readx;? Yan Shengguo was speechless, although he still didn't agree with her outrageous thoughts, but there was a faint feeling in his heart that she was right. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

Just like Yan Zhongming taught their brothers since he was a child, if he doesn't go out, he won't know the size of the world and countless strange things.

His eldest brother went to appreciate the excitement and helplessness outside, and when he finally returned to the village, his vision was far from being comparable to him, until today, even if he read a lot of books in the days when his legs and feet were inconvenient, but he still felt that if the eldest brother came back to life, he still could not compare with the other party in terms of knowledge.

If the eldest brother was here, he would definitely not be as fuss about his youngest daughter's thoughts as he was. Oh, no, I should say I'm sure she's got the right idea.

Thinking of this, Yan Shengguo sighed lightly.

"Forget it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, your father and I, I'm old, I can't understand what a little girl like you thinks. As long as it's really what you want to do, then do it, don't cry because of it in the future, and run back to your parents' house to move the rescuers. ”

The implication is that he can't control it, what is she doing.

Yan Shunhua smiled and poured him a new cup of tea, "Dad, far water can't save the near fire, I'll watch it myself." Thank you, Dad! Sure enough, Dad is reasonable, Shen Jingyuan's elm pimple, when he mentions this topic now, he can't wait to tear me up, and he is about to annoy him to death for being so stingy. ”

Yan Shengguo finally couldn't help it, and rolled his eyes decisively, and his actions really suppressed Yan Shunhua, making her stunned on the spot, and the happiness she originally wanted to show was completely replaced by a shocked expression.

"To explain it in what you said, just because I don't disagree doesn't mean I'm in favor of it. You, in the end, are young, and you will really suffer a loss in the future, and you will learn to be obedient if you fall on your heels. ”

Yan Shengguo shook his head, drove Yan Shunhua out in a daze, and then closed the door of the study and started to spend time alone.

No, to be precise, it's with the fragrance of books.

Yan Shunhua stood outside the study for a while before going out and going to the ancestral hall to visit Yan Zhongming.

When they met, they naturally talked about their thoughts, and sure enough, Yan Zhongming laughed, curious about the scene where the father and daughter almost quarreled.

"Your father, he's been such a bull temper since he was a child. If it hadn't been an accident at the beginning, under the guidance of your uncle, intentionally or unintentionally, it would have changed subtly. Now you just do what he wants. No matter what he says, just know it yourself. ”

Yan Shunhua was truly shocked this time, "Grandfather, what do you mean, you agree with my idea?"

"I don't agree, but it doesn't mean that I will object, isn't this what you once said? When you get along with Brother Yong'er and them, you always guide them with your heart and seek common ground while reserving differences. If you don't agree with the ideas of others, it doesn't mean that you can't appreciate it.

Your father said that you were too young, and in the eyes of your grandfather, he was living too comfortably. There is a family shelter outside, and your mother stands in front to shelter him from the wind and rain, and you brothers and sisters help silently. For the past ten or twenty years, he has been living in his own world and feeling sorry for himself.

If it weren't for not being strong enough, how could it just go through a setback and collapse?"

Although Yan Zhongming stays at home most of the time, he actually knows everything in his heart that he shouldn't know.

"Daddy, in fact, is not so bad, grandfather, don't talk as if he used to live like a child all along. Although I don't know the details of that accident, it must have had a great impact on him, not only did it disable his legs, but more importantly, something else that happened at that time must have caused him a psychological breakdown. Otherwise, it would not have been possible to completely come out of the shadow of grief for so many years. ”

In fact, Yan Shunhua once guessed whether Yan Shengbang's death was related to Yan Shengguo, for example, because he wanted to save his younger brother, so Yan Shengbang, who was good, was ambushed or lost his life, and although Yan Shengguo survived because of this, from then on, his spirit seemed to have been devastated, and it became a barren.

But all of this was just speculation that she didn't have a basis for. After all, in the previous accident, Yan Shengbang, the uncle of the Yan family, died, and Yan Shengguo, the fourth master of the Yan family, was disabled, which was an unbearable weight of life for Yan Zhongming and his wife.

Whether it was out of the mood of taking care of his wife and children, or for other reasons, Yan Zhongming later ordered all those in the know to keep silent, which also caused no one in the younger generation to know what happened back then.

Yan Zhongming was silent about her opinion, and did not continue to explain, but turned to another topic.

"Your father and daughter are able to discuss such issues in private, and it is obvious that the relationship is excellent, so my grandfather is also relieved. In the future, if he can't think about it again, you should go home more often to persuade him, or just send someone over to deliver a message, or even write a letter. He is more willing to take your opinion than others.

However, from another point of view, what your father said is also very pertinent. If you are a woman, no matter where you are, you will have a lot more constraints and inconveniences than men.

Even if you have the prince behind you in the future, there are still many, many restrictions. Of course, if you just want to make a little money to support yourself and enjoy some convenience like walking around, the prince can still help you achieve it.

It's just that, as your father said, those so-called thoughts that you really can't go on and don't owe each other, don't think about it.

You come from an unpredictable background, but you were able to come to our Yan family, and then meet the son of the world and achieve marriage, which originally shows that the two of you have a fate far beyond ordinary people.

We often say cherish fate, cherish fate, this cherish, not only in the time of love and sweetness, but also in the encounter of no way to solve the dilemma of mutual understanding and support.

The so-called can't go on is just a dilemma in the relationship between men and women.

If you can give up such a hard-won deep relationship, and have the confidence to go out, you can still rely on your own hands to become self-reliant and live the life you want to walk around, then why can't you stay with the man who has not changed his original intention, expect changes, and finally manage your marriage?"

No matter what the reason, in Yan Zhongming's view, as long as it is really irreparable if it does not happen, then no matter how big the dilemma in life is, the two should work together to turn the tide.

Never give up, this is the ultimate meaning of marriage.

(To be continued.) )