Essay: Poor children must be in charge of the house early

I was born in a rural area, and I was a poor family, and since I was a child, I heard the most common phrase that "children from poor families are in charge of the family at an early age".

When I was in the second grade of elementary school, everyone was only seven or eight years old. A girl in the class with good grades dropped out of school because her family was poor and there was a shortage of people to work in the fields, so she became an authentic farmer.

It's just one of those drop-out buddies that I've seen with my own eyes, and it's happening more often in remote areas.

While the children of wealthy families are outside the house with friends and playing, the poor children have to work in the fields, but they have to cook and do laundry at home.

News like "six-year-old kids, cooking on a fire at home, sweeping the floor and washing the dishes" and other similar news are not uncommon, and then the newspapers will praise and praise them. It seems that they should and reasonably do so much to suffer.

What makes me even more frightening is that the public likes to hear about it, and even the age party has appeared. Six, five, four...... The younger you are, the happier the reporters are and the more vocabulous the public becomes.

"The child is an angel?" No, the child is talking about it.

In the most innocent and innocent time, they can't run and chase in the fields like everyone else, and they can't snuggle up in their parents' arms like chickens and puppies.

Life is not as good as a beast.

I remember reading a story before. In the arid areas of the west, in order to beg for water, the cow ran to stop the water transport team, and was whipped several times and still did not go away, but looked at the water truck, and the staff was helpless, so they gave a basin of water. But the cow whined at a mound, and a calf staggered out from behind the mound and came to the cow to grunt.

Cows know how to be good to their children, but many adults treat their children as animals.

Why should poor children experience hardships in their early childhood? Why can't they sleep lazy, shouldn't play, can't even complain, and still be optimistic and cheerful, laughing at suffering?

Gambling king Stanley Ho's third son, He Youjun, is enviable, graduated from MIT, won the "World Mathematics Test" invitational award twice, and shined in variety shows such as "The Strongest Brain" and "One Stop to the End", and the audience couldn't help but sigh that there are such excellent people in the world, who are simply the pride of the sky.

But you must know that he has received a good education since he was a child, and he has hired the best tutors and attended the best schools. There is a maid and nanny at home, and all he has to do is one thing, study and become an elite.

Did he endure hardships? His childhood was beautiful and carefree, and growing up in such a sunny and positive environment, can he not become an excellent person?

If the gambling king's family is too exaggerated, then what about the ordinary working class now, what about their children? Isn't it also that they are happy and healthy in their childhood, without contact with the cruelty of the adult world, and not contaminated with the gloomy atmosphere of society.

In Stephen Chow's movie "Yangtze River No. 7", Xing Ye and his son live in the worst house, and he desperately moves bricks at the construction site. But he went to the best aristocratic school for his son, played with the child, and mingled.

In the film, there is a plot that I am extremely impressed. Xing Ye and Xu Jiao's son played by Xu Jiao fought cockroaches together. As soon as Xing Ye slapped the table, a group of fat cockroaches scattered and fled, and Xing Ye and Xu Jiao slapped the cockroaches to death one by one.

"Hahaha!" The two of them laughed wildly together, in the world, father and son, kiss and love, education and education are nothing more than this.

When her son Xu Jiao was asked by the teacher at school, "What is your ideal?" Xu Jiao replied according to her father Xingye's words: "Be a kind poor person." ”

Yes, the poor cannot be moved. What more can you ask a poor child to do?

To this day, I still hear the voice of my childhood a lot. "You are poor, so you have to bear hardships and stand hard work!" "You are poor, so you have to work hard!" "You are poor, so you have to swallow your anger!" "You are poor, so you have to be diligent and thrifty!"......

Every time you eat a piece of meat, you have to be said to cry poor, pretend to be poor, and cheat sympathy. Really, it's so hard to be a poor child!

Society's requirements for the moral standards and human qualities of poor children are too high, and they always forcibly impose on their children what they can't do, and then boast a few words and publicize it everywhere, but the hardships that they shouldn't bear have become a matter of course.

When I was a kid, I really wanted to say, "I'm still a kid!" but I grew up before I could say it.

"No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, and no matter how hard you are, you can't be miserable for children. It is not an empty slogan, but the last shelter of the adult world against innocent children.

I hope that those bad things will not happen again, and I believe that the children in the future can enjoy their childhood happily, and everything will become happy and complete in the future.