Chapter 27: Liang Jiayi's Second Consultation
Before going to Du Zhenzhen, there is one more thing that needs to be completed, and that is the second consultation with Liang Jiayi.
At 3 p.m. on Saturday, Liang Jiayi appeared on time in the golden wheat field. She was still dressed fashionably, wearing light makeup, and her round face looked a little haggard.
After taking a seat in the counseling room, Ronan first asked her how she had felt in the past week.
"It's annoying. The first two days after the consultation last time were fine, and then it was the same again. Everything didn't go well, I couldn't sleep at night, and I didn't have energy during the day. ”
"Where's your boyfriend, are you reconciled?"
Liang Jiayi's voice was low: "Not yet." I always feel like we can't get through this hurdle. ”
"Don't say it so absolutely, let's try it first, your contradiction this time is not unsolvable. Lonan said with a smile.
"Let him be, I think, it's better to break up now than to delay it for a few more years and have to break up, at least I can find another one while I'm young. Liang Jiayi said angrily.
"But you can't be sure right now that you'll 'have to break up' in a few years. ”
"Yes...... Liang Jiayi thought for a while, "I really can't be sure." But I always had this hunch. ”
Luo Nan still hasn't been able to figure out what the root cause of Liang Jiayi's psychological problems is. He felt that he could only collect more information, so he smiled slightly and changed the subject: "Last time you said that your parents have a bad relationship and often quarrel, and you also have problems communicating with them. I'd like to know, have you communicated during this time?"
"I called back the other day and had a fight with them," Ms. Liang said, "Don't mention it, every time I call back, it's torture." ”
"Can you tell me more about it?"
......
After chatting for half an hour, Luo Nan collected a lot of information, but he was still at a loss. He felt that Liang Jiayi's question was not so typical, and it was a little difficult to judge.
From a cognitive-behaviorist point of view, there is no doubt that she has some irrational beliefs, such as absolutization and some negative automatic thinking. But can she be cured of her psychological problems from here?
From a psychoanalytic point of view, she also suffered a lot of setbacks in her childhood, and her resistance is very obvious now, but starting from here and helping her to repair will definitely produce curative effects?
Speaking of which, Han Mengxiong's child the night before yesterday was actually more serious, but because it was more typical, it was easier for Luo Nan to judge clearly and start treatment even if Luo Nan was inexperienced.
Liang Jiayi's problem - simply described as a middle-aged resentful woman, who doesn't like this, can't get used to that, is always angry, and is prone to conflicts with close people around her.
Luo Nan couldn't help but start thinking, if Teacher Lin Peiying, Teacher Huang Yaokun, Teacher Zhou Yuefei and others were here, how would they start treatment?
Anyway, let's hypnotize her first.
Luo Nan smiled and said, "Liang Jiayi, let's try hypnotherapy." ”
Liang Jiayi nodded, and her expression looked a little excited for the first time: "Yes, I've been curious about hypnosis for a long time, and I've always wanted to try it." How can I cooperate?"
"You can lie down in the most comfortable way, with your hands at your sides naturally and relaxing. ”
Liang Jiayi lay down on the couch and closed her eyes.
"Relax, hands naturally at your sides. Pay attention to your breathing, inhale deeply, and exhale forcefully. Every inhale inhales the oxygen and various beneficial substances in the air and flows through the whole body, and every exhalation expels carbon dioxide, all kinds of harmful substances in the body, as well as your pain and depression......"
"Imagine a ray of light scanning from your head to your feet. Wherever the light scans, relax there. You feel your scalp relax, your eyes and the muscles around your eyes relax, your cheeks relax, and your ears relax...... Relax your toes ......"
Luo Nan said the instructions clearly while soothing and spitting out words, while paying attention to Liang Jiayi's breathing and various reactions.
Compared with Han Mengxiong, Liang Jiayi's sensitivity is a little worse, but by this time she is almost in a hypnotic state.
Ronan continued: "All other voices are meaningless noises, you only pay attention to my voice, you can only hear my voice. Now, imagine that you have a huge warm crystal in front of you, just looking at the crystal, you will feel that your heart is full of energy and warmth...... You touch the crystal and feel the warm energy flowing from your hands into your body, removing all your pain and anger. Your whole being becomes more and more comfortable and relaxed...... You find that you can enter the crystal. You start walking inside the crystal. With each step, you will be more comfortable and relaxed. ”
"1, you feel very comfortable. 2...... 6. You feel like you're in a deeper hypnotic state, 7...... 10。 You have entered the inside of the crystal. ”
"Look around, what do you see?"
Liang Jiayi said in a dreamy voice: "Light...... I saw light, a lot of light, a warm light. ”
"Very well," Ronan said slowly, "and if you look closer, what else do you see?"
Liang Jiayi's brows furrowed: "I see ...... My boyfriend. ”
"Very well, what is he doing?"
"He's talking to other girls. ”
Is that what you're worried about?" Ronan thought thoughtfully. Not sure about your relationship and always worried that your boyfriend will cheat?
"If you look elsewhere, what else can you see?"
"I see...... See our boss. ”
"Very well, what is your boss doing?"
"He's criticizing me and saying I'm not doing things well. ”
What kind of imagery are they? Luo Nan felt helpless.
He repeated the question several times, and every time Liang Jiayi's mind appeared small fragments of false life, which were often negative situations, and they were not suitable for development.
Luo Nan felt helpless. His hypnotism is still just a beginner, and he doesn't have enough experience to know how to continue.
After thinking about it, he made up his mind to use his best to sense Jiang Jiayi's thoughts according to the luck of "god-level hypnosis".
Those thoughts that came and went were like bubbles, gushing out one by one and bursting quickly. Due to his lack of skill, he still couldn't clearly sense what those thoughts were, and he couldn't firmly grasp those thoughts in a fleeting moment.
And his "qi" is also depleting rapidly.
He found that a few of these thoughts, standing out from the crowd, did not disappear quickly after birth, Luo Nan carried the remaining "qi" and tried his best to sense these thoughts, and these thoughts slowly became clear.