Chapter 578: Divide and Merge
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Yan Shengguo's eyes widened, "Daddy is old, what if he can't support you? If you want to play such a game, you should also hang on the body of that stinky boy of the Shen family." Didn't he boast that he was a young and strong man who could turn the tide at any time and give people an absolute sense of security?
Yan Shunhua really couldn't cry or laugh, it seems that her father is getting older and older now.
"Alright, Dad, don't do that. I don't really want to swing, you let go and let me hang, I'm not too young, and I'm embarrassed. ”
Besides, if she dares to really do this, there is a good chance that she will overturn Shen Jingyuan's vinegar jar, and then she will have to coax herself for a while, asking for trouble, how cost-effective it is.
"Hmph, you also know that your boss is not small? marry in the future, don't always be whimsical, everything has that stinky boy in charge, you can be a happy housewife with peace of mind, it is best to hold the two for three years, first open up branches and leaves for the Shen family, and stabilize the position.
The other party's family has a big business, and as you said, it is a person who walks on thin ice, and many times he can't help himself.
For the sake of the interests of the entire Dingguo Mansion, even if he will not give up your interests, he may have to take a concubine due to external factors, so you should be more attentive and don't listen to him in everything.
Of course, it's not good to be too thoughtful and take care of everything, what is a man used for? If you don't let him do anything, he will gradually stop treating you as his own woman.
So, you can call him to work hard, when he is an old ox, he will be lazy if he does not whip, and he must hold on to the rope whip in his hand, do you hear?"
The corners of Yan Shunhua's eyes twitched, "Dad, are you letting me have an idea or not?"
Anyway, my daughter can't live without a man, the relationship between me and him is really desperate, it's a big deal to shoot and scatter, if he can't even resist the bloody wind and rain of the outside world, how can he hold up a sky for me?"
Yan Shengguo frowned when he heard this.
"Don't always say frustrating things like one shot and two in front of the stinky boy.
Whether you're true or not, it's hurtful. Once identified, and become a parent, then the husband and wife must be concentric in order to break the money, you have not yet married, and you begin to have such an idea that once you can't get by, you can't get by, you think you are chic, but it is really a stupid idea.
Don't be like this in the future, if a man really recognizes you, even if there is little love left, he will keep his promise and take responsibility. But if the woman herself gives up first, then he can abandon you with a clear conscience in the next moment. ”
Yan Shunhua wanted to sigh a little, not knowing how to express his thoughts clearly.
When facing Shen Jingyuan, she always told the truth like this, and then made trouble with him once or twice, things that were originally very clear and simple, but they were always complicated and dizzy.
Although there is no need to be honest with Yan Shengguo, Yan Shunhua feels that it is good to be able to get her father's understanding, and if there is any trouble in the future, someone will stand behind her without objecting to it.
"Dad, I know, maybe from your men's point of view, this is not something worth repeating, whether it is unnecessary or unlucky, after all, you don't like to hear it.
Actually, I don't like to emphasize it over and over again. It's just that the difference between men and women is that what seems very small to you often seems to us is something that involves core principles, just like the details determine success or failure. We have different perspectives on people and things, and even more so in the way we perceive the world, especially emotions. ”
Yan Shengguo raised his eyebrows, "So, what exactly do you want to say?"
Yan Shunhua pursed her lips, "No matter who I marry, I will have that idea." If I really encounter problems that cannot be solved, causing pain for both husband and wife, and even letting the children feel that kind of tension and uneasiness, then after careful consideration, I will definitely break up, that is, reconcile with each other, no matter how old I am, no matter what kind of turmoil it will cause, I will not stop until I reach my goal.
Dad, don't scold me yet. ”
Seeing Yan Shengguo's tiger glaring, he was about to open his mouth to criticize, but Yan Shunhua hurriedly blocked the words he was about to blurt out.
"My understanding of marriage is just the words 'good together, good at dispersing'. From the beginning, that was what I longed for and admired, but it had to be based on the fact that this ultimate obedience was worth doing. I have feelings for Shen Jingyuan, just as he still treats me as a treasure. That's why I want to join hands with him.
However, because of that sincerity, I cannot tolerate anything that would destroy my simple faith in the love of men and women, and I surrender my feelings, but I guard my dignity.
Shen Jingyuan insisted, I could stand side by side with him with my heart, if he couldn't, then the intimate relationship between the two would be over.
I can't get back the feelings I gave before, but I can take back my heart, I can leave, I can face the future without him, and rebuild my life. ”
That kind of life may lack the profound experience of love, and there is no way to appreciate that kind of happiness and beauty, but a person's life should not be simply confined to the experience of love.
There are many, many things to enjoy life, so many that even if you go all out, you can't do it completely.
Watching the white clouds and clouds roll up for a day, watching the reincarnation of flowers and plants in a mountain, listening to a heavy rainy night playing bananas, and playing a song to stir her heart, just such a simple thing can also make her feel that the years are quiet and three lives are lucky.
Not to mention that there will be a lot of free time, you can use your feet to measure the magnificence of the great rivers and mountains, you can taste the delicacies of the world, you can see and hear the stories of all kinds of people, and even participate in their lives, being a beautiful passerby, coming and going, but leaving warm memories for others.
The affairs of the world must be divided for a long time, and they must be divided for a long time, in fact, people are facing the same fate.
Individual joys, sorrows, and sorrows can be shared with others, but they cannot be borne by others. The world is a person, and our choices are actually only about ourselves, not others, even if the other party is our partner. (To be continued.) )