but it was not too bad.

Socrates asked him why he had come back with only such a tree.

Plato said: When I went through the woods, I saw several very good trees, and this time, I learned the lesson of the last time I picked the ears of wheat, and when I saw that this tree was not bad, I chose it, and I was afraid that if I did not choose it, I would miss the opportunity to cut it down again and go home empty-handed, even though it was not the best one I had ever met.

At this time, Socrates said meaningfully: This is marriage.

On another occasion, Plato asked Socrates: What is happiness?

Socrates said: I ask you to go through this field and pick one of the most beautiful flowers, but there is one rule: you cannot go back, and you can only pick it once.

So Plato did it. After a long time, he came back with a more beautiful flower.

Socrates asked him: This is the most beautiful flower?

Plato said: When I went through the field, I saw this beautiful flower, and I plucked it, and decided that it was the most beautiful, and, when I saw many beautiful flowers later, I still held fast to my belief in the most beautiful flower. So I picked the most beautiful flowers.

At this time, Socrates said meaningfully: This is happiness.

Plato asked his teacher Socrates again one day what an affair was

Socrates told him to go to the woods once

It is possible to walk back and forth

Pick the most beautiful flower on the way

Plato went out again with confidence

Two hours later, he energetically brought back a brightly colored but slightly faded flower,

Socrates asked him, "Is this the best flower?" ”

Plato replied to the teacher:

"I searched for two hours and found that it was the most beautiful flower, but on the way back from picking it, it gradually withered"

At this time, Socrates told him:

"That's an affair"

Another day I asked the teacher Socrates what life is

Socrates told him to go to the woods once

It is possible to walk back and forth

Pick the most beautiful flower on the way

Plato had the lessons of the past

and went out with confidence

After three days and three nights, he did not return.

Socrates went into the woods to look for him, and finally found Plato encamped in the woods.

Socrates asked him, "Have you found the most beautiful flower?" ”

Plato pointed to a flower next to him and said, "Is this the most beautiful flower?" ”

Socrates asked, "Why not take it out?" ”

Plato replied to the teacher:

"If I take it off, it will wither immediately. Even if I don't pick it, it will wither sooner or later. So I dwelt near it while it was still in bloom. When it withers, find the next one. This is the second most beautiful flower I have found. ”

At this time, Socrates told him:

"You already know the true meaning of life"

Look at your usual heartlessness, what you say feels really like a thing, that's because you don't know me, you're leaving, it's almost 2 o'clock, you're going to be late, wait for me, go so fast.