I'm ashamed to say that I have the ability to pick up girls, but I can't use it.

Seeing that many bachelors can't find a partner, I am very anxious, but I can't do it, so I hereby write this article to help those who can't flirt with their sisters.

Are you still sticking to the rules and being an honest person, waiting for the legendary true love to take the initiative to come to the door. In this era, don't make excuses for being lazy, the only reason why you can't take your sister is because you are too lazy to pay.

This kind of dedication does not refer to money, but skill and effort.

You will find that honest people can't find objects at all, it may be that things are scarce and expensive, there are too many honest people, but bad boys, it is better to deceive girls.

I know my sister better, so I have to tell you that honest people are really not easy to find a girlfriend, because they are too honest, they can't create any passion and romance at all, and feelings are things that will become weaker and weaker, and they need passion and romance to maintain, otherwise sooner or later they will become a hidden danger of emotional splitting.

Of course, those loves that have been transformed into family affection are not included in the list.

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Wouldn't it be bad if there is less sincerity and more purpose? The answer is no!

Because the girls still eat this set.

It can be said that the flirting routine is the key to opening the relationship barrier faster, but there is a difference between sincerity and honesty.

For example, even if you just met on a blind date, I found out that you were a photo fraud, because I looked much better than the photo. If you were a girl, you wouldn't be happy instantly.

Everything must be done with the heart to receive the effect you want.

Otherwise, you can't even move yourself, how can you move others.

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Men are the same, they always avoid women who are not very satisfied, but if they are facing their ideal object and trying to find a way to chase girls, then how to chase girls, the old saying is good: know each other and know yourself, you will not be defeated in a hundred battles; you don't know each other and know yourself, you will lose and lose, you don't know you and you don't know yourself, you will die in every battle, but you also pay attention to the method of chasing girls, and you know how to chase girls in order to be invincible and invincible. Women are sensual creatures, suspicious, curious, and always curious when faced with men who pay attention to themselves, which gives men a chance.

And beauties are no different from other girls, they will have a crush and get hurt for a person. If you treat a woman as an ordinary girl, believing that she is no different from other girls, then she will become an ordinary girl in front of you. In fact, there are many skills for chasing girls, and it is impossible for all of the cheats to be suitable for any scene, and you need your experience to guide you. The more experienced, the more natural it is. When you look at more and more cheats for chasing girls, you will think about what you have violated, what kind of skills to use to chase girls, but you don't dare to let go and stop the charm of a man When you think about what skills to use to attract girls, you are actually chasing girls in the same way. With the guidance of your experience, you can do whatever you want and let it go.

In fact, we all know that it is not correct to push yourself to have no money, no background and no appearance if you can't get a sister, after all, for girls, finding a satisfactory boyfriend is not only limited to appearance and family background, and it is not a matter of talent to put the sister, and it is still necessary for boys to work hard to get to the sister quickly, such as learning the following skills, and interacting with girls to have a good relationship with each other is the key to the sister.

In fact, choice is more important than hard work, so if you want to be a sister quickly, it is more important to choose the object than to work a hundred times hard in front of this favorite object. If you're not stupid, you can definitely feel whether a girl has a good impression of you, after all, for a girl as an emotional animal, emotions can't be hidden. So when a girl is a little unnatural in the process of contacting you, she often blushes, and the usual tough guy becomes a soft and cute girl in front of you, and she asks a lot about your voice, then the other party must be interesting to you.

Even if she's a girl who is a little interesting or not disgusted with you, she may not take the initiative to pursue you. As a man, it is necessary to take the initiative, especially if you haven't had a lot of contact with her, be sure to be thick-skinned, no matter what kind of pick-up is fine. In the process of taking the girl, you can also take your cheekiness as a sign of self-confidence, as long as people are confident, the girl will naturally be infected by you.

Hesitation has been the prerogative of women since ancient times, not to mention that you are a Sagittarius and have difficulty in choosing. But no girl will like a man who has no assertiveness and hesitation about anything, for example, when you want to take the initiative and finally decide to ask her out, don't ask this and that, where are we going today, what are we going to do next, etc., you must make a decision immediately, and directly express your attitude to the girl, "Let's go, let's go to dinner", "Let's go, let's go to the movies", the effect is much stronger than your grinding and chirping analysis This is not good, that is not good.

