When Luo Nan inadvertently looked up and saw the wall clock on the wall, he was shocked.

Why is it only 50 minutes? It's almost time to end this consultation.

What did I do in those 50 minutes...... Looks like nothing has been done.

I haven't even decided which school of thought to use for counseling.

Lonan is far from the time to choose a genre. In fact, the training of psychological counselors in China is also relatively comprehensive and simplistic, and the general psychological counselors know a little bit about each school, and the skills of each school will also be used, but they are not specialized.

Consultants who can specialize in a certain consulting genre can be regarded as a famous expert in China.

Lonan himself prefers a cognitive-behaviorist approach to counseling, and also agrees with some of the ideas of humanism, but his favorite hypnosis was developed by the psychoanalytic school.

It is unthinkable in developed countries to have not yet determined their own school of counseling at the time of clinical consultation. But this is the situation in the country, everyone plays like this, and Luo Nan is also at ease.

However, at least in a single consultation, it is necessary to determine which type of counseling method you use.

Because various schools of thought, such as refinement, humanism, cognition, behavior, and gestalt, have different views on the causes, solutions, and evaluation of counseling effects of psychological problems.

If you don't even decide what genre you want to use in this consultation, you will definitely not be able to carry out the consultation.

Of course, this initial consultation can only be regarded as an intake meeting, with the primary task of gathering information and establishing a good relationship with the client.

Luo Nan thinks that the information has been collected almost, and the consultation relationship seems to be OK to be established?

He said tentatively: "Jiayi, today's consultation is almost over. I'd like to ask you one more question, a question that you didn't answer positively before. ”

"So fast?" Liang Jiayi turned her head to look at the wall clock, "Okay, you ask." ”

Her complexion was much better than when she first arrived, and she began to smile a little. Judging from her choice of words "so fast", she should have felt more pleasant during this time. Although effective counseling is not necessarily pleasant, the fact that she feels happy shows that the counseling relationship is well established, at least she does not find it difficult.

Ronan smiled and asked, "What prompted you to change your consultation time?

"Didn't I say it, there's something going on over the weekend. Liang Jiayi said unhappily.

Luo Nan smiled and nodded, not making a sound.

Liang Jiayi stopped talking. After a moment of silence, she said, "Actually, I called my boyfriend in the morning and said that I was going to have psychological counseling on Saturday and couldn't accompany him to socialize." He lost his temper with me, saying what kind of nerves I have, what should I do to counsel ......"

"How did you respond?"

Liang Jiayi tilted her head and thought about it: "I said that I have a psychological problem, what's wrong with the need for counseling, and I will break up if I can't get used to it." ”

"And then?"

The corners of Liang Jiayi's mouth showed a wry smile: "Then my boyfriend said, then divide it, and hang up the phone." I can't even remember how many times we've broken up. ”

Luo Nan didn't know how to answer this sentence. Talking about breaking up at every turn, it seems that Liang Jiayi is immature in this relationship. And her boyfriend is so cold and says "then let's break up", which shows that there is a big problem with the way they get along.

Exploring from this point, can we find the root cause of Liang Jiayi's psychological problems?

Ronan wasn't sure. And the time for this consultation was approaching, so he had to say with a sympathetic smile: "I hope you can reconcile as soon as possible, and don't make trouble because of this kind of thing." ”

"I'm just ignoring him, whatever he wants, just divide it," Liang Jiayi said angrily, "It's not like no one wants me." ”

In that case, why are you moving forward the consultation time?

Luo Nan didn't ask, but Liang Jiayi obviously understood his gaze and explained: "Because I was in a bad mood, I booked a ticket for Friday and was going to go to the beach to play with my classmates, so I advanced the consultation." ”

Luo Nan nodded. "So that's all for today, will we still have this time next week?"

When he asked this sentence, he was very nervous, for fear that Liang Jiayi would say, "I feel that this consultation is of little use to me, so I should not come."

Fortunately, Liang Jiayi just smiled shyly: "Let's change it to a weekend next week." I skipped work today, so I won't be able to make excuses next time. ”

"Okay, then next Saturday, at the same time. Lonan stood up.

"Thank you, Mr. Luo, I talked to you for a while, and I feel much more comfortable," Liang Jiayi stood up elegantly, "By the way, don't you have to give me homework or something?"

Luo Nan had a fever on his face. He had forgotten about it. But now he can't think of what homework to assign, because he still has no clue about Liang Jiayi's problem. It stands to reason that after the intake meeting, I should tell Liang Jiayi my preliminary judgment of her psychological problems, inform her of the counseling methods and steps she will adopt, and then assign the corresponding homework.

But he didn't have a clue now, so he couldn't assign proper homework.

"Forget it for today, next time. He could only do that.

"Okay, see you next Saturday. After Liang Jiayi walked out of the consultation room, Luo Nan almost collapsed on the short sofa, unable to move.

This consultation is so tiring!

After a long time, he walked out of the consultation room, ready to go to the consultation record and sort out his thoughts.

As soon as he sat down, Deng Xiaoru leaned over and asked excitedly: "How is it, tell me about your experience!"

"One word, tired. Ronan said lazily.

"Of course, you have to listen attentively throughout the whole process, of course you are tired," Deng Xiaoru asked, "I am asking you, what are the gains, what are her psychological problems, and how are you going to treat her." ”

Luo Nan said slowly, "It seems that I can't tell you this. ”

"That's right, confidentiality. Deng Xiaoru was discouraged and returned to her seat in a daze.

Luo Nan opened a brand-new case notebook, unscrewed the pen holder, and the tip of the pen hung on the paper for three points, but it couldn't fall down, and his mind was empty.

He sighed, put down his pen, and took out his phone to rummage through the circle of friends. At this time, I found that there was an unread WeChat, which was by Tian Jingmei, and the content was only one word, "good".

He looked at the time, it was past six o'clock, and it should still be too late.

Then I touched my trouser pocket: it seemed that it was only more than forty yuan.

You can't just go on a date with such a small amount of money, right?