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Ronaldo's life has been very bad recently, and he is overwhelmed with negative news, some questioning his ability, and some criticizing his character, which is in stark contrast to the "wave of praise" during the previous World Cup.

"The crowd is full of gold, and the bones are destroyed. "Cristiano Ronaldo is in this situation, and in the final analysis, he should not leave Real Madrid.

This summer, a transfer news detonated the nerves of fans around the world like a nuclear bomb, and Ronaldo, one of the peerless double prides, left Real Madrid to join Juventus.

Just as everyone was waiting to watch Ronaldo's various miraculous goals with high expectations, he did not score a goal for a long time at Juventus, while Messi in the same gear was still strong and shining. Cristiano Ronaldo is dwarfed, and the aura of the superstar can't help but dim a lot.

And the game a few days ago was a critical blow to all Ronaldo fans, and Ronaldo was sent off in the half.

Many fans began to question, is Ronaldo really blowing it out?

I can only say that he should not leave Real Madrid, and Ronaldo's advantages can only be brought into full play at Real Madrid.

But at the beginning, he left his old club that raised him because he asked for a salary increase.

He made a common mistake that everyone makes, only seeing small interests in his eyes and ignoring those who have great kindness to him.

02

I read an article about a girl who ran away from home, but her wallet was stolen and she was hungry but couldn't afford to eat. When the aunt who opened the noodle restaurant saw her like this, she made her a bowl of noodles for free. The little girl was grateful, crying and saying that she had never met someone so good to her in her life. The aunt said to her earnestly: "Your parents raised you so big, are they treating you better than my bowl of noodles?" The girl then went home.

People often say, "Rise to the end, fight the enemy." And the real situation is often more surprising, "Ascend Mi Qiu, Dou Mien." ”

That's true of Cristiano Ronaldo, and even more so of us.

03

In almost all romance dramas, there will be such a bridge. The heroine is a college student from a small mountain village, with a poor family and a hard life. Suddenly an accident begins, and the heroine's parents have a car accident, and at this time, a second male often comes out to bear the high medical expenses for the heroine and save the heroine's parents. But the male protagonist just shook the heroine's hand and said a few words such as "It's going to be fine, everything will be fine." Something like that.

Guess whom, who will the heroine marry? not the male number two who pays a lot for her, but the male protagonist who comforts her a few words. The spare tire is roughly like this.

We will always be extremely sympathetic to the unlucky male number two, who is obviously rich and handsome, and so infatuated and single-minded, but he just can't get the favor of the silly white sweet heroine. Just like the one in "Big Fish and Begonia", many viewers are very sorry.

There is a cloud in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Zhi, Luo Tong Biography": "Today, we are all grateful to Dai Yi and have the heart to repay." ”

However, the so-called desire for retribution is just thinking about it, just talking.

We have never really achieved "the grace of the spring, when the waterfall and the river and the sea to repay", all we can do is "the grace of the dripping water, when the spring reciprocates".

04

This can't help but tell us the truth of interpersonal communication and settling down: small favors and small favors are much better than great kindnesses.

When a person is on the verge of despair, he will surely shout in his heart: "God, Buddha, gods save me!" So what do you do to God? Just endlessly begging God to give you more, without giving God anything back.

There is a "fairness theory" in psychology. People measure their efforts and rewards in various situations, and if they feel that they have been rewarded with a matching reward, they feel fair, and vice versa.

Parents are always selfless and dedicated to their children, but they make their children feel that this is what they deserve, and their children accept it calmly. The same is true between lovers, if one partner gives too much to the other, the other will get used to it, and he will have a certain illusion that everything you do is what he deserves, and he will not feel any guilt, which is why love is often said to be unfair.

I have to admit the fact that "one piece of sugar is worth a million." ”

04

The old lady in England who has been donating to charity is still being asked for money even when she is sick, the hero who risked her life to save the person who fell into the water woke up and left, and the story of the farmer and the snake, Mr. Dongguo and the wolf is more ......

"The small rod is accepted, and the big rod goes. "Small grace gives, big grace stays." "When a leader gives a small gift during the New Year's holidays, you can win people's hearts; you and your friends will increase friendship by inviting each other to eat a few meals; you will be happy if your uncle and aunt buy you some clothes; and a polite gesture from a passer-by can cause you to be comfortable...... In social life, a drizzle is better than a downpour.

In life, be a good person, but don't be a virgin, never give too much to others, help a little if you can, but you can get good rewards.

Helping people is also a technical job, helping well is called doing good, and helping bad is called helping evil.