Luo Nan knew that he couldn't escape this knife, and he had to face it after all. He took a deep breath to try to appear as calm as possible, and maintained a kind and focused smile on his face: "I don't want to discuss this issue from the perspective of the virgin-female complex, in my opinion, Liu Xin, the reason why you are disappointed is because the expectations do not match the reality. Before you have sex with your girlfriend, you have some kind of fantasy about her and impose your expectations on her. So when you find out that things don't go as planned, and she's not what you thought she was, you're disappointed. ”

Liu Xin listened intently and nodded slightly. Several times, Ronan found that he seemed to want to interject, but Ronan did not pause and did not give him a chance to interject for the time being, because the passage he said needed to be fully stated and could not be interrupted.

"Because of the disappointment and the resulting dissatisfaction with your girlfriend, you will have a hard time getting along with your girlfriend for the rest of the day, often arguing, and not tolerating even the smallest mistakes from her. ”

Liu Xin finally couldn't help but interrupt: "Teacher Xiaoluo, do you think I should break up with her?"

Luo Nan smiled: "As a psychological counselor, I can't suggest that you break up with her or not, such a decision must be made by yourself after you have cleared your mind, I just analyze it with you and grasp this matter as a whole." ”

Liu Xin lowered his head and whispered: "If you say it, you don't say it." ”

Cheng Guangli covered his mouth and smiled secretly.

Luo Nan actually has a lot to say, but he can't organize it for a while, and he is anxious.

At this time, Teacher Huang Yaokun spoke slowly: "I think Xiao Luo said it very well, no one can tell you who you should be with, who you should not be with, and who you choose, it is your freedom." I would like to add one more point of observation. Xiao Liu, judging from your statement, although you have a lot of conflicts with your girlfriend now, you are still nostalgic for her gentleness, and you are reluctant to hurt her, so you have been hesitant. ”

"I think you should do an individual counseling session, and if you can overcome your 'virgin-woman complex' in counseling, I think many conflicts between you and your girlfriend can be easily resolved. If there is really no way to overcome it, then perhaps breaking up is a responsible approach for both parties. ”

Liu Xin lowered his head and thought about it, and suddenly looked up at Huang Yaokun: "Teacher Huang, can you give me a consultation?"

Huang Yaokun said gently: "Yes, when the salon is over, let's make an appointment." ”

The development of individual psychological counseling targets in psychological salons is the norm in counseling rooms. Most of the visitors first attend the salon and feel that the atmosphere is appropriate and the style of the consultant meets their requirements, and then choose the consultant to do in-depth communication.

Other visitors are mostly referrals from people who have consulted here before. Only a small part of them found information on the Internet, called or contacted through QQ for consultation.

So Luo Nan originally had the expectation that he would get his first visitor at this salon.

It's a pity that some people at the salon did want to do psychological counseling, but they chose Mr. Huang.

It is no wonder that when people choose a counselor, they often choose to be older, because they feel that such counselors are experienced and experienced, and can help them solve their problems.

Therefore, psychological counselor is a profession that becomes more and more popular the older you get.

Luo Nan had a faint envy in his heart, but it did not affect his mood because of this, and continued to preside over the salon step by step.

"So that's the end of today's topic, thank you all for sharing, it was a great experience. I hope you will continue to participate in the salons we organize in the future. After Luo Nan finished his closing remarks, he let out a long breath and felt like his vest was soaked with sweat. Everyone gave Luo Nan a warm applause, and then walked out of the door one after another.

Luo Nan watched them leave in disappointment, and in the end, no one wanted to ask him for individual counseling.

After all the people who participated in the salon left the room, Huang Yaokun smiled and said, "You have done a good job, you can see that you have prepared carefully." ”

"Thank you," Ronan hid his disappointment, "I know I still have a lot to do, but I really learned a lot today, and I hope there will be a chance to host the salon in the future." ”

"There will be. Huang Yaokun said with a smile.

Deng Xiaoru packed up the record book and said with a smile: "Luo Nan, you are awesome, much better than when I first hosted the salon." ”

Before Luo Nan could say a few words of modesty, Cheng Guangli sneered and said, "Can he compare with you? After your first salon, two people came to you to make an appointment for individual consultation. ”

Deng Xiaoru said with a smile: "It's just that their aura is more compatible with mine, Luo Nan's hosting is very exciting, and the atmosphere of the venue has been stimulated, and the discussion is very lively." ”

Huang Yaokun said with a smile: "Xiao Cheng, don't worry, you will host the salon next week to see if you can develop into a case object." ”

Cheng Guangli was pleasantly surprised: "Thank you, Mr. Huang!

Ronan was even more lost. It seems that Mr. Huang is still not satisfied with himself, and those words of praise are just a little encouragement for himself.

He sat in his chair, his head drooping, thinking about his performance in the salon, smiling and gritting his teeth.

Looking back, it's easy to see a lot of things that didn't work well. Why didn't you notice it and make the best judgment at that time?

"Let's go, Xiao Luo, don't think about it, hurry up and pack up the venue and go back to rest. Huang Yaokun stood in front of Luo Nan at some point.

Luo Nan woke up like a dream: "Okay." ”

Together with Deng Xiaoru, he returned the chairs and others to their original positions and cleaned the ground. Cheng Guangli has been happy, still immersed in the good news, and did not help.

After cleaning up, Luo Nan walked out of the room, and when he looked up, he saw Liang Jiayi, a round-faced girl, standing at the reception desk, looking around.

Luo Nan greeted with a smile: "You haven't left yet?"

"I just quarreled with my boyfriend, and I don't know where to sleep tonight," Liang Jiayi lowered her head embarrassedly, "By the way, Mr. Luo, you hosted so well today, I feel that everyone likes you a lot." ”

"Thank you," Luo Nan regretfully thought, if everyone really liked me, someone should have made an appointment with me, "I feel that I still have a lot to lose, but next time I have the opportunity to be a host, I am confident that I will do better." ”

"You can definitely do it," Liang Jiayi smiled shyly, "After listening to what you said today, I figured out a lot." Teacher Luo, you, can you give me psychological counseling?"