Chapter 4: A sudden quarrel

In the sharing and discussion of everyone's turns, the salon went on in an orderly manner, and soon half of the time passed.

Luo Nan has been trying to control the rhythm of the salon, which is more difficult for him, after all, he has only watched those teachers preside, and this is the first time he has personally hosted, and he is always slow to respond to emergencies, and sometimes the handling may not be appropriate.

Overall, though, he thinks the tempo hasn't gotten out of hand and everyone has plenty of opportunities to speak. A small number of people have made deep self-exposure, most of them are just superficial, but this is normal, after all, this is not a closed group, and half of the members are joining for the first time, and it is not realistic to want them to do deep self-exposure, unless hypnosis is used.

It would be nice if it went smoothly like this.

As soon as this idea came to me, there was a sudden change in the field.

An older boy with long hair and a melancholy look like an artist spoke with a gloomy face: "...... After I had sex with my girlfriend, I found out that it wasn't the first time for her, and since then I feel bad about the whole person. often quarrels with her over a little thing, becomes more and more intolerant of many aspects of her, and often wants to propose a breakup. But she was very good to me, and it can even be said that she was obedient, so that I couldn't bear to say the word breakup. Teacher Luo, what do you think I should do?"

Luo Nan recalled the information of the big boy: Liu Xin, 24 years old, the same year as himself, worked in a securities company. MMP, why is the boy of the same age as himself already happily enjoying the cohabitation life with his girlfriend, but he is still a single dog......

This passage should belong to a deeper level of self-exposure, Luo Nan was about to encourage him, and then respond to his words, when suddenly a girl interjected: "Scumbag!"

The atmosphere in the arena froze.

Luo Nan followed the prestige, and the girl who interjected was slightly chubby, with delicate eyebrows and eyes, a wide chin, and combed bangs, looking ordinary. Her name is He Ying, 27 years old, a clothing salesperson in a shopping mall.

Liu Xin said angrily: "Who are you talking about!"

"It's a scumbag like you! Those who have a virgin-female complex are all scumbags with sick brains!" He Ying said not to be outdone.

Not good, started attacking each other. Luo Nan was anxious, and quickly glanced at Teacher Huang Yaokun, only to see Teacher Huang Yaokun smiling at the corner of his mouth, and a pair of eyes full of wisdom shining behind the thick lenses, observing this scene with interest.

By the way, I am the host today, and I must deal with any problems that arise by myself. What to say? How to calm the two sides?

Luo Nan was hesitating, and Liu Xin had already shouted: "It's the first time for me, and it's the first time for me to ask for my girlfriend, is there a problem?"

"There's a problem!" He Ying looked at Liu Xin with a fly gaze, "Since you can have sex before you get married, why can't your girlfriend?

Liu Xin was so angry that his lungs were about to explode, his eyes glared angrily, and he yelled: "Your mouth is so stinky, no wonder every ex-boyfriend doesn't want you, and you're still single!"

"You-"

Luo Nan knew that if no one came forward, this salon would be over. Of course, if he doesn't make a move, Teacher Huang Yaokun and Deng Xiaoru will also come to the rescue, but in that case, his evaluation of himself will drop to the extreme.

His gaze quickly scanned the audience, some frowned deeply, some covered their mouths with their hands and snickered, and some lowered their heads, wandering outside.

Teacher Huang Yaokun still looked interested, as if he was appreciating this conflict, Deng Xiaoru was looking back at him with deep worry in his eyes, and Cheng Guangli was gloating, waiting to see him make a fool of himself.

Luo Nan took a deep breath and said loudly, "Stop!"

"He Ying, we said before, we won't interrupt other people's speeches, and we won't comment on other people's speeches. It is impossible to agree with all the views of others, but everyone has the right to express their views without threat. I understand that you don't agree with Liu Xin's point of view, and I also understand Liu Xin's frustration. You look at this matter from different standpoints, and such arguments will never be right or wrong, and there will never be a result. Ronan said in as gentle a voice as possible.

He Ying shrank back, and said in a stiff voice, "Got it." ”

"Liu Xin, I'm sorry, and I'm grateful for your sharing, and I want to point out that although He Ying shouldn't have commented on you first, what you said to her was too much. Ronan laughed.

Liu Xin snorted, didn't look in He Ying's direction, and whispered, "I'm sorry, I didn't have a brain to speak just now." ”

Cheng Guangli showed a look of disappointment.

Luo Nan nodded with an approving smile: "Liu Xin, you have encountered some troubles now, and it is very likely that other people have encountered such troubles, and I think other people's speeches may inspire you." This is the meaning of our psychological salon, everyone is a helper, and everyone is also a helper. ”

The violent rise and fall of Liu Xin's chest gradually subsided, he nodded, glanced at He Ying provocatively, and then looked at Yi Cheng and said, "Teacher Xiaoluo, I want to hear your opinion first." ”

Luo Nan smiled, "I haven't had a similar experience. ”

Liu Xin insisted: "But you are a psychological expert, you can help me analyze it and point out the solution to me." ”

Luo Nan still kept smiling: "Okay, let's listen to what everyone has to say first, and then I'll make a concluding remarks, okay?"

Liu Xin tilted his head and thought for a while: "Yes." ”

Luo Nan knew that if this topic was to be talked about by the ladies, there was a chance that it would be subjective, and Liu Xin would not give Liu Xin any good looks, so he named another man: "Wang Xuesheng, can you say a few words? You don't speak much tonight, and you seem to have reservations." Can you share with us your feelings, your thoughts?"

Wang Xuesheng looks to be in his early thirties, with a chubby face that is a little puffy, a double chin, a thick neck, and a pair of thick black-framed glasses, which is a little bald.

He coughed dryly and stammered slightly: "I, I don't think about it, I want to say, I, I'm not an expert in love, I came here to listen to others more." ”

Luo Nan smiled and encouraged him: "The moment you heard Liu Xin's speech, you must have some thoughts in your head. Can you share with us your thoughts?"

Wang Xuesheng was restless for a long time, and finally spoke again: "Okay......"

After everyone finished sharing, Yi Cheng looked at Liu Xin with a smile: "Did you gain anything from everyone's response just now?"

Liu Xin's face was no longer so gloomy, and he nodded: "There are some gains, but I still haven't figured out what to do." Teacher Xiaoluo, let's talk about it, I want to hear your opinion. ”