"I wish someone would love me!"

"I'm so lonely!"

"I can't do anything well, what a failure!"

These are the calls from the bottom of Liang Jiayi's heart, the most deep-rooted thoughts!

Since having a younger sister, Liang Jiayi's parents have paid less attention to her, which is why she is so eager to be loved and attention.

She is not very capable and cannot excel at work, she is too attached to her boyfriend and is always afraid of being betrayed, so she loves and kills her boyfriend, always repeating the pattern of arguments between her parents, she makes her boyfriend breathless, so that he sometimes wants to stay away from her, she craves her parents' love too much, so she resents them when they can't give her the attention she needs......

Which of her thoughts should be strengthened? Looking at Liang Jiayi, who was in a hypnotic state, with crimson cheeks and even breathing, Luo Nan fell into thought.

For a while, I really can't decide!

But you can't leave her alone. Luo Nan weighed for a long time and looked up at the wall clock, it was almost time for the consultation to end.

Then don't expect to cure her in one go.

He gently held Liang Jiayi's hand, and once again used the "god-level hypnotic technique", trying his best to sense! In those complicated thoughts, Luo Nan finally found a suitable one.

"No matter how difficult it is, I have the courage to make a change!"

Under the nourishment of Luo Nan's continuous "qi", this idea quickly grew and became one of Liang Jiayi's strongest and deepest thoughts.

"You have a lot to change. The question is, do you have the courage to change?" Ronan whispered.

"Yes, I have the courage to make a change!" Liang Jiayi's whisper was full of power.

"Very well," said Lonan, "now I'll count from 1 to 3." When I count to 3, you'll be back in the moment, and you'll be more awake and more agile and refreshed. 1. Wake up gradually. 2. You feel back to the present, back to the consulting room. 3. Open your eyes, wake up completely, and get back to the present!"

Liang Jiayi's eyelids moved, then slowly opened, and after looking at Luo Nan with dull eyes for a few seconds, her eyes gradually recovered, and a smile appeared at the corner of her mouth: "Thank you, Teacher Luo, I feel much better." ”

"That's good," Ronan smiled indifferently, "then that's the end of today, the same time next week." Now that you have the courage to change, let's talk about what you need to do next week. ”

"Okay. Goodbye, Teacher Luo!" Liang Jiayi picked up her bag, nodded at Luo Nan, and walked out of the consultation room in a curling manner.

Ronan breathed a sigh of relief. It's tiring!

Today's counseling also made him realize that perhaps in most of the consultations, it is not that reinforcing one thought can make the client change dramatically, but that it is necessary to repeatedly strengthen different thoughts, and gradually let the client get rid of the past thinking and behavior patterns.

Next, it is necessary to focus on helping Du Zhenzhen. If he can successfully help Du Zhenzhen change his sexual orientation, it may also be a major turning point in his life! With 500,000 yuan in hand, he can no longer rely on the golden wheat field and establish his own personal psychological counseling room.

Walking out of the consultation room with a tired expression, Luo Nan walked up to Teacher Huang Yaokun and said respectfully, "Teacher Huang, I have a question I want to ask. ”

"Sit down," Huang Yaokun put down the book in his hand, "How did the consultation just go?"

"I can only say that it's okay, and the expected effect has been achieved. Luo Nan pulled out a chair and sat down next to Huang Yaokun.

Huang Yaokun turned the boss's chair and faced Luo Nan face to face: "Have you made an appointment for the next consultation?"

"I made an appointment. ”

"That's good, it means that the client feels the change and progress in your consultation and is willing to continue," Huang Yaokun said with satisfaction, "What do you want to ask?"

Lonan pondered the words: "If you want to counsel a homosexual person and change his sexual orientation, what do you do?"

"Why do you suddenly ask this question? Do you have gay friends around you?" asked Huang Yaokun with a smile.

Luo Nan nodded, "yes, I want to see if I can help." ”

"You can't give your friends counseling, you shouldn't forget that, right?"

Luo Nan hurriedly explained: "Actually, it's not my friend, I can only say that I am a friend of someone I know. ”

"Sexual orientation problem......" Huang Yaokun's fingers unconsciously tapped on the table, "It's tricky, we don't usually take this kind of case." First of all, you have to find out whether the other person is a problem with their sexual orientation caused by genes or an acquired environment. If it's the former, then don't bother with it, it's almost impossible to change. ”

"I understand. Ronan nodded.

Huang Yaokun smiled kindly: "If it's the latter, it depends on whether the other party takes the initiative to change his sexual orientation." If so, then there is still a little hope. If the other party does not take the initiative, but only reluctantly accepts counseling under the persuasion of his family and friends, it is almost impossible to change. ”

Luo Nan's heart sank. Although he has long known that the problem of sexual orientation is difficult to change, even Teacher Huang Yaokun said so, he really lost his confidence.

Huang Yaokun smiled and said: "Assuming that the client is actively asking for a change in sexual orientation, and his problem is not caused by genes, but by the acquired environment, then the simple solution is percussion therapy." Show him videos of same-sex-*** and give him electric shocks when he is sexually arousal, and encourage and reinforce when he is shown videos of opposite-sex-***. ”

Luo Nan said with a bitter face: "Let's assume that there are no conditions to use shock therapy, is there any other way?"

"Of course there is," Huang Yaokun said with a smile, "If it's psychoanalytic therapy, go to find the trauma of the other party, find the root of his abnormal sexual orientation, and help him repair." If it is humanistic therapy, it is not necessary to deliberately pay attention to his sexual orientation, encourage him to face his true self sincerely, encourage him not to be influenced by past experiences, see what he really wants, and he will gradually change his sexual orientation, if it is cognitive-behavioral therapy, explore what are the irrational beliefs and negative automatic beliefs that cause his abnormal sexual orientation, and help him correct his ......"

Luo Nan sighed: "It's easier said than done. ”

Huang Yaokun smiled and shook his head: "Of course, the problem of sexual orientation is one of the most difficult problems to correct. ”

Maybe...... Luo Nan thought to herself, she really couldn't solve Du Zhenzhen's problem with psychological counseling, so she could only try to find a suitable idea in her heart and strengthen it with god-level hypnosis.

But will she give herself such a chance?