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"Grandfather, sure enough, Jiang is still old and spicy, Dad basically said that he couldn't win me, and I, when I came to you, you basically made me speechless. ”

Yan Zhongming shook his head, "This is the truth, in the eyes of grandfather, your father is young, but you are still a child, it is very normal not to understand these truths." ”

"Well, my grandfather's words today will be taken to heart. ”

Yan Zhongming smiled when he heard this, and then said, "You don't need to say it so seriously, it's all said, you are still young, even if you do something wrong, it doesn't matter." The son of the world is older than you, so he will naturally tolerate you and teach you.

Your personality looks soft and glutinous on the surface, but in fact you are a strong person. In general, my grandfather believed that you could handle it properly, but there were some fundamental things, and my grandfather hoped that you could learn to overcome the rigid with softness, rather than blindly being tough.

In this regard, the prince is a man in the end, and many times, even if he has the heart to tolerate you, I am afraid that he will not be able to react in an instant because of the man's consistent habits, so at these times, you have to learn to bow your head first, back down first, wait for the atmosphere to ease up, and then discuss things seriously. At that time, if you feel wronged, it's okay to spit out your bitterness, it's okay to cry, and presumably the son of the world will also soften down, and let you vent the grievances in your heart. ”

Some people may think that a manly husband should be tolerant of all rivers and rivers, and give in to his wife at all times in family life with a man's heart. But all human beings have their own tempers. It's okay once or twice, and it's okay to do it a hundred times and a thousand times, but for the rest of your life, no matter when, where, and what's going on, you have to ask the woman for forgiveness in a low voice first, and endure the woman's unreasonable troubles, which is really too harsh standards.

Some people can do it, and many more people can never really do it.

What's more, husband and wife are one, and there is nothing that cannot be said openly. Whoever bows his head first can do it, for the sake of family happiness, can't even let go of face or some negative emotions in his heart, and let them ruin the relationship between the two?

This couldn't be more stupid.

Yan Shunhua nodded again and again, she actually understood the truth, but she was still very skeptical that after the relationship between the two completely collapsed, she really had the confidence to continue.

Compared to living alone outside, it is really torture to live together under the same roof after the emotional gap.

In this way, it is better to separate.

She thinks that what Yan Zhongming said is very reasonable, similar to a sentence she once heard - if you have the courage to die, don't you have the courage to live?

If you have the courage to leave and live again, don't you have the courage to stay and get through the difficulties together and find all the solutions that can be solved?

But then again, she doesn't think her ideas are completely wrong and worthless.

After all, if it weren't really impossible to live, who would be desperate and would rather die than live well? If it weren't for the suffocating factor in love, which made people feel that there was no way to force themselves to stay, to face the same desperate other party, who would be willing to easily leave their beloved partner?

She truthfully said her thoughts again, Yan Zhongming paused, and then said, "There is no endless road, you have to believe that you are deeply blessed, and the fate between you and the son of the world is even more rare." What's more, the worst-case scenario that you envisioned in the future would largely not happen, in my opinion.

It is not easy for you to give up your stable life to marry him, but the things that the son of the world has paid behind in order to marry you must be far beyond the imagination of ordinary people. You just have to follow your heart, but he has to take into account all the things, and then lay the groundwork one by one, so that he can be thoughtful, and then ask for marriage with confidence.

If there is a problem in the future, as long as you can think about it, endure it, and endure it if you can't bear it, things may take a turn for the better, and the problems that you thought could not be solved at that time will be easily solved.

Have faith in yourself, and have faith in the Son. In this way, we can achieve long-term and consummation. ”

Yan Shunhua was silent, and then nodded, "Yes, Grandfather Xie taught, Shunhua wrote it down." ”

The two talked about some other issues, probably after a tea time, but Yan Zhongming suddenly asked Bai Runzhi and the Fang family questions.

"Fang family, don't let them live for a long time, I'd rather contribute people and spend a lot of money, but also let them go back to Fang's house to live, otherwise, the four rooms will never have peace. In this case, your grandfather will only tell you once, and when you go back, you will mention to your father that he is a dead brain, so you should be tactful and persuade him as soon as possible.

In addition, the mother and son of the Huo family are very good, after so many years, even your father and mother treat them as adopted daughters and grandsons, I thought, it is better to officially let her join our Yan family, in this way, no matter how you want to help, you can justify it. ”

Yan Shunhua was not surprised, but smiled bitterly.

"Grandfather, the matter of the Fang family is really right for you. But my dad can't help me, although he doesn't agree, thinking that I am not above board, but in the end I blocked the words, a little later, you will see the result, don't worry about this.

As for the second incident, my father said that I was a donkey and stubborn to death, but Wanwan was as good as me. My father and mother have told me this, and I have asked her several times, but every time, she refused.

One is that she doesn't want to change her surname, and the other is that she is determined to serve me for the rest of her life, and would rather be a slave than a free family. Live like a normal person.

If Second Brother Bai doesn't show up, I still want to let Shen Jingyuan come forward when I get married, and let her stay no matter what method is used. But you also know that Second Brother Bai appeared, and he also discovered the fact that Brother Jin is his own son, and now his relationship with Wanwan's mother and son is well known in the village. ”

The most important thing is that these two people actually live together openly in the fourth room. Although Huo Wanwan originally wanted to take care of him conveniently, so that Bai Runyi would not accidentally braid, but now there is no way to do it like before no matter what.

Bai Runzhi was ruthless to himself, and he was also ruthless to Huo Wanwan, and he actually gnawed people clean, although there was no Ming Media marrying, but now this kind of life is completely the model of an old husband and wife.

Huo Wanwan has been silent, Bai Runzhi is obviously satisfied and deterred, Yan Shunhua doesn't want to see these two people at all at this stage, let alone interfere.

Sure enough, everything is possible, people are not as good as heaven, and plans are not as fast as change......

Yan Zhongming didn't expect that Yan Shunhua would tell herself such an embarrassing thing, and she was stunned for a long time before she came back to her senses, a little helpless, and in the end, she was not so open, so she kept silent, and did not express her opinion until she left.

Today's young people, if they don't like to hear a word, they really don't know the height of the sky, but when they think about it, they are also full of passion, dare to think and dare to do, they are not afraid of failure, and they are still brave when they are afraid.

At this moment, he really felt old and wanted to rest.

(To be continued.) )