If you are a man, praise the other person for their unique hairstyle and clothing, and if you are a woman, praise the other person's knowledge, skills, or the extraordinary taste of the brand-name lighter, tie, etc

Ask open-ended questions that are easier to answer. Open-ended questions are questions that the other person cannot answer with yes or no, right or no. Easier to answer are those that allow people to answer something without touching on something too private.

Remember, don't be too flattering, comment on body looks or something, girls are not stupid, and even have a high IQ, the consequence of telling lies is that she will also show you off.

Showing grievances or dissatisfaction with anything, as well as speaking ill of others or criticizing others.

Talk about "Do you like me?" "I like you a lot" (It's just the first date, and I don't know the other person's mind very well, if you rashly mention this kind of problem, it will shock the other party and be overwhelmed, and there may not be a second date.)

Actually, it's good to talk about each other's siblings. Let's talk about her parents, it's a bit inappropriate, in case her parents are separated or divorced, it will cause her unhappiness. The usual topic of conversation is about siblings. Talking about siblings can deepen understanding and liven up the atmosphere. And you want to know her family, show that you like her, so that it is easy to win her trust.

Food is always the most fatal flaw of girls,

Can't say no to good food, just as she can't say no to makeup before going out. Favorite food. If you're dating at a restaurant or bar, it's a pleasant topic to talk about your favorite delicacy. Talking about food, you will not only get to know her tastes and find common ground, but you will never have to worry about running out of topics again. If she has a special skill, she will not lose the opportunity to praise it, and then ask her, "I am drooling when I hear it, let me feast on it one day." "Even if she knows you're complimenting her, she's useful. If you have a hand too, don't forget to invite her to taste your craft.

Don't mention her old love, unless you're good enough to be at ease, that's the lead of *. On a first date, don't ask about her old love. If she doesn't bring up such a topic, you can't open your mouth rashly. She may still be in love with him, or she may still be in the pain of falling out of love. When you meet for the first time, don't think that talking about her past lovers, enlightening her, and comforting her will win favor, which is often counterproductive. If you want to please her, don't let her reminisce about the past and talk about happy things. Remember, your purpose is to win her, not to wipe her tears.

The above is okay to talk about, and the following is to try not to talk about it or even go to the taboo.

Don't talk to women about each other's personal problems, like money, work, family, etc., because in the eyes of any woman, money is always not enough, and the more you talk, the more unhappy you are.

Don't smoke and drink, unless you're the kind of person who can't refuse at all, it's a big detractment, girls hate men drinking, especially drunk. Of course, you can still drink a little bit when the two of you are alone. There is also smoking, it is best not to smoke in front of girls, there are not many women who encourage and support men to smoke, many people don't like this taste, this is a suggestion, in order to attract, and your own health to quit smoking, even if you can't quit, you should not smoke during the period of dating.

Moreover, when dating a woman, we only need to consider whether our matter is of high value and whether it can attract her or how we can induce her to invest, rather than being a friend of women.

Never talk to her about your ex-girlfriend. Don't complain about your ex-girlfriend, especially don't say that she dumped you, she cheated on you, she loves to lose her temper, etc. Because, she will feel that you can't forget the past, and even worry that you will cheat in the future.

If you're not a funny person, don't pretend to be humorous, because women are able to sense your disguise. You just have to keep smiling and being friendly. But it is worth noting that your smile should be natural, otherwise your smile will be ugly, and the woman will think that you don't like her and are just reluctant. You can imagine the results.

The most taboo is not confident and stingy enough, there is no broad-mindedness and sense of humor, you must have a cheerful personality!

From a psychological point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better.Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boy they like.,Except for the kind of brave girl who really likes it too much or has more personality.So,If you like a girl very much,And think she is also a little interesting to you.Then take the initiative,Don't engage in tug-of-war with her,You are uncomfortable,Maybe the person you like is also painful.

When any girl is chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but with a little trepidation, she has an unstoppable ambivalence about this boy who broke into her peaceful life, she didn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, she's afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away.

When dating, don't always stare at the girl's face, the girl will be shy, the atmosphere will be very awkward, and don't follow my cousin's example, in order to show the intimacy, say to the girl: You really look like my mother.

In an instant, he was dropped by Paz.