【Essay】Beware of teasing

Mid-Autumn Festival, reunion night. Every family gathers around a table to celebrate the holiday season and celebrate the good life together. The young men pushed each other and toasted each other, deepening the bond. Everything is a happy time.

But the children at the table were at a loss, and they looked blankly at the exchange of courtesies between adults, not knowing why. Then the elders of the family noticed it, and in order to "amuse" them and liven up the atmosphere, they began to do something that made all the mothers feel very annoyed--- feeding wine.

01

In my hometown, every time there is a New Year's holiday, there are some elderly people who pour wine to their children at the dinner table, and then the children drink, they will laugh heartily, saying that this child is promising, can drink, and will do great things in the future.

I don't know what they think, how can drinking have something to do with having a good time, a few children who are six or seven years old, or even four or five years old, are obviously disgusted and extremely reluctant, why can't those old people see it?

No, it's not that they can't see it, but in their eyes, the child's opinion is not a matter at all!

02

There is a treasure mother who once shared an experience of hers.

At a certain banquet, the father-in-law of the family insisted on feeding his child wine, and regardless of whether the child agreed or not, he raised the wine glass and poured it into the child's mouth, and the child was about to cry, and all the wine poured into it vomited out, looking like a puppy in the water.

Bao's mother has some opinions about her father-in-law on weekdays, and she has been backlogged for a long time, but now she finally can't help it, and she is completely ignited by this incident. She raised her hand and slapped her father-in-law's wine glass, and the father-in-law drank to his heart's content, and the wine glass fell to the ground and shattered into slag. His old face, which was red from drinking, couldn't hang up and had a big fight with his mother. The two rarely interacted with each other since.

Although this approach is excessive, we still have to praise this mother who dares to have a seizure.

03

The old man will never understand the mind of the children. They think that children will never be sensible and don't understand anything, and in their eyes, children are precious objects, like purple clay pots and jade bracelets, and they can play with them at any time.

However, what you should know is that the purple clay pot and jade bracelet will be broken if you are not careful, and the child will lose his young life if he is not careful!

Not long ago, a piece of news came into view.

"Teasing children to drink, two children die and dementia!"

And this is not sensational, it is a fact.

Due to the weakness of the child, drinking alcohol can easily lead to diarrhea and vomiting, which is still mild, and the severe dementia death.

Even if there are no acute symptoms, there are chronic hazards. For example, neurological development is blocked, thinking is slow, liver cirrhosis gradually evolves, chronic gastritis, indigestion, vitamin deficiency and other diseases.

And the old people don't know at all, and even if they hear about it, they will say "just drink a little, it's okay".

A little poison is poison! A little wine is also a drink!

Children are not "treasures", children are treasures.

As a parent, you should not just ask your child how they feel, but ask more about their behavior and observe the changes in their faces. If something happens, seek medical attention immediately. Sometimes, you can really avoid a lot of bad results.

04

In 2015, the National Bureau of Statistics released data that there were 270 million children in China, and 86% of them were teased by adults.

The culture of "teasing" is simply that women in the new era bind their feet and men wear braids.

We are all small people, and we can't make everyone stop this kind of incident, but we can still do our part to stop this kind of behavior around us.

Bao Ma may not be able to interfere with men's actions because of her weak body, but she can still popularize the harm of "teasing alcohol", at least explain to them that drinking alcohol to children has a great impact on children's bodies.

Little by little, the world will become a better place and a happier place.

I hope that all mothers will have a family reunion in this Mid-Autumn Festival, and the babies will be happy and healthy